There is usually a good reason people are the way they are, and we've got to give them room while they're in the process of changing. If we're judgmental, holier than thou, look down on them, that's not going to help them to move forward. That's conditional love. If you meet all my demands, then I'll love you, then I'll accept you. No, God freely gave us mercy. Let's freely give other people mercy.

You may not understand someone but you don't have to understand them to love them. You don't have to agree with them to accept them.