<![CDATA[Focused and Flourishing]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/why-you-feel-ignored-even-when-they-re-listening Welcome to Focused & Flourishing with Coach Shondella, a relationship and communication podcast focused on emotional intelligence, healthy communication, and personal growth.

This podcast helps individuals and couples navigate real relationship challenges like miscommunication, emotional overwhelm, emotional avoidance, and feeling disconnected or unheard.

Each episode breaks down what’s happening beneath the surface in your relationships — giving you tools to improve communication, understand emotional triggers, set boundaries, and build stronger, healthier connections.

You’ll also gain insight into ADHD in relationships, emotional regulation, and the patterns that keep showing up in conflict and connection.

If you’re ready to improve your communication skills, strengthen your relationships, and grow in self-awareness…

This podcast is for you.

]]> RSS.com 2026.609.160344 Wed, 10 Jun 2026 04:27:13 GMT en 75d77046-d012-5d44-8fe0-74d365e54ca1 https://media.rss.com/why-you-feel-ignored-even-when-they-re-listening/20260427_030436_3dcd4c5ae502651e9e81f8426cccd067.png Focused and Flourishing https://rss.com/podcasts/why-you-feel-ignored-even-when-they-re-listening yes Coach Shondella Barkley 2026 Coach Shondella Barkley Coach Shondella Barkley false episodic podcast Baltimore, Baltimore, Maryland, 21202, USA Merriweather Post Pavilion, Dennis Lane, Columbia Town Center, Columbia, Howard County, Maryland, 21044, USA false <![CDATA[Why You Feel Guilty Setting Boundaries ]]> Why do so many people feel guilty for setting boundaries?

In this episode of Focused & Flourishing, we're talking about the guilt that often shows up when you finally start putting limits in place.

If you've ever felt selfish for saying no, worried about disappointing others, or questioned whether your boundaries were "too much," this conversation is for you.

The truth is, healthy boundaries aren't about pushing people away—they're about protecting your peace, honoring your needs, and creating healthier relationships.

Let's explore why boundary guilt happens, where it comes from, and how to move through it without abandoning yourself in the process.

And if this topic resonates with you, you'll find even more guidance on healthy communication, boundaries, and relationship dynamics in my book, Speak from the Heart: A Guide to Healthy and Transparent Communication.

💛 Let me ask you a very important question:

Do you feel guilty when you set boundaries… or do you feel empowered by them?

✨ Ready to do this work on a deeper level?

📧 Connect with me: shondella@the-ece.com

📱 Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube: @coachshondella | @coach_shondella

📚 Grab a copy of Speak from the Heart: A Guide to Healthy and Transparent Communication

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]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/why-you-feel-ignored-even-when-they-re-listening/2902676 8ac8734a-5186-4b11-ba89-f7b45b69136c 553 full 1 1 9 9 Wed, 10 Jun 2026 04:27:09 GMT false false <![CDATA[Why You Feel Ignored (even when they're listening)]]> You’re talking… they’re listening… but somehow you still feel ignored. Why? Because being heard and being understood are not the same thing. In this episode, we break down the difference—and how to communicate your needs more clearly so you stop feeling unseen. Let me ask you a very important question… Do you feel unheard… or misunderstood? If this spoke to you, share it. Connect with me: shondella@the-ece.com Follow me: @coachshondella #communication #relationships #feelingignored #adhdrelationships #coachshondella

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/why-you-feel-ignored-even-when-they-re-listening/2769876 2e83f3f6-8499-4fac-9b80-afcfdab741f0 236 full 1 1 4 4 Mon, 27 Apr 2026 03:28:27 GMT false false Baltimore, Baltimore, Maryland, 21202, USA Merriweather Post Pavilion, Dennis Lane, Columbia Town Center, Columbia, Howard County, Maryland, 21044, USA <![CDATA[Why We Argue on Repeat]]> ave you ever had the same argument… over and over again?

Different day. Different words. Same frustration.

In this episode of Focused & Flourishing, Coach Shondella breaks down why couples get stuck in repeating arguments—and it’s probably not what you think.

It’s not just about communication… It’s about what’s going unheard beneath the surface.

If you’ve ever felt like: ✨ “We keep going in circles” ✨ “They’re not hearing me” ✨ “Why does this keep coming up?”

This episode will help you understand what’s really happening—and how to shift from constant conflict to real connection.

💡 You’ll learn: ✔️ Why arguments repeat in relationships ✔️ The emotional layer most people miss ✔️ How to stop defending and start understanding ✔️ Simple shifts that can break the cycle for good

This isn’t about winning arguments… It’s about finally being heard.

💬 Let’s Connect 📩 Email: coachshondella@gmail.com 📱 Socials: @coachshondella (Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube)

If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs it 💛 And don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations on relationships and communication.

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