Enjoy as he answers and gives an honest opinion about our family.

More importantly, we talk about how to step back, question those influences, and start forming opinions based on your own experiences. Because seeing clearly isn’t just about what’s in front of you, it’s about making sure you’re looking through your own lens, not someone else’s.

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Enjoy the interview with our daughter Maren May

What needs to be cleared out? What have you been holding onto that’s no longer serving you or your family? I take a deep dive into what intentional “spring cleaning” really looks like in these spaces, and how small, honest shifts can make a big impact.

As you listen, my hope is that something stands out to you. Something you can begin to purposefully clean out so you can create more goodness, connection, and peace in your everyday life.

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After accidentally leaving it out in the cold, I watched it slowly wither as I tried everything to save it. It felt like a lost cause. But just when I was ready to throw it away, I noticed something surprising. New life pushing up through the soil.

In this episode, I share that experience and the deeper lesson it revealed about resilience, patience, and the parts of us still growing, even when everything seems gone.

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If you don’t care, that’s okay. I still love you, and I’ll catch you in the next episode. But if you do, I’m sharing a real and honest update on my life as of March 2026.

If you need a little more information about Medicare, head on over to my other podcast on YouTube called Breit Guide Podcast!

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And I did.

Because here’s the truth: we are not called to stay comfortable.

It’s in the uncomfortable seasons where real growth happens, where we’re stretched, refined, and prepared for the goodness waiting on the other side of obedience.

So let me ask you, my friend: What areas of your life are you choosing comfort over your calling? What nudges have you been ignoring?

Purpose doesn’t live in the easy.

This world needs you to be bold and a braver version of you!

Take a moment today to lean in… even if it feels uncomfortable.

But then something hit us.

We started thinking about how many summers we actually have left with our oldest daughter before she’s grown and doing her own thing. And suddenly, all those obstacles that felt so big, like time, money, logistics, the mess of moving, didn’t feel nearly as important.

So we did something a little impulsive.

We booked a last-minute trip.

And it ended up being exactly what our family needed.

Today I want to talk about why the obstacles will always be there, why waiting for the “perfect time” usually means it never happens, and how some of the best family memories come from the trips you almost didn’t take.

It made me realize how desperately we need real conversations. The good ones. The uncomfortable ones. The honest, messy, healing ones. And maybe… they need to happen in a car.

After walking through a tough season with my teenage daughter and noticing some negative changes, I decided to try it intentionally. We got in the car and just drove. No agenda, no time limit. We kept going until we had both said everything that needed to be said. That drive changed in many positive ways.

So I want to ask you: Who do you need to take for a drive?

Maybe it’s your child. Maybe it’s your spouse. Maybe it’s a friend.

Whoever it is, and whatever that looks like for you, I highly recommend this method. Sometimes healing doesn’t need a big plan. Sometimes it just needs a tank of gas and an open road.

And it made me realize something uncomfortable…

How many goals have I not accomplished simply because no one was holding me accountable but me?

In today’s episode, I’m talking about the power of accountability and why it might be the missing piece between where you are and where you say you want to be. We often blame lack of time, motivation, or clarity, but sometimes the real issue is this: no one is checking in.

If you’ve ever started strong and fizzled out… If you’ve ever set goals that quietly disappeared… If you know you’re capable of more…

This conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about why accountability isn’t punishment; it’s protection against failure.

Grief. A big move. A new baby. Career changes. Stress that comes out of nowhere.

Even the strongest marriages can drift into survival mode during these seasons. Communication gets shorter. Patience wears thin. Connection feels harder. Before you know it, you’re in a rut, not because you don’t love each other, but because life has simply been heavy.

If you’ve been feeling distant, stuck, or just not quite like yourselves lately, this conversation is for you. The good news? It is never too late to get back on track.

Hard seasons don’t have to define your marriage. With intention, grace, and small consistent steps, you can rebuild stronger than before.

Let’s talk about how. 💛

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

After receiving incredible news and finally moving out of tiny living and onto the family farm, we found ourselves celebrating a long-answered prayer. And yet, in the middle of all that joy, there was an awareness I strongly felt that our last night before the move may have looked very different from my father-in-law’s last night.

In this conversation, I reflect on the quiet truth that sometimes our happiest moments can sit alongside someone else’s hardest ones. Our joy might come with another person’s pain. Our answered prayers may exist at the same time as someone else’s loss.

This episode celebrates the good while still posturing our hearts with compassion and to remain grateful without becoming unaware, and to remember that we never fully know what’s happening on the other side of our joy.

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

Last week, we talked about walking in the hard — grief, loss, and the unraveling of identity that often comes in wilderness seasons. This week, we shift the focus to hope and movement.

Together we talk about

• Gently pick yourself up after loss
• Choose not to stay stuck in survival mode
• Take imperfect but meaningful steps forward
• Understand the vital role wellness and the "wellness wheel" play in healing emotionally, spiritually, and physically

This episode is for anyone asking: How do I move forward when I’m exhausted, unsure, or still hurting? You don’t have to have it all figured out, you just need to make that choice and take the next small step.

Graphic on the Wellness Wheel for you to print out-https://drive.google.com/file/d/135pNm-gKnh6vYdepOB-d7gxiuopC2O75/view

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

Together, we dive into what it looks like to walk through grief, the valley, and seasons of loss, when identity feels shaken, comfort is gone, and nothing looks the way it used to. We talk about losing who we once were, sitting in the tension of the unknown, and learning how to carry faith, hope, and courage into a brand-new season.

This conversation is raw, real, and personal, turning wilderness moments into real-life faith when everything feels uncertain. If you’ve ever felt lost, stripped down, or unsure of who you’re becoming, this series is for you.

You can follow more of Amy Peopping on Instagram @amypoepping

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

That moment sparked today’s conversation. We’re talking about what happens after you’re given the tools and the direction. Because at some point, accountability shifts, and what you do next is on you.

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

Instead, a totally different message landed, and that’s what I’m sharing with you today.

In this episode, we settle into a little story time and unpack something the world of instant gratification rarely celebrates: slow and steady. We’re constantly told to move faster, do more, and get results now, but is that actually the best way to reach our goals?

Let's talk!

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That's a big question. That is a big challenge for both you and me. Let's talk about it today!

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💛 Thanks for listening and always remember, you matter.

Thank you, as always, for your love, support, messages, and, most importantly, for sharing this podcast with others!

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But this season has challenged me more than usual. I’ve been pushed not only to keep up my usual kindness acts, but to step out of my comfort zone and take them even further. And in this week’s episode, I’m inviting you to join me in that challenge.

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What’s wild is that on the drive home from the closing, we started talking about everything that didn’t work out over last several years… all the things that fell through, all the plans that didn’t go our way, and all the doors that closed right when we thought they were supposed to open.

And suddenly, every single “no” made perfect sense. Because each one was redirecting us and nudging us toward this place… this farm… at the perfect time.

It reminded me of that Garth Brooks line: “Some of God’s greatest gifts are unanswered prayers.”

In this episode, we talk about the pages you may need to let go of so you can move forward into the next chapter of your story. Gratitude matters, but letting go matters just as much.

Lets dive in!

I talk about the moments when we can absorb the hits and the moments when we hit a wall so hard that the only thing we want to do is burn it all down. This conversation is about naming those feelings, normalizing them, and exploring what to do when you’re standing in frustration, disappointment, or exhaustion.

Let's dive in!

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Now, I want you to really think about this for a second: how are these upcoming holidays, especially Christmas, making you feel?

Are you excited? Looking forward to it? Counting down the days until you can slow down, celebrate, and enjoy some time with loved ones?

Or... are you dreading it a little? Maybe feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or just not in that “holiday spirit” everyone seems to talk about?

Here’s the thing: whichever camp you find yourself in, it’s important to notice it. And if you’re in that not-so-excited camp, that’s okay, you still have time to shift how this season feels for you.

So, in today’s episode, let’s chat about it. Let’s talk about how you’re really feeling about the holidays, why that might be, and what you can do to make this season more peaceful, joyful, and meaningful, whatever that looks like for you.

Grab a cup of coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s dive in.

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Both experiences reminded me how powerful it can be when we choose to listen and act even when we don’t understand the full picture. But it also made me wonder… how many promptings do we miss? How often are we too busy, too distracted, or too wrapped up in our own world to make a difference in someone else’s?

In this episode, I share those stories, what I learned from them, and why I believe paying attention to promptings can change not just someone else’s day but your own life too.

Let’s Stay Connected:

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💛 Thanks for listening, and always remember, you matter.

In this episode, I share a simple story that turned into a powerful reminder: fear often holds us back more than reality ever will. I challenge you to take the step you've been hesitating on and offer a gentle nudge to be kind to others. Everyone is carrying something, and you never know how much a smile, a kind word, or just some good energy can shift someone’s day.

Let’s talk about fear, courage, and how even the most ordinary places can teach us extraordinary things.

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I reflect on how comparison creeps in, often stealing the joy of simply being who we are. What if we tried to flip this toxic narrative and learn to fully embrace the unique way God created each of us? Wouldn't that be amazing?

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In today’s episode, I get real (and a little embarrassed) as I share how I realized I was in the wrong and how my intentions were wrong. We all need to take a little time and assess that thing before doing it, speaking it, or acting upon it.

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In this episode, I’m opening up about a personal season in my life where I found myself unknowingly fighting for all the things I thought I couldn’t do. I was so deep in doubt that I didn’t even realize I was holding myself back by choosing to believe my limitations over possibility.

But then God stepped in.

He pulled me out of my comfort zone, stripped away the help and support I had been leaning on, and forced me to face things head-on. And let me tell you: what felt like a breaking moment was actually a building one. He was preparing me not just to overcome the things I thought I couldn’t do, but to step boldly into a new, powerful chapter of my life.

If you’re in a season of questioning your ability, doubting your worth, or feeling stuck... this one’s for you. Let’s uncover those beliefs you're still fighting for and flip the script.

In this week's episode, I’m getting real about the impact of digital consumption and the importance of setting energetic boundaries. I’m also offering two challenges:

1. Pause Before You Post: What are you really trying to say or achieve? Let’s be more mindful of the energy we put out.
2. Prioritize Real-Life Connection: Less screen time, more face time. Let’s be present with the people around us and rediscover the power of in-person connection.

Let’s shift the energy, starting with ourselves.

In this episode, I open up about the season my own marriage is currently in. A time of uncertainty as our family of six prepares for a sudden move, not yet knowing where we’ll live while waiting for our next home to be ready. It’s raw, real, and far from easy. But it’s also a reminder that growth often happens in the messy, in-between places.

Whether you're in a season of ease or one of struggle, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about what it looks like to stay connected, support each other, and hold onto each other through every season of marriage.

If you want to follow our journey of possibly moving to our tiny cottage, head on over to Instagram @maysstays

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In this episode, I share a simple but powerful story about an aloe vera plant my daughter found in the “sick section” of a store. She loved it until it stopped looking perfect. Just like her, I was ready to toss it aside. But something made me pause. I gave it a new pot, some care, a better environment, and over time, that little plant began to thrive. Now? It’s healthy, growing, and proudly sitting as a “people plant” in our home.

This story reflects a profound truth about life: you may not always be recognized for your worth right away. You might not be in the right environment. But with care, intention, and the right people around you, you can grow into exactly who you’re meant to be.

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Follow our journey of building a tiny cottage on Instagram @maysstays

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We talk about:

• Why girls’ nights are more important than you think
• How finding your group can look the same or very different, and either is okay!
• Creative ways to prioritize friendship amidst busy schedules and different seasons
• The deeper bonds that are often formed when women gather in safe, supportive spaces
• Oh, and if you want to see our awful haircuts, check them out on Instagram @youmatterbymegan

Whether you're overdue for a night out or already planning your next one, this episode will remind you why these connections matter so much, and how to keep them strong.

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In this episode, I share the honest story of how we took a 3-week break from screens, what led to that decision, and the surprising things we learned along the way. My hope is that our experience encourages you to take a closer look at how technology is affecting your own kids. These little humans are our greatest investment, and they deserve our very best, even when it’s hard.

To follow more of me, head on over to Instagram @youmatterbymegan

For a signed copy of my new book, From Zero To Four- https://meganlynnmay.com/collections/from-zero-to-four-book

If you are a gift-giving enthusiast or want to see all the irons I have in the fire, head on over to https://www.meganlynnmay.com/

Follow our journey of building a tiny cottage on Instagram @maysstays

To follow more of me, head on over to Instagram @youmatterbymegan

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Follow our journey of building a tiny cottage on Instagram @maysstays

Get ready for a mix of real talk, honest moments, and a few much-needed booty kicks. This season is packed with raw conversations about what truly matters. Building a healthy marriage, raising decent human beings, prioritizing your wellness, understanding how you tick, and most importantly, realizing how much you matter in this world. And of course, we’re sprinkling in a little Jesus along the way.

So hold on tight, it is going to be a great season!

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We talk about what it’s really like behind the mic, the growth we've experienced, and some hilarious and meaningful moments along the way. I also share my top five favorite episodes of the season and give you a sneak peek into what’s coming in Season Three.

Thank you so much for sticking with me through another season. Your support means more than you know!

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The other day, I got a text that completely caught me off guard. It was from the mom of a high school friend asking if we were having a twenty-year class reunion. TWENTY years?! I hadn’t even realized that much time had passed. So crazy!

That message sent me down memory lane, thinking about who I was at 18, what I cared about, and what I thought life would be like. And it got me wondering: if I could go back and talk to my teenage self, what would I say?

In this episode (and the few that follow), I’m sharing the top things I would tell my 18-year-old self. The lessons, reminders, and encouragement that I’ve learned along the way. I hope this little series inspires you to reflect on your own journey and maybe even think about what you’d say to the younger version of you.

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That message sent me down memory lane, thinking about who I was at 18, what I cared about, and what I thought life would be like. And it got me wondering: if I could go back and talk to my teenage self, what would I say?

In this episode (and the few that follow), I’m sharing the top things I would tell my 18-year-old self. The lessons, reminders, and encouragement that I’ve learned along the way. I hope this little series inspires you to reflect on your own journey and maybe even think about what you’d say to the younger version of you.

To follow more of me, head on over to Instagram @youmatterbymegan

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That message sent me down memory lane, thinking about who I was at 18, what I cared about, and what I thought life would be like. And it got me wondering: if I could go back and talk to my teenage self, what would I say?

In this episode (and the few that follow), I’m sharing the top things I would tell my 18-year-old self. The lessons, reminders, and encouragement that I’ve learned along the way. I hope this little series inspires you to reflect on your own journey and maybe even think about what you’d say to the younger version of you.

To follow more of me, head on over to Instagram @youmatterbymegan

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That message sent me down memory lane, thinking about who I was at 18, what I cared about, and what I thought life would be like. And it got me wondering: if I could go back and talk to my teenage self, what would I say?

In this episode (and the few that follow), I’m sharing the top things I would tell my 18-year-old self. The lessons, reminders, and encouragement that I’ve learned along the way. I hope this little series inspires you to reflect on your own journey and maybe even think about what you’d say to the younger version of you.

To follow more of me, head on over to Instagram @youmatterbymegan

For a signed copy of my new boo,k From Zero To Four- https://meganlynnmay.com/collections/from-zero-to-four-book

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This is probably one of the most real and raw podcast interviews I have done. Melanie's story is deep and powerful, and has made her into the amazing and strong woman she is today.

To follow more of Melanie Rudd, head on over to Instagram @ms_melanie_michelle or @she.overcomes

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Yes, it is a thief; it can steal our Joy. It can rob us of living our best life in who we were made to be in this world.

However, what if we change the narrative of comparison and use it as a tool for the better? In today's episode, I talk about that. I hope it inspires you to use it for good!

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But here is why. Our family has some crazy changes happening this year. The changes will be hard and beautiful and will make it a crazy busy summer. But on the forefront of it all, we also know we have about four summers left with our oldest daughter, and that hit us hard.

So we pulled the kids out of there last week of school and headed down to sunny Florida for a week with no regrets.

Time is a thief, and we are not promised anything. So my friend, let the excuses go and book that trip. I have never heard anyone say they "regretted" making memories together.

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It sucked. And here is the deal: We have all sucked or fallen short with our opinions of others around us. So, let's talk about this. How do we handle this? What can we do about it? What choice do we have after hearing the opinions of others? Most importantly, how can we do better for ourselves by supporting others around us?

In this episode, I am calm, a bit fiesty, and most importantly, I hope it all helps us move forward in a better direction.

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Enjoy this small yet big celebration with me!

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Her southern charm and love for Jesus are contagious as she shares the very real parts of navigating different seasons of her adoption journey, what she has learned, and her calling to be a part of the Adoption and Foster Care Ministry.

To follow more of Somer, head on over to her Instagram @somercolbert, also her Podcast Called to Love is a "must listen" if you are in this space or simply want to be more educated in the Foster and Adoption space.

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But it did.

And in this episode, I talked about the lesson learned in it and how we can all fail forward when that idea or dream doesn't come to life!

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If you know someone more of a perfectionist, this is a great episode to send!

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In today's episode, you will hear from my 11-year-old son, Acen. The good and stress of being one of our middle children. I hope you love his fun and sweet, and honest self just as much as I do!

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In today's episode, you will hear from my 8-year-old son, Lennon. The good and stress of being the 3rd out of our 4 children. I hope you love his witty and sweet self just as much as I do!

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In today's episode, you will hear from my 3-year-old daughter, Maren May. The real and raw conversation from a wild, Frozen-loving, girlie girl who is living her life to the fullest! I hope you love her outgoing and sweet self just as much as I do!

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The big difference. They are willing to do it anyway.

So what does that mean for you? Well, my friend, the next time you feel your heart calling you to that bigger, better thing, you better say YES. Do it scared. Do it imperfectly. Do it without being fully educated. Do it without everything perfectly lined up. Simply just do it.

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It was one of the best analogies that I still use today. It's important to recognize this with all kinds of relationships around you. Some people in your life have depleted their accounts and you need to move them out to make room for the new amazing relationships that will come. This episode will both encourage you and challenge you!

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My son challenged me on this the other week to have fun on a beautiful day and at first, it was SO annoying. But I finally said yes and I am so glad I did. I wanted to share my experience with you as well and challenge you to do the same!

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I don't think you need to go as far as I did, but I do believe there are people in your backyard that you can get to know, learn from, and understand more.

Don't let the input or fear of others stop you from loving people who are different from you. It is not always easy, but it can certainly be worth it. In all reality, I thought I was going to be a light to them and change their lives and hearts, but instead, they changed mine even more!

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Of course, we know who would best fit our children right? However, we had to step back and remember that we were also that "unlikely" couple that got together and married. We did not bring equal value into the relationship and it made us step back and realize that imperfect relationships do not define a successful marriage.

Do your part as parents to teach and instill core values into your children and the rest is up to them.

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This episode is both encouraging and challenging and I hope it makes you step it up and step into your own mission in this world.

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That certainly happened to me a few months ago and I couldn't not understand why... That was until it was revealed to me during a hard conversation with my teenage daughter.

We need to do a little check-in from time to time. Take a step back and humble our entitled selves. It really does matter!

Enjoy this little gut punch from my heart to yours.

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I thought I would share my heart with you and even if you are not an adoptive mama yourself, I feel like there are pieces of this that you can take away or share with others!

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Most importantly, I want you to know that even the smallest seed you may plant can truly impact others!

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This episode might be exhausting or give you a lightbulb moment for yourself or someone in your life. Either way, I am going to share my realization about ADHD, and for me, why I have not chosen to get diagnosed.

This is my story and journey and everyone is so very different. I am all about seeking advice from an actual trusted physician when need be and doing what is right for you.

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Every journey and story is so beautiful and unique in its own way.

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I am not in the medical field in any way but I hope there are pieces of sharing my journey that can help someone listening.

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You matter enough to have a fulfilled NEW year!

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And you know what? It turned out great! I mean why the heck would I try to be perfect when that is something that truly doesn't exist in human form nor something that I strive for in any other episode?

So here I am 50 episodes down and many more to come thanks to YOU (and my amazing producer Abbey Graves). I am blessed with the best audience!!

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Its truly a great book for any age so feel free to share this episode with your family or friends.

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Follow her on Instagram @helloaudreyrose and DM her the word CHALLENGE to get a FREE guide to help start your new year right!

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So let's talk about it as I feel it's a very important topic especially when a new year is just around the corner!

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Suppose you are dreading all the things this holiday season brings, it's time to make a change. I changed many things a couple of years ago about how I wanted the holidays to go and I have found a new joy for myself and my family.

I hope this episode helps bring back your joy as well! After all, we only have our kids for a short season. It is on us to make the most of it!

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Enjoy her story and journey and how her family of 6 is today!

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How often do we see this in relationships that we have? Where they take so much work, time, money, and effort, and it just isn't working.

Today I talk about the life lesson my little tree taught me and I hope this episode sticks with you in some special way.

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It is a very real thing that we feel from time to time and it is ok to feel that but what is more important is to take a step back and hold it captive. At the end of the day, our blessings are greater than our guilt and we need to remember that.

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For me personally, I did not. I did not feel called to go that way when we were on our adoption journey and I did not feel called to go back into the system after we received our adopted daughter two years ago.

However, I have been feeling this tug at my heart to re-posture it and think about it through a different lens. One without gobs of paperwork, making sure my home is perfect, or waiting for someone to approve me to love on other kids.

I am becoming a foster mom in my own way and I want to encourage you to listen to this episode. We owe it to the kids God puts in our paths to love on them and foster them well.

I hope this episode challenges your very much just as it has challenged me.

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Check it out!

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I explain to you the importance of this relationship and the impact a dad can truly make on either gender child, but specifically with his daughter.

I hope my journey and story with my own dad can help other girl dads (just like my husband) as well.

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So here I am sharing my experience with you and encouraging you to get to know and love this younger generation. They need us just as much as we need them!!

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Follow more of Abbey on Instagram @abbeyonair or @thesmalltowntourist

Connect with her at abbeygravesproduction@gmail.com

Listen to her Podcast The Small Town Tourist

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So let's talk about it in today's episode!

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On the flip side, it is also important to be a good mentor to others no matter what age you are. So lets talk about it together.

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The struggle is real... So let's talk about that today!

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The book will officially launch Friday, August 16th, however it is available right now on Amazon -

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Or, if you want a signed copy (and 10% of the sales to go back into the Adoption community), Order it on my website!

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I said I would come to you real and raw and let's chat about how we are raising our kids to be a positive value to their spouse someday. And you're welcome when that future daughter/son-in-law sends you a thank you letter someday.

That was 100% me! As a people pleaser, I didn't want to decide anything because I didn't want to disappoint someone, be judged, or anything else.

It's not a good place to live and can prevent you from many amazing things coming your way. So let's talk about this and play my new favorite game "What is worst case scenario"

So if you can relate, this episode is for you! Also, if you are in search of a good business podcast, check out The Jennifer Allwood Show. She is fantastic!

Her story of finding her birth family in her later teens is unique and beautiful and I know you will love her just as much as I do!

Meet Miss Kenya!!

So if you feel this as well, here are some tips you can either take or leave or send on to someone who could use a little advice to have a great summer!

Enjoy!!

I also think even if Adoption is not part of your story or future, there are little nuggets in here that I think would help anyone who navigates a bigger bolder journey of any sort.

So here is the second half of the top 10 most asked questions we get.

Disclaimer- Every story and journey and answer to these questions are so very different, but please know this is from my heart's perspective and not based on any specific facts.

I also think even if Adoption is not part of your story or future, there are little nuggets in here that I think would help anyone who navigates a bigger bolder journey of any sort.

So here are the top 10 most asked questions we get.

Disclaimer- Every story and journey and answer to these questions are so very different, but please know this is from my heart's perspective and not based on any specific facts.

Every adoption journey and story is so very different and beautiful and complex in its own way.

Her maturity and wisdom in this episode are something to admire and how she chose to close a relationship with her bio dad at a young age to be able to fully embrace life with her mom and Adoptive Dad is incredible.

Also, I know after hearing about her amazing Adoptive Dad, you will want to meet this incredible man just like I did!

So here I am having a mini celebration and giving you a life update. You may care, you may not and either way is ok. I do want to thank you for the love and support you have given me so far! You Matter and I appreciate you so much!

Also, I told you I would come to you with some input from my audience on what favorite underwear they have.

I will go first! My current favorite undies are from Kohls, highrise, silky, comfortable and pretty. The brand is Vanity Fair.

Another girl loves Victoria Secret no-shows! They are so stinken soft but you do want to hang them to dry so they last longer!

One gal is loving the underwear subscription she gets from Splendies! 3 pairs per month are delivered right to her doorstep and she loves it! Her personal favorite- the line-free silky thong ones!

Another Mama is loving her Hanes from Walmart. She prefers the briefs to cover her "mom belly"

So here is a start! Please share your favorites as well for all of us women who are currently wearing ugly undies and enjoy this episode!

Eeek. Sometimes we tend to set unattainable standards on someone and they have no chance of meeting them. It's not fair on either end. So maybe it's time to lower that bar a bit.

We all deserve another chance.

She shares her open adoption relationship with her Birth Mom and siblings

She talks about her similarities with her non-bio sister

She informs us on what to say and what not to say to an Adoptee

Most importantly, she stresses how proud she is of her story and the fact she was Adopted!

As always, every adoption journey is so unique and beautiful in its own way and that is why I wanted to share all of these different stories with you.

So friends, meet Mikayla!

Lindsey, is not only my dear friend, business partner, and everything in between but she was front and center with me while I was on our adoption journey! Come sit down with us over a Diet Coke and peppermint coffee mocha and hear her side of our journey.

Also if you need another 20 minutes of tears check out this video

https://youtu.be/Zu2rwvQL-60?si=6-mm9-TMmfDBpP9d

It is not easy and it is not quick but it absolutely can be done! So let's talk about it today!

Let's do a little personal work this week before reining in the new year. I promise it will be worth it!

In the last episode, I left you hanging a bit as our adoption story is big and beautiful, and I couldn't fit it all in one episode! So enjoy hearing the rest of our story on how our daughter came to be. You might need a kleenex or two for this :)