But the truth is simple: you can play the game without becoming the game. Then it's on to the hot topics of the week, including Tamara Mowry catching that Threads smoke, Usher and Chris Brown allegedly taking the “Black and Blue Tour” on the road, Sneako catching a Dr. Pepper-flavored fade, and Chad officially entering free agency as an NBA fan because the Chicago Bulls ain't worth a damn. Same show. Same shenanigans. Same necessary conversations. Tap in, laugh with us, argue with us, and let us know in the comments: How has imposter syndrome shown up in your life? Like, comment, subscribe, and share this with somebody who needs to hear it.

In this episode, we playfully discuss the things women do that confuse us. From expectations to communication, we take you inside the cigar room and right into the conversations we’re having.

It’s all love and laughter. So let’s have fun with it.

Are women confusing to you? How about the men?

Tap in and share your most confusing moments from the opposite sex in the comments.

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With the rise of social media discussions around masculinity, dating standards, and relationship roles, the idea of the high value man has sparked major debate. Some view it as a symbol of discipline, success, and leadership—while others see red flags, control, and unrealistic expectations.

We break down the key differences between confidence and toxicity, discuss common relationship dynamics, and challenge popular narratives around modern dating.

This episode is perfect for anyone interested in dating advice, relationship discussions, masculinity, and cultural conversations shaping today’s dating landscape.

Join the conversation and decide for yourself: Are high value men misunderstood… or just really toxic?

We dive into what it truly meant to grow up in the 90s, especially as Black kids navigating culture, community, and identity before the rise of social media (and thank God we didn't have social media back then!)

From unforgettable childhood moments to the raw humor of roast culture, we unpack how those experiences shaped who we are today.

Whether you lived it or are just curious about it, this conversation offers humor, honesty, and perspective on a generation that was raised a little tougher...and laughed a little louder.

In this segment, we discuss the Target boycott from our perspective. We share our thoughts on why the boycott won’t end and why this will impact the landscape of corporate spending as we know it.

Welcome to “Off the Flyness”. These segments don’t count as normal full length episodes, but rather serve as an “off the fly” discussion that needs to be addressed to the community. If you like what you see, hit that subscribe button! Spread the love by sharing our content with your friends and family!

Plus listen to us analyze, roast, and critique the viral Pretty Ricky video that's sweeping the internet right now!

If you love movie analysis, awards season predictions, pop culture commentary, and Oscars debates, this episode is for you! Tap into the eliticism and subscribe today!

But what if it’s actually poisoning minds?

In this episode of Unconscious Flyness, CookingWithPatLee and Chad DeShawn confront the rise of red pill ideology, manosphere culture, and dominance-driven masculinity narratives that are reshaping how young men think about women, relationships, power, and identity.

We break down how red pill content:

• Encourages emotional suppression and grievance-based thinking

• Frames women as adversaries instead of partners

• Promotes dominance as the foundation of masculinity

• Exploits male frustration for profit • Reinforces isolation under the disguise of “strength”.

We examine how rigid masculinity norms contribute to depression, loneliness, relationship breakdown, and hostility — while influencers package resentment as empowerment.

This isn’t an attack on men.

It’s a call for accountability. It's a call for collective understanding. It's a call to shift your mindsets from blame to self reflection.

Because when masculinity becomes a performance built on control and superiority, everybody loses — especially men.

We believe masculinity can be strong without being oppressive. Confident without being insecure. Disciplined without being cold.

If you’re tired of rage marketing disguised as self-improvement, this conversation is for you.

The red pill isn’t truth. It’s a trap.

And we’re breaking it down — piece by piece.

🎙 Subscribe and join the movement toward conscious masculinity.