The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition

BLC301: Diddy Exposed! Why there's 'No Way Out' for the Bad Boy turned Monster!

Sat, 25 May 2024 13:00:25 GMT

In the first episode of season 3 of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J and Mr. Finley delve into the recent controversy surrounding P. Diddy. The episode begins with an analysis of Diddy's public apology video, exploring the hosts' varied reactions to his attempt at addressing the situation. The conversation takes a turn as they focus on the shocking video of Cassie Ventura being beaten in a hotel, reflecting on the impact of such graphic evidence and the shift that occurred amongst Diddy's allies and the public in general. The hosts then transition into a broader discussion on colorism, past rumours associated with Diddy, star power, and briefly touch on the role of religion in providing a sense of absolution for some individuals or being used as a cover to regain public acceptance versus facing consequences. A particularly provocative segment examines the uncomfortable reality of women being complicit in abuse, whether through silence or direct involvement, and what it means for the broader fight against domestic violence. Finally, the hosts speculate on what lies ahead for P. Diddy, considering the potential fallout and long-term repercussions of these events on his career and legacy. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions to include the loyalty to celebrities such as R.Kelly, Trump and so much more. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

Ep. 12: Where There’s Smoke

Tue, 21 Nov 2023 13:00:20 GMT

The episode begins with a little pre-show banter. (1:00) Nic blames his wife and daycare-attending son for being sick while trying to produce the final episode of Season 1. Nic is also sick of Kisha Chavis’s continual disrespect for her husband, Joe Smith. (2:30) SNM reflects on Tim Scott’s sudden departure from the presidential race. (3:30) J mentions the first black-owned sperm bank but tells Tim Scott his services won’t be needed. Following the intro, (6:50) the crew talks about their week including SNM attending a conference for women veterans, J trying to recover from disappointments in Houston, and Nic reminding black parents of the importance of advocating for their children. The group tackles the hot topics of the week beginning with (12:40) Andre 3000’s new ‘bar-less’ album, (16:59) Snoop and Meek Mill’s recent decision to quit smoking, (19:45) Chrisean Rock’s recent viral interactions with Tamar Braxton and Cam Newton. (25:30) Jada Pinkett-Smith says it’s important to have friends of the opposite sex, (36:10) Brother Bilal claims to have witnessed Will Smith and Duane Martin engaging in homosexual acts, and (47:10) Cassie files a salacious lawsuit against P. Diddy that quickly settles. (1:00:19) Pardi (Meg Thee Stallion’s Ex) drops a diss track to set the record straight, (1:13:14) Terrance Howard says Paramount owes him 20 years’ worth of residuals for his work on Hustle & Flow, and (1:22:08) the BINT (Blessings In No Time) founders facing charges for running a Ponzi scheme during the onset of the COVID pandemic. Rounding out the final moments of Season 1, (1:34:20) the crew reflects on the blessings and lessons gleaned from the first season as well as offers a few teasers on what viewers can expect to see in Season 2!!

Ep. 11: Believe it or not!

Tue, 14 Nov 2023 13:00:29 GMT

On the eleventh episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, and Just J start with pre-show banter about SNM's dismal record with mispronouncing people's names, a light-hearted conversation about a clip featuring a Blood gang member's inability to use the letter C ( the BLCPod crew has no gang affiliation), and the need to retire the word "pause". They ponder the need to add more to the disclaimer at the start of the show (4:22). Following Nic's suggestion, the crew watched the Milli Vanilli documentary and gave their thoughts on what they learned (5:04), as well as whether they would take $500,00 a year to be Milli Vanilli all over again (10:22). They start the show with a quick update from Ep. 10 regarding Joe Smith and new revelations, including Nic's take on Kisha Chavis’ interview with Cam'ron (16:55). They move on to provide quick takes on the Jeezy and Nia Long interview (22:29), and the possibility of Doja Cat getting cancelled due to her latest antics (27:55). After spending several moments adding to the disclaimer, the crew discuss their take on Congressman Tim Scott, his new “girlfriend”, and if she's a political beard (35:45), the breakup of Lori Harvey and Damson Idris (51:48), and recent allegations of abuse made by Keke Palmer against her child’s father (58:51). The group went on to discuss Dee1Music’s challenge to Rick Ross, Meek Mill and Jim Jones, and claims that they are harming the community (1:10:11), followed by Young Thug’s RICO case, and the ruling that the prosecution can use their lyrics at trial (1:32:44). They round out the conversation with DJ Khalid and how he is his own money manager and trusts no one (1:42:32), address the latest development in the Elijah McClain trial, including the acquittal of the third officer (1:50:52), and so much more. Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, comment, and share.

HHE110: Fighting Back

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 12:01:57 GMT

On the season finale of @TheBLCPod: His and Hers Edition, Nic Nice shares how he’s teaching his son to fight back in daycare and SNM Jones comments on overextending herself (0:53). In Quick Takes, Nic discusses Clay’s reaction to the internet hate he received after the airing of the “Love is Blind” reunion (10:48), SNM reacts to Draya’s claims of depression after being shamed for getting pregnant by 22-year-old Jalen Green (12:45), Nic comments on Simon Guobadia’s post-divorce announcement behavior while SNM calls out Lil Scrappy’s spitefulness (14:13). Wrapping up Quick Takes, Nic explores the reasoning behind Dame’s willingness to sell his Roc-A-Fella shares to Cameron (18:25), before they dive into an update pertaining to Fani Willis (21:10), and their opinion of Candice Owens’ interview on the Joe Budden Podcast (25:05). Main Topics include Cardi B weighing in on the 50/50 convo (33:12), a stay-at-home wife’s secret escape fund (44:08), and Joie Chavis’ pregnancy announcement (59:19). They conclude the Main Topics with a discussion of the church’s impact on keeping Black women single (1:14:52). For Final Thoughts, the hosts reflect on @TheBLCPod's origin, social media's role in the gender war, and why the His and Hers edition made so much sense (1:30:28). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 10: High Value Man?

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 13:00:30 GMT

On the tenth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, and Just J discuss the new and improved disclaimer. Ironically, the new disclaimer was so long that the portion telling viewers and listeners to Like, Subscribe, and Follow (a throw-back to last week's pre-pod chatter) had to be cut. Meanwhile, the crew is still searching for their 'intro phrase'. They start the show (4:40) celebrating their 10th episode before recapping their week, which includes Just J's first time trying fully immersive VR, SNM picking up a side-gig as a book reviewer only to discover it was too time-consuming, Nic celebrating his birthday and reflecting on the blessing of having lived long enough to be considered old. For the first topic, they revisit a topic from Episode 2: Damaged Goods referring to Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti's extremely short-lived romance (14:16), followed by Joe Smith's reaction to discovering his wife, Keisha Chavis, has been running an OnlyFans account (24:11). Amid speculation that K. Chavis is just trying to raise her profile in an attempt to snag a role on a reality series, the crew discuss possible causes behind the break-up of Gordon & Mia Thornton - an age-gap couple from RHWOP (36:40). In keeping with the discussion on reality TV and age-gap couples, Nic asks for the crew's thoughts on news that Scottie Pippen's ex-wife, Larsen, will be marrying Michael Jordan's son, Marcus. (47:57). The group went on to discuss a couple of currently trending clips. The first clip features a discussion between a man who says real men provide 100% of the family's financial support and another man who said that sharing the responsibilities with his wife, or going 50/50, doesn't make him any less of a man. (1:03:50), while in the other video, a man tells his wife to get a job to support a baby that's not his (01:21:30). Rounding out the remainder of the show, the crew discuss the state of customer service in black-owned business - particularly the recent backlash to TikTok restaurant critic Keith Lee (1:44:02) and so much more. Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, and share.

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HHE109: Throwin’ Shade

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 12:01:36 GMT

On this week’s episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in banter pertaining to Tyler Perry’s movie, “Mea Culpa” featuring Kelly Rowland (0:52). In Quick Takes, they discuss a recent interview by Usher’s mom and rumors about Usher and Russell Simmons (12:57), Draya confirms that she’s pregnant by 22-year-old Jalen Green (17:50), Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict’s awkward red-carpet moment (21:17), Christina Mackay and Rick Ross splitting up (23:39), and Natalie Nunn exposed for cheating on her husband (28:41). The hosts then delve into the Main Topics, starting with Mike Epps vowing to treat women better and his apology to his wife (31:57), Lupita Nyong’o and Joshua Jackson interracial relationship and reaction from Black women (43:17), before moving to a clip by Steve Harvey where he asserts that men and women can’t be friends (51:29). They conclude the main topics with a discussion on Clay saying “I don’t” to AD Smith at the altar on Love is Blind, the reason why, and red flags (1:03:32). They wrap up the episode with His and Hers Final Thoughts, which includes Nic reflecting on women's reluctance to acknowledge uncomfortable truths and how this reluctance is contributing to the gender war. Shifting gears, SNM highlights the upcoming release of the movie "The American Society of Magical Negros," which satirizes white discomfort through a lens of black appeasement (1:18:38). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 9: Pause

Tue, 31 Oct 2023 12:00:31 GMT

On the ninth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, & Just J discuss the progress of gaining likes, subscribers, & followers before trying to figure out a better way to start the show. They start the show (03:04) recapping their week, which includes Just J's experience with shrooms, SNM cooking for her dog more than her husband, & Nic discussing the joys (& cost) of parenthood. For the first topic, they get into Cesar Pina's IG live video addressing his allegations, while trying to defend DJ Envy (12:43), followed by Tyrese responding to his ex, Samantha Lee, after she made comments about people being in her ear (21:45). Speaking of Tyrese, the crew discuss the announcement that TGT, the R&B group comprised of Tyrese, Ginuwine, & Tank, are getting back together (33:02), before bringing up an old clip of comments made by Tank, which SNM uses to ask Nic & J a question (40:32). The group went on to discuss recent revelations about Dwight Howard in light of recent court disclosures made during sexual assault allegations (48:50), Michael Irvin calling out his son as fake gangster rapper, which gets surprisingly heated (01:06:44), before SNM brings up Cam Newton's latest baby mother to be, Jazzy (01:30:46). Rounding out the remainder of the show, the crew discuss the now infamous list of places women don't want to go to on a first date (01:46:26), whether they'd take $500k or dinner with Jay-Z (01:55:40), followed by Tyler Perry feeling disrespected in his bid for BET (02:02:09) & so much more. Tune in & enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, & share.

HHE108: Wash, Rinse, Repeat

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 13:00:50 GMT

On the 8th episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers Edition, Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in lively banter from appearing manly while drinking through a straw to SNM self-reflection on Bantu Knots. They jokingly highlight a clip that indicates that only 2.7% of podcasts aren't toxic, positioning @TheBLCpod among this elite group (0:51). In Quick Takes, they revisit the drama surrounding Reesa Teesa's "Who TF Did I Marry" (8:40), Porsha Williams (RHOA) requesting the court enforce her prenup (11:16), Diddy accused of sexual assault by Lil Rod (13:54), Princess Love and Ray J’s divorce announcement (17:30), and Cameron Newton getting jumped at his own charity event (19:38). They wrap up “Quick Takes” by congratulating Stephen and Ayesha Curry on their pregnancy announcement (22:20). The hosts then delve into the Main Topics, beginning with Jada Pinkett Smith expressing her desire for her daughter to have a relationship like hers and Will Smith (22:34), followed by Russell Wilson’s interview on the “I am Athlete” podcast where he shares his thoughts on being a stepfather (34:54), before moving to the cultural expectations surrounding male vulnerability and Iyanla Vanzant's perspective that men often feel valued solely for their ability to provide (49:55). They conclude the main topics with their thoughts on whether social media is ruining relationships (1:10:36) and wrap up the episode with His & Hers Final Thoughts. SNM discusses a Call To Action for Jackson State University and other State funded schools in Mississippi. Nic wonders if credit score is a good indicator when it comes to relationships after hearing about a dating app that matches singles based on their credit scores (1:18:59). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 8: Like, Subscribe and Follow

Mon, 23 Oct 2023 04:00:13 GMT

On the eighth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., and Just J admit to their shortcomings regarding likes, subscriptions and follows, but are still excited about the new disclaimer (w/ logo), before starting the show (03:41). They dive into the conversation starting with the conflict in the Middle East between Israel and Palestine, and US involvement (10:30), before reacting to Will Smith comments at Jada Pinkett Smith's Baltimore book store appearance (23:40). They react to Jeezy's recent public statement regarding his divorce from Jeannie Mai (36:00), before getting into Taye Diggs' ex-wife, Idina Menzel, and her comments about how race played a role in their separation (46:32), followed by Lupita's recent post regarding her separation from her boyfriend Salema Masekel (01:00:51). After that, they give their thoughts on DJ Envy and the recent arrest of former business partner, Cesar Pina (01:11:29), Kim K hiring a manny (01:24:17), Tyrese Gibson's ex, Samantha Lee's comment on what led to their divorce (01:41:07), and Brian McKnight's new name and album, but same ole drama (01:55:40). And last, but not least, they answer LaLa Anthony's question about whether you should post your spouse or significant other on social media (02:12:20). Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, and share.

HHE107: Love Is Blind

Tue, 27 Feb 2024 13:00:55 GMT

On this week's episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones provide an unexpected history lesson on watermelons. Nic Nice also shares a heartwarming father-son moment of his son's first haircut, while SNM gives commentary on her recent attendance at a 90s concert featuring Monica (0:54). They start with Quick Takes, highlighting Beyoncé single debuting as #1 on the Country Music charts and her impact on the genre; (9:56), Monica’s BBL accusations (13:38), Tiffany Haddish’s trip to Israel (17:37), Trump’s Golden High Tops (19:57), and Scrappy professing his love for Erica Dixon and being petty towards his ex-wife Bambi (23:57). The hosts then delve into the Main Topics, beginning with “Who TF did I Marry”, the 52-part viral series on TikTok (30:14), followed by Porsha Williams from the Real Housewives of Atlanta filing for divorce after only 15 months of marriage (47:40), the concept of the Netflix show Love is Blind (57:20), and Erica Pittman’s viral clip about why single corporate Black women are not getting married (1:07:18). Rounding the main topics, Nic and SNM share their thoughts on sexless marriages (1:18:40). The episode concludes with a clip of Gil Scott-Heron explaining what he meant by “The Revolution will not be televised” in honor of Black History Month (1:30:38). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!ion

Ep. 7: For Entertainment Purposes Only

Tue, 17 Oct 2023 12:01:15 GMT

On the seventh episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J are excited about the new disclaimer, before starting the show (02:38). They dive into Hot Topics with comments from DJ Vlad & whether celebrities are obligated to speak out (11:43), followed by an update on Carlee Russell (19:37). After discussing the newly proposed Ebony alert in California (21:58), we get an update on Jeannie Mai dealing with her divorce (29:34), discuss Tia Mowry & her dating woes (33:48), & end with Jada Pinkett-Smith's recent press run & revelations (41:20).For the main conversation, the crew tackle whether women who act like Jada (or ____) are the reason some men are hesitant (or scared) of marriage (56:20). They also discuss what they mean by "women like", some of the characteristics, traits, or red flags men should look out for, & so much more. Tune in & enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, like & all that good stuff.

HHE106: Caught Up

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 13:00:07 GMT

On the sixth episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers Edition, hosts Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in banter about Valentine's Day and explore the concept of frenemies (1:40). They then move on to quick takes, covering the short-lived beef between Shannon Sharpe and Mike Epps (14:28), the split between Larsa Pippen and Marcus Jordan (16:20), Rachel Dolezal's dismissal due to her having an OnlyFans account (17:37), Fani Willis taking the stand (19:58), Diamond from Crime Mob's engagement news (22:38), Christina Mackay's mishap with Hamburger Helper (25:55), and Beyoncé's release of two new country music songs (29:27). The hosts delve into the main topics, beginning with Usher and Alicia Keys' halftime performance at the Super Bowl (35:20), followed by Killer Mike's proclamation that you can’t be pro-black and marry outside your race (43:34), Jess Hilarious' pregnancy announcement (53:40) and Love Dorsey's viral clip about women playing the victim (1:05:26). In this week's "Last Take" segment, the duo share their thoughts on a clip of a woman suggesting that men earning less than 50k should not date (1:17:54). The episode concludes with a clip of Malcolm X in honor of Black History Month (1:27:31). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 6: It's Giving Elitism

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 13:10:43 GMT

On the sixth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J start with their weekly recap and lament the state of affairs in customer service (04:56). They dove into Hot Topics talking about Tamar Braxton's recent split (10:50) and whether Terrell Owens blames black women for why he dates white women (16:33). They also talked about Sexxy Red and her recently leaked sex tape as well as her comments about Trump (28.24). After talking about Drake's new album and his clapback at Joe's Budden's criticism (39:37), they reacted to the new AI-generated Tupac song dissing Keefe D (46:31), and gave their thoughts on the Waffle House strike (54:40).

For the main conversation (01:09:47), in light of inflation and rising cost of living, the crew asked, "Should finance dictate romance and relationships? And if so, why?" They also talked about the impact that would have on our views of traditional values and roles in relationships, whether it was time for us to rethink those things & and establish new ones, and how important finances were to not only relationships, but everything we do. Tune in & enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, like & all that good stuff.

HHE105: Simpin’ Ain’t Easy

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 13:22:07 GMT

On this week's episode of @TheBLCPod, hosts Nic Nice and SNM recognizes Black History month, while Nic reveals a dark side to Disney’s Moana (01:15), before jumping into quick takes: Spanish artist marrying a holographic image of a man (08:30), congratulating Eddie Murphy’s son, Eric, on his engagement to Martin Lawrence’s daughter, Jasmin (09:38), Sexyy Red’s latest video and baby drop (10:50), Drake’s leaked masturbation video (13:24), Monique’s going in on everybody during her interview with Shannon Sharpe (17:40), and the latest accusations against Jonathan Majors (24:35). The hosts delve into main topics highlighting Jay-Z’s Grammy award and his speech pertaining to his wife, Beyonce (29:54), tackling the controversy surrounding Monique and her husband (39:32), Tee Grizzley’s take on finding “the one” (51:51), and Ne-Yo’s ex-wife, Crystal Smith, throwing shade his way online (01:08:44). Lastly, in this week’s “Last Take” segment, the duo questions if men are predisposed to cheating and if it’s it biological (01:16:06 ) The episode concludes with this week’s “His & Hers” featuring Beyonce, recognizing her thirty-two Grammy wins (and the awesomeness that is HER) and Killer Mike, for not only his Grammy wins but for his pro-black, pro-marriage, pro-economic efforts (01:34:45). Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 5: It Takes A Village

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 04:02:18 GMT

On the fifth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J start with how their week went & the joys of getting older. They kick off hot topics discussing the recent arrest in the Tupac Shakur murder case. Nic & J get into a heated discussion about Birttany Renner, body counts & whether 35 is a high number. They follow that conversation with Draya standing on her belief that a woman can delete their hoeness, Eboni K agreeing with Nic, & Usher performing at the SuperBowl. For the main conversation, the gang discusses why when it comes to dating & relationships conversations on social media, women seem to be the focus, & whether they should be. They also discuss areas that both men & women can improve, who's more likely to hear & receive criticism, & whether Eboni K was right regarding younger women seeking their MRS degrees, & so much more. After final thoughts, J discusses the story about the over 1,000 missing kids in Ohio with thoughts from Nic & S.N.M. Tune in & enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, like & all that good stuff.

HHE104: Role Reversal

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 13:00:55 GMT

On this week's episode of the His & Hers edition of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones reflect on audience feedback, with Nic addressing those calling him a "simp" (1:15), then jump into Quick Takes including Nicki Minaj's response to Meg Thee Stallion's new record, "Hiss" (8:15), the R&B feud and fight between Jacquees and Trey Songz (9:25), a debate on Taylor Swift vs. Beyoncé's influence (11:05), the cancellation of Issa Rae's "Rap Sh!t" (16:14), and California's reparations proposal (24:35). For the Main Topics, the hosts delve into Gayle King's revelation that she loaned an ex-boyfriend $4k (30:00), Fani Willis' office romance with special prosecutor, Nathan Wade, amid the Trump election case (45:40), and Draya Michelle's relationship with Jalen Green, a 21-year-old NBA player (1:01:22). They begrudgingly discuss Chrisean Rock's Blueface tattoo (1:11:41), and revisit Teyana Taylor and Iman Shumpert's evolving divorce drama in a shocking role reversal and callback to a previous episode (1:20:41). The episode concludes with a moment of silence for Carl Weathers, who passed at 76. Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

Ep. 4: Breakups & Body Counts

Tue, 26 Sep 2023 12:00:43 GMT

On the fourth episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J had even more to say. After catching up and Nic responding to a commenter, the crew got straight into it with Anthony Anderson's recent divorce settlement, followed by how Teyana Taylor showed up for soon-to-be (?) ex, Iman Shumpert, and an update of what's going on with Jeannie Mai and Jeezy. After that they talked about Danny Masterson's wife filing for divorce shortly after his sentencing, they ended Hot Topics with what's going on with Remy Ma, Papoose and EZ The Block Captain. Inspired by a recent Instagram post on the topic, for the main conversation, Nic, S.N.M., & J discussed a social media (or at least ClubHouse) favorite, "Why are people obsessed with body counts & should it matter?" Aside from the obvious, they also talked about what, if anything, does BC tell you about the person, how do you know if they’re telling the truth, and difference between men and women when it comes to perception, and so much more. Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, & all that good stuff.

HHE103: Toxique

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 13:01:36 GMT

On this week's episode of @TheBLCPod His & Hers Edition, Nic Nice and SNM Jones catch up on their week's activities, including SNM's recovery from illness after a conference, the disappearance of COVID, and Nic's use of hate for motivation (1:10). They discuss Meg Thee Stallion's new record "Hiss" (5:23), Kountry Wayne's interview on Club Shay Shay, where he discusses his ex, Jess Hilarious, and her incessant need to keep his name in her mouth (8:02), Tia Kemp's accusations against Keyshia Ka’Oir (10:19), and Dave Chappelle's comments on Katt Williams (13:11). The hosts dive into their main topics, kicking it off with a conversation about Gillie da Kid's wife supporting him through tough times (16:08), struggle love (20:45), Candace Owens calling Ariana Grande a homewrecker (37:13), Common's latest announcement that he’s dating Jennifer Hudson and ponders if he’s low-key a f*ckboy (44:30), before rounding out with T.J. Holmes and Amy Robach's relationship and the angry black man stereotype (56:11). The episode concludes with a segment discussing Applebee’s budget dating initiative (1:06:05), and so much more. Tune in, Like, Subscribe, and follow!Ep. 3 of @TheBLCPod: H/H Ed. out now! Available everywhere!

Ep. 3: Love You Long Time?

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 17:39:14 GMT

On the third episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & J had a lot to talk about. After exchanging not so pleasant pleasantries, LOL, they got right into Hot Topics and started with the DJ Envy and Tyrese beef involving DJ Envy's wife, Gia. Speaking of relationships, they also touched on the news of Jeezy filing for divorce from Jeannie Mai after two years of marriage. After talking about how Jonathan Majors "allegedly" stopped two girls from fighting (on camera), they talked about the Deion Sanders effect on Colorado University and college football as a whole. Finally, they talked about the outrage regarding Dove and their choice to partner with a Black Lives Matter activist. Inspired by recent comments made by Tyler Perry and how women of means should consider dating a man for reasons other than money, for the main conversation Nic, S.N.M., & J discussed whether he was promoting struggle love, how men and women hear things differently, expectations of traditional general roles and whether relationships can thrive with the women being the breadwinner, and so much more. Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, & all that good stuff.

HHE102: Tongue-In-Cheek(s)

Tue, 23 Jan 2024 13:00:39 GMT

In the second episode of @TheBLCPod His & Hers Edition, Nic and SNM engage in pre-show banter highlighting the necessity of the disclaimer; returning to work; and diving into an exploration of the term "Karen," warning signs, and how the term has become ubiquitous (6:07). They offer quick congratulations to Pharrell for becoming the Men’s Creative Director for Louis Vuitton and his Timberlands collaboration (13:01), discuss P. Diddy's lawsuit settlement with Diageo and his Grammy’s invitation rescission (15:58), analyze Tim Scott's endorsement of Trump (20:24), and share insights on Jerod Mayo, the first Black coach of the New England Patriots, and his approach to dealing with racism (23:05). The hosts dive into their main topics with a conversation about breaking generational curses in response to Dez Bryant’s viral clip (27:31), share thoughts on Nick Cannon's potential 13th child, being an active father, and the nuances of equality versus equity in contraception and child planning (36:36). Addressing Rick Ross' baby mama drama, they ponder etiquette for dating a high-profile man (53:00), and share opinions on Tia Mowry and the internet's reaction to her “cheeky” pictures (1:08:00). The episode concludes with the intro of a new segment of the show called “Last Take” and respond to the update on "Brick lady" and how her scam fueled the gender war (1:19:18), followed by the His and Hers of the Week featuring Niecy Nash for her Emmy win (1:27:38), and Martin Lawrence's creation of the timeless show, “Martin (1:32:13).

Ep. 2: Damaged Goods?

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 23:00:23 GMT

On the second episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & J had a lot to say. After exchanging pleasantries, they got right into Hot Topics with the recent updates on Clubhouse, the social audio app that they started on. They followed that up with a hard-hitting conversation about Brickgate, the backlash Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis received for their support of Danny Masterson, Chrisean and Blueface, & the start of the NFL season. Inspired by the social media chatter around Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti's relationship, the crew delved into the main conversation regarding issues that some in the community have with single mothers and women over a certain age. Tune in and enjoy the conversation. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe, & all that good stuff.

HHE101: Unapologetic

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 13:00:38 GMT

On the premiere episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers edition, SNM Jones and Nic Nice take a moment to reflect over the holiday break, discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the origin of their relationship, and the launching of the His & Hers edition of the Black Lives Chatter Podcast. They start off the show giving their take on the Katt Williams’ interview with Shannon Sharpe/Club Shay Shay (13:52), before shifting gears to discuss Jonathan Majors being convicted on two charges related to domestic violence, and Meagan Good's role as his girlfriend (23:18). Nic and SNM dive into “The Prize'' conversation triggered by a clip circulating of Jonathan Owen, where he stated that "he is the prize" to the dismay of Simone Biles' fans (42:55). They examine Nia Long's decision to accept a lower child support payments from her ex, and whether Lebron and Rich Paul was trying to get some getback with Ime Udoka (54:25). Rounding out the first episode they explore the merits of Erica Dixon’s claim that Scrappy is the reason she ever tied the knot (1:08:05), before ending with congratulatory shoutouts to a Ronnie Long, a North Carolina man exonerated after 44 years (1:17:21), and Angela Bassett for winning her first (Honorary) Oscar (1:20:54).

Ep. 1: Love & Hip-ocrisy

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 14:50:31 GMT

On the premiere episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, after a few minutes of preshow banter, Nic, S.N.M. & Just J introduce themselves & why they decided to do this podcast. During hot topics, they discussed Erica Mena & her fallout with Spice on Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta, Deion Sanders' big win over TCU, the premiere of The Golden Bachelor, & Donald Trump raising money after his indictment. For the main discussion, Love & Hip-ocrisy: How social media affects us & our relationships, the crew opines about how social media affects how we view & relate to each other & how that affects our relationships. Tune in & enjoy. Don't forget to follow, share, subscribe & all that good stuff.

OSC Ep. 5: Common Denominator: F*ckboys, V-Cards, & FATLASH!!!

Sat, 12 Oct 2024 14:16:11 GMT

In this episode of Off-Season Conversation, after acknowledging and wishing those dealing with Hurricane Milton the best, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show revisiting a topic discussed in the previous season, rapper/actor Common being a f*ckboy. In a recent appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show, Jennifer asked Common about his recent comments about marrying her and he seemed to double down on his f*ckboy antics. Sides were clearly drawn, arguments made, and YOU get to be the judge. Is Common a F*ckboy? The gang turns their attention to the recent revelation that Tia Mowry was a virgin when she met her now ex-husband, Cory Hardrict, and wonder if that changes the perception about her. In the wake of her divorce, and several public relations gaffes, she became the avatar for modern men’s complaint about women leaving marriages and families, simply because she’s unhappy. With the recent admission, some wonder if this is her trying to spin the narrative in her favor, while others opine about the impact being a virgin and marrying the man you lost it to can have on a woman deciding to stick it out or leave the relationship. The group moves the conversation to Lizzo and her recent weight loss. In the age of Ozempic, some wonder if she lost the weight naturally. Others wonder if the constant cycle of losing weight, just to gain it back, while dealing with the issue publicly is actually impacting Lizzo negatively. And finally, the crew previews the next season of The BLC Pod: The After Dark Edition. After 3 seasons, everyone’s excited about heating things up and talking about sex in a way that only The BLC Pod can. The next season premieres Oct. 26, so stay tuned for that and so much more. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

OSC Ep. 4: No Way Out! Diddy Indicted & hit w/ the FREAK-O (RICO)!

Sat, 21 Sep 2024 14:47:23 GMT

In this episode of Off-Season Conversation, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J discuss the recent arrest of Sean “Puffy” Combs on charges of racketeering, sex trafficking and more. The gang get into the details of the accusations, the alleged victims, enablers, co-conspirators, the process, the likely outcomes and implications. The dive head first (pause) into the Freak Off conversation and the implications that sex will have on this case and how it's perceived, as well as whether some of the laws claimed to be broken should be laws in the first place. The group acknowledges the conspiracy theories, whether there’s some validity to the concerns, who may be implicated, guilt by association, etc. They also discuss the equity, or lack thereof, in the criminal justice system, presumed guilt vs. innocent, prosecutorial misconduct, due process and so much more. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC312: Throwing Out the Babies w/ the Bath Water: Dr. Bryant, Cam Newton, & Nick Cannon

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 14:50:49 GMT

On the season finale of @theBLCod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start with the double standard between men and women when it comes to choosing not to have children (04:30). According to SNM, John Cena's conversation with Shannon Sharpe about not wanting kids was met with acceptance, while Amanda Seales received criticism for expressing the same sentiment. The discussion touches on the societal expectation for women to be vessels for procreation and the challenges and risks associated with childbirth. It also highlights the importance of respecting individual choices and not pressuring women to have children. From there the conversation addresses Cam Newton questioning Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, and her ability to give relationship advice due to her age marital status, and not having kids (28:55). It was also expanded to include whether women like Dr. Bryant, attractive, never been married with no kids, are a red flag as a life coach and as a woman. Staying with the conversation with Cam Newton and Dr. Bryant, the crew discuss accountability for creating the broken homes that was discussed during the interview (50:55). With Cam having 8 kids by 3 different women who he never married, the gang defines what a broken home is and who’s more responsible for creating them: Cam or the women he procreated with? And finally, the cast discuss Nick Cannon’s conversation with that same Dr. Bryant about whether he preys on women with low self-esteem and if the women who signed up for his “program” are low functioning for doing so (01:14:00). While the crew holds Dr. Bryant accountable for her presumptions about women she’s never met, they wonder if her assumptions about Nick and the women who chose to have kids with him and create “broken homes” are valid and if their behavior could be deemed as low functioning. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

SN117: Standing Room Only! Why We're Standing on Everything & Nothing at the Same Time!

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 15:27:04 GMT

On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice highlights the overuse of the phrase, "Standing on business" and its various cousins, "I stand on that”, “I stand ten toes down”, etc. He starts with appreciate the concept of having morals, values, and core principles that should be immovable. He then points out how people are using these phrases for trivial and trite situations and conversations with the goal of seeming solid. He cautions against the rigidity that comes with standing on things and not being open to new information. Lastly, he discusses the importance of being open to change while holding core beliefs, urging viewers to be selective about what they truly stand for. Let's redefine solidarity and growth together. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

SN116: Calling Cap on CAM & Men’s “Fear” of Divorce & Marriage!

Sat, 31 Aug 2024 18:58:48 GMT

On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic responds to the Cam Newton conversation with Dr. Cheyenne Bryant on his show, Funky Fridays. The part that really piqued Nic’s interests was when Cam mentioned how his desire for marriage was less than his fear of divorce. After hearing men on social media express the same “fears” for the past several years, Nic finally had ENOUGH and calls out Cam, and men like him, for what’s really holding them back from marriage, and it’s NOT fear of divorce. He also wonders why men focus mainly on the negatives and why some are so confident in some areas and not others. And finally, he answers the question that many men seem to be asking today: What are the benefits of marriage to a man? Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

BLC311: The DNC, LaLa & Women Keeping his Last Name, Rasheeda v Kirk pt 30308, & more...

Sat, 24 Aug 2024 14:49:11 GMT

On the eleventh episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show talking about the Democratic National Convention (03:17). Although the episode was being filmed during the last night of the convention and when Vice President Kamala Harris would give her speech, the crew discussed what they saw at the convention up to that point, the speakers and celebrities at the event, and the overall messaging going into the final leg of the election season. From there, the gang got into an unexpectedly lively discussion about last names, what they mean when people get married, as well as what it could mean when people get divorced (20:53). The conversation was sparked by LaLa Anthony’s recent disclosure about why she kept her surname after divorcing Carmelo Anthony and recent news of Jennifer Lopez filing to divorce Ben Affleck. With recent rumblings of Rasheeda & Kirk’s (from Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta) familiar storyline, him cheating and Rasheeda having to deal with it, the group wonders aloud why a person would consistently put themselves in that situation (41:16), power dynamics in relationships, and why it plays out publicly. With the addition of the viral video where a man discusses the privileges that men paying all the bills should have, like cheating, some wonder if that or the allegation of grooming, plays a role in why some women choose to stay in these relationships. And finally, Omarion talks about his celibacy channeling his inner Lenny Kravitz, which sparks the conversation about whether men and women are looked at differently when they’re celibate and why (1:13:36), and so much more. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC310: Jonathan’s Major FAIL, Weaponizing Marriage, PickMes getting picked, & more!

Sat, 17 Aug 2024 15:22:01 GMT

On the tenth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show talking about Jonathan Major’s emotional tribute to Meagan Good at the Hollywood Unlocked Awards (03:32). The consensus was strong as the crew gave their thoughts on the authenticity of the speech and whether the relationship, as a whole, is genuine. From there, the gang discusses Kirk Franklin’s recent commentary regarding how the church weaponizes marriage against people, particularly single women (19:28). The discussion starts with whether marriage is actually being weaponized and delves into the depths of misogyny in various aspects of life and culture. Taking a lighter turn, the group responds to a social media post about a man who charged guests to attend his wedding and whether that was tacky or a great idea (47:12). Speaking of new traditions, SNM recaps the proposal between Melli Monaco and Gilbert Arenas, where Melli surprises Gil with his own engagement ring before the real conversation begins (59:01). While some see Monaco as a pickme because of her rhetoric towards women, was this an example of how pickmes do, in fact, get picked? Are certain men lying when they say they won’t date a certain type of woman? Especially if they end up dating a woman like that? And speaking of dating, Neyo and Nick Cannon discussed the origin of their player ways, dating back to high school and how girls did them back then (1:35:18). Are they just making excuses to justify their behavior? Is there merit to what they’re saying? Should women be accountable for creating the men they now hate? Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC309: Big Sean won’t Marry Jhene! Preggo Cardi Divorcing Offset? Van Jones, Tim Walz & more

Sat, 10 Aug 2024 14:00:27 GMT

On the ninth episode of the @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, Kim Jones, Just J, & Mr. Finley start the conversation with the Olympics and the storylines that resonated with them (06:52). For some, Noah Lyles winning the Gold after his remarks about the NBA champs not being true world champions stood out. Others highlighted some of the behind-the-scenes events that spilled onto the track, which was the case for Sha’Carri Richardson. And of course, the crew discuss the bounce back and dominance of Simone Biles, the offhand comments about her appearance, and plans for starting a family. The gang pivots to discuss Big Sean’s lackluster response to the marriage question when he sat down with Charlamagne Tha God (28:16). They address the comments around the internet about him making Jhene a baby mom and not wife, whether there’s merit to the conversation, and why men and women may look at this differently. They also discuss what responsibilities men have in leading a relationship, especially if marriage is something she wants, but something he doesn’t. Staying on the topic of relationships, the panel reacts to recent news that Cardi B is pregnant with her third child, while also going through a divorce with Offset (55:24). While making up and breaking up seems to be this couple’s bag, some are skeptical that the two will actually split and whether this was some sort of roll out. Others question the timing and whether it was responsible to get pregnant knowing that their relationship was on the rocks. Speaking of responsibly (or irresponsibly) creating life, the group digs into Van Jones and his “conscience coparenting” situation (1:08:57). They discuss whether he was being responsible with his seed when he agreed to father two kids with a friend, with whom he had no romantic or sexual relationship with. Some were surprised that he did so with a white woman, while others questioned whether that was on brand. The conversation takes an interesting turn when one of the panelists gives Van Jones his flower for stepping up and providing his semen, particularly in the wake of shortage of black sperm. He even posits that this could be the future ,and the conversation devolves from there. And last, but not least, Nic asks, “Who TF is Tim Walz (1:41:26)? It was recently announced that Kamala Harris chose Tim Walz as he running mate for her election against Donald Trump. Many believed he was a good candidate, even though his name wasn’t initially mentioned, primarily because of who he is, where’s his from, and the audience that he’ll speak to. And others question why he was chosen, and if he’ll make an impact in the outcome. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC308: With Biden Out, Can Kamala Win? Sonya Massey’s Tragic End, & so much more!

Sat, 27 Jul 2024 14:09:30 GMT

On the eighth episode of the @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the conversation with Joe Biden’s announcement that he will step aside and not seek reelection for a second term (3:50). They delve into the President’s public address, the “real” reason for his withdrawal, the timing of this decision and the implications for Kamala Harris. Speaking of the VP, the crew discuss her chances of winning, the position she’s in, whether she can win, and the role that black men and women will play in this election (16:29). Taking more of somber tone, the group examine the tragic circumstances around the death of Sonya Massey at the hands of the police (53:53). They discuss the police officer responsible for her death, his checkered past, the role that the George Floyd Justice in Policing Act could’ve had in this case, and why voting in this election can impact the future of cases or circumstances like this. Towards the end of the show, the esteemed panelists talk about Blair Underwood and how he got married to his best friend of 40 years after being married for 27 (1:06:14). Was this a case of a friend waiting in the wings, overlap or monkey branching, or finding the one that was in front of you the entire time? Some question the ethics and impact of such a union and whether men and women can be friends, while others look at the situation with rose-colored glasses. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC307: Trump Assassination Attempt, Amber at the RNC, & Is Common a F- boy?

Sat, 20 Jul 2024 12:59:28 GMT

On the seventh episode of @theBLCPod, the Fantastic Five unite for the first time after a short hiatus. After brief introductions and banter, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J, Mr. Finley & Kim Jones start the show by discussing the assassination attempt on Donald Trump (7:18). They talk about whether people believed it was real when it first happened, why so many think it was staged or at the very least suspicious, who could’ve been behind it, the impact it might have on the election, and whether this sealed the deal for a Trump victory. The crew then pivots, albeit slightly, to Amber Rose’s appearance and speech at the Republican National Convention (46:10). While most question her authenticity and how big the bag was, the cast was somewhat split as to whether her appearance and support of Trump will have any impact. Questions about how she identifies when it comes to race was discussed, as well as the irony of having a woman who allegedly doesn’t claim her blackness speaking at the RNC to try to influence “black voters”, and whether it will work. And lastly, after Common’s recent interview where he somewhat discusses marriage possibilities with Jennifer Hudson, the crew is split on whether Common is lowkey a fuckboy (1:21:07). It was a surprisingly spirited and passionate conversation as they discuss what a fuckboy is, why Common might be exhibiting fuckboy behavior, why and how women should avoid them and ways that men can move to avoid being labeled as one. The cast also discusses whether Tiffany Haddish was hurt, hating, or both when she commented on his interview and the topic of marriage. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

SN115: Why Criticism ≠ Hate & is Important for Growth: A Response to K Dot Fans

Wed, 17 Jul 2024 01:08:39 GMT

On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic begins by addressing some of the people that commented on his video about why he thought ‘Not Like Us’ was not ‘Like That’, the impact hate for Drake had on the success of the song and so on. One of the common accusations was that Nic was hating on Kendrick Lamar and he rebuts that he did no such thing. In fact, Nic expands the conversations and argues that we’re in a culture where anything that seems critical is perceived as hate and why that’s dangerous. He argues that criticism is needed for growth and discusses why it’s important to able to discern constructive criticism from hate. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

SN114: How I Accidentally became a Passport Bro

Sat, 13 Jul 2024 14:00:34 GMT

On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses his recent trip to Medellin, Colombia, which started with Costa Rica in 2016. From exploring alternative places to live with lower cost of living and higher quality of life to the emergence of Passport Bros to explosion of Digital Nomads and Expats, Nic talks about how he accidentally became a Passport Bro. He also talks about the impact of perception, how it affects us moving towards our goals, why travelling gives us more real-life experiences versus going off what people with limited information tell you, and the importance of respecting other cultures. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

SN113: Why 'Not Like Us' is not 'Like That"!

Sat, 13 Jul 2024 12:27:53 GMT

On this special, pop-up episode of #saidNICEly, Nic questions the impact of Kendrick Lamar’s mega diss against Drake, Not Like Us, and his concert at the forum on Juneteenth. While the conversation starts with whether the hype around the song is based on the song’s merits or hate for Drake, it evolves into larger issues including being prisoners of the moment & hyperbole around current events. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

BLC306: Happily Never After: Piss in the Dating Pool to Why Blacks are the Most Divorced

Sat, 29 Jun 2024 13:57:07 GMT

On the sixth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J & Kim Jones start the show talking about the popular internet dating show, Pop The Balloon, if it’s a microcosm of what’s happening in the dating space, the challenges people face in dating, and if there’s pee in the dating pool (02:47). After a complete breakdown, and questionable analogies, the crew shift gears to discuss if polygamous relationships is something black women and black people should consider (29:20). This topic was inspired, in part by last week’s discussion about why black women are the most single and being a solutions-oriented podcast, we wondered if this option could help solve that problem. It was also inspired by a conservative, black women, who appeared to be Muslim, talking about her willingness to share her man for the betterment of that women and society. Sexyy Red also recently declared that she was sharing Chief Keef with another. While the conversation started off as one would expect, you could slowly see the change in hearts and minds as the conversation continues, and some even learned a thing or two. Lastly, the group discusses why Black divorce rates are higher, in some cases, almost twice as high as their counterparts in America (57:03). While some could be contributed to COVID, statistical anomalies, the crew wonders and discusses the role race, programming, pop culture, and lack of role models play in the rise in divorces. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC305: A Fairytale Ending: Why Some SBW🤦🏾‍♀️ like Ashanti Get Theirs & Some Don’t

Sat, 22 Jun 2024 14:11:28 GMT

On the fifth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, & Just J welcomes new cast member, Kim Jones, to the show. Kim brought her experience and expertise to the discussion as they started the show with trying to answer the question of why black women are more single than other races of women as well as their male counterparts (04:21). Kim kicks off the discussion with a conversation about the incarceration rate and its impact on black women being single before all hell breaks loose. After Kim, SNM, & Just J gives their thoughts, Nic erupts in a classic rant that you don’t want to miss. Aside from the inherent ‘Toxique’ in the conversation, the group tries to provide solutions on how to solve the singledom problem amongst black women. From there, the crew discuss recent news of Ashanti reconnecting with former flame, Nelly, as it was discovered that not only were they expecting a child together, but they were also married (37:37). The crew gets into an interesting conversation about spinning the block, whether that’s a good idea or dating strategy, things someone should consider if they’re considering spinning the block, the upside and the downsides, and the role that the fairytale and desperation plays as women focus on their biological clocks. And finally, the crew discussed Juneteenth, whether it’s something that caught on, a bone that the Democrats threw to avoid addressing the real issues black America faces, and if marketing and lack of knowledge is part of the reason the holiday has yet to resonate (57:03). Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC304: Sad & Bougie: Eboni K, masculine 🤦🏾‍♀️BW, 🤦🏽‍♂️BM's #MeToo Moment & more!!!

Sat, 15 Jun 2024 14:01:57 GMT

On the fourth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SMN Jones, Penny Finley, & SB Roberts start by discussing Eboni K and comments she made regarding how some black women are men in skirts, while trying to define certain behavior of black women as masculine (03:37). The crew pushes back on her comments and ponder the impact her ideas may have on other women, who may not be in the same position as her. They also discuss the trope of the strong, independent black woman, its root, and impact on today’s conversations. They also talk about the idea of being a boss (or leader) and whether being one is based on masculine archetypes, or real characteristics of masculinity. The crew then pivots to another clip from Eboni K about how some black women don’t see the intrinsic value in marriage (36:53). Some disagreed with her comments and discussed the importance of marriage, particularly in the black community. Nic ponders what are the intrinsic values in marriage, and why so many see it as nothing more than a piece of paper. The conversation gets heated when discussing real life situations where men aren’t pulling their weight, tropes against accountability, and the double-standard nature of the conversation. And closing out the show, the crew discuss Michael Rainey, Jr. being groped (or SA’d) on Ty Ty James livestream, the double standard when it comes to gender and sexual misconduct or assault, and the inequities in the criminal justice system regarding sexual assault cases (01:31:35). Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC303: LAW & disORDER: The Dream/Kanye Accused; Baby on the Way for Eboni K!

Sat, 08 Jun 2024 13:00:36 GMT

On the third episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SMN Jones, Penny Finley, & Just J start by somewhat congratulating the employees at Revolt for gaining equity in the company from Diddy’s share, while also trying to discuss new allegations against the Diddler (03:52). From there, they discuss the allegations made against singer, songwriter, & super producer The Dreams by Chanaaz Mangroe (09:06). At the heart of the conversation is why women may take time before reporting, the implications for some if it’s criminal versus civil, the power dynamics at play, & why powerful men need to be more careful. The also discuss the sexual harassment accusations made against Kanye by his assistant (38:55). The conversation turns to the WNBA and Caitlin Clark, and whether black women are hating on her, the physicality in the women’s game, gender biases, and the role that race plays (54:34). And for the final topic, the crew Discusses Eboni K’s recent baby bump pictures, her choosing to become a single mom, the implications for other women, if this is a trend that will pick up, and so much more (1:27:38). Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

BLC302: Trump’s Trials to Vivica’s Tribulations; White Boy Wasted to Black Chick Dateless!

Sat, 01 Jun 2024 13:00:33 GMT

In the second episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Mr. Finley and Mr. Brown delve into Donald Trump’s conviction on 34 counts, becoming the first president to be guilty of a felony, how that affects his ability to run and win, why his support among black people have grown and whether criminality plays a role. The group shifts gears and talk about black people traveling and moving abroad to places like Medellin, Costa Rica, looking for lower cost of living and higher quality of life. They also discuss the benefits of travel and broadening one’s horizons, as well as the importance of getting to know the culture and being respectful, as well as the impact of “Passport Bros”, and the perceptions of Americans. From Colombian courtesan’s, the group pivots to discussing Vivica A. Fox’s recent interview discussing her current dating status, what she’s looking for, and whether she wasted her best years to only loosen her “standards” now that she has less options. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

SN112: Why Effective Communication is NEEDED & How #saidNICEly Came About

Wed, 15 May 2024 17:23:07 GMT

On the 12th episode of #saidNICEly, discover the power of effective communication. Nic Nice, aka Big Nic Energy, discusses the origin of #saidNICEly, shares his thoughts on crafting messages that resonate, and reaching people where they are. He also discusses how to engage in productive conversations and avoid misunderstandings, especially in this internet, social media age. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

SN111 (FULL): The UNBIASED Take on Kendrick/Drake Battle & 6 TAKEAWAYS for the Rest of Us

Sat, 11 May 2024 21:13:09 GMT

On this episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. For the second half of the conversation, Nic continues the takeaways starting with cautioning people against the Rush to Judgment, followed by how Strategy is King. He also provides a sixth and bonus takeaway, Silence is Golden. While the rap beef was interesting, Nic didn’t want to let this beef go to waste (Pause), without thinking about what we can learn from this experience. Hopefully you enjoy the conversation. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN111: An OBJECTIVE Take on K. Dot vs. Drake & TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 2)

Sat, 11 May 2024 16:03:26 GMT

On the 11th episode of #SaidNICEly, and part 2 of the Take on Kendrick & Drake Rap Battle, Nic continues the takeaways starting with cautioning people against the Rush to Judgment, followed by how Strategy is King. He also provides a sixth and bonus takeaway, Silence is Golden. While the rap beef was interesting, Nic didn’t want to let this beef go to waste (Pause), without thinking about what we can learn from this experience. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN110: Rare UNBIASED Take on Kendrick vs. Drake & 6 TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 1)

Fri, 10 May 2024 20:02:26 GMT

On the 10th episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. Stay tuned for Part 2 and don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN109: Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar Battle Breakdown #saidNICEly

Sun, 05 May 2024 16:55:16 GMT

On the ninth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic jumps into the fray with his opinions on the Drake vs Kendrick Lamar beef. He provides a timeline of things escalated between the two MCs after Drake and J. Cole dropped “First Person Shooter” and Kendrick followed up with a scathing rebuke of Drake (& maybe J. Cole caught a stray) on Future & Metro Boomin’s smash single “Like That”. Things quickly escalated from there and Nic gives his thoughts on who’s winning this war of words, if it’s living up to the hype & so much. Tune and tap in. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that!!!

SN107 (Full): Why Amanda Seales is A Narcissist using Autism to Avoid Accountability

Sat, 04 May 2024 22:39:09 GMT

Check out the full 3-part series of #saidNICEly, where Nic Nice discusses Amanda Seales after her Club Shay Shay interview, and why he thinks that she’s taken avoidance of accountability to the next level. In part 1, Nic addresses the response and backlash received after his previous episode on Amanda and from there gets into some of her problematic behavior. In part 2, Nic discusses & her avoidance of accountability as well as recent claims of an autism diagnosis and how he things she using that as an excuse. He also shows how she’s Pulling A Jussie by being “low-key noble” and using autism for sympathy, similar to Jussie Smollett faking a hate crime for sympathy; which is confirmed by her own comments. He discusses the implications of her actions and explores the importance of empathy and real-world consequences. Lastly for part 3, Nic delves into the controversial statements made by Amanda Seales and explore the blurred lines between criticism, empathy, and narcissism, the problems with self-diagnosis and the dangers of falling for exploitation. Tune in and don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.

SN108: Pickmes & Why Women Should Cook, Clean, F--k & STFU!

Sat, 04 May 2024 22:12:45 GMT

In the 8th episode, Nic explores a thought-provoking new rap song by China Monai that challenges the current music climate with artist like Sexyy Red & Glorilla. Her new single, I Cook, I Clean, upsets societal norms associated with modern women and offers a different perspective on love and submission. Join the discussion about the reactions and implications of this bold message. Tune in and don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, & share.

SN107: Amanda Seales: Is Narcissism (v. Autism) the Right Diagnosis? Pt. 3

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 15:12:23 GMT

On episode 7 of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice concludes his 3-part series on Is Amanda Seales being “low-key noble”; using Autism for Sympathy & to Avoid Accountability? He delves into the controversial statements made by her and explore the blurred lines between criticism, empathy, and narcissism. Discover the impact of self-diagnosis and the dangers of falling for exploitation. Let's discuss the importance of accountability and the pitfalls of defending someone based solely on likability.

SN106: Exposing Amanda Seales' Using Autism for Sympathy! Pt. 2

Mon, 29 Apr 2024 18:48:34 GMT

In the 6th episode of #saidNICEly, Nic delves into part 2 of his series about Amanda Seales' & her avoidance of accountability as well as recent claims of autism as an excuse. He also shows how she’s Pulling A Jussie & being “low-key noble” by leaning on self-diagnosed autism for sympathy, similar to Jussie Smollett faking a hate crime for sympathy; which is confirmed by her own comments. We discuss the implications of her actions and explore the importance of empathy and real-world consequences. Part 2 of the series. Part 3 coming soon. Stay tuned. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and follow at the BLC pod!

SN105: Is Amanda Seales using Autism to Avoid Accountability? Pt. 1

Sun, 28 Apr 2024 14:08:29 GMT

In the fifth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses Amanda Seales after her Club Shay Shay interview, and why he thinks that she’s taken avoidance of accountability to the next level. In the first part of a series, Nic addresses the response and backlash received after his previous episode on Amanda and from there gets into some of her problematic behavior. Part 2 coming soon. Stay tuned. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and follow at the BLC pod!

SN104: Why (BLACK) Businesses Need to Do Better re. Customer Service

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 12:01:49 GMT

In the fourth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the crucial role that customer service plays when it comes to of supporting Black-owned businesses. He shares personal experiences of encountering poor customer service and emphasizes the importance of businesses being receptive to feedback and making necessary improvements. The conversation also touches on the symbiotic relationship between customers and businesses, the role of efficiency in customer service, and the need for a mindset shift. Don't miss out on this insightful conversation! Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Also like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.

SN103: The Problem w/ the WNBA, Equal Pay Conversation

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 23:31:35 GMT

In the third episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the pay disparity between the WNBA and NBA players, highlights the reasons behind the pay difference, including the number of games, revenue generation, and interest in the game. The conversation also touches on negotiation tactics and the importance of considering business considerations. Nic emphasizes the need for nuanced discussions and solutions to improve the WNBA and elevate the game. The episode concludes with a call to support and be a fan of the WNBA. Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.

SN102: Amanda Seales & lack of accountability, respectfully!

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 12:00:46 GMT

In the second episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the recent bruhaha around Amanda Seales after she wondered aloud why she wasn’t invited into black spaces. When several outlets attempted to answer that question for her, her support train jumped into action to defend her at all cost. But is Amanda Seales a victim of a hate train or is she someone who suffers from lack of self-awareness and accountability? Nic takes his turn in answering the question and the broader implications. Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.

SN101: Why J. Cole did the right thing by apologizing

Sun, 14 Apr 2024 16:54:46 GMT

In the premiere episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses J. Cole and the apology heard around the world! First Nic dispels the idea that Cole is scared of Kendrick, deep dives into who J. Cole is and has been, the pitfalls of rash decisions, friends influence on us, being a man and accountable. He concludes with the evolution of the game, uses Lebron and MJ as examples, what being a man is, how we judge being the GOAT, and why it’s time for all of us in the culture to evolve. Tune in and tune up! Comment below!

OSC Ep. 3: Cleared for Takeoff

Tue, 26 Mar 2024 11:46:06 GMT

In the third installment of off-season conversation, Nic Nice and SNM Jones have a blast from the past as they chop it up with a former Clubhouse guest Mr. Finley, an avid participant in "Black Women Need Love Too" and "Make Marriage Great Again" Clubhouses. As they reminisce on their Clubhouse connection and the evolution to today’s podcast, they get to know Mr. Finley aka “Penny” a bit more as he shares his experience with looking for love and finding it. They delve into his journey as a newly married man as he discussed dating woes, finding a compatible partner within his tax bracket, his preference for a college-educated woman, and the complexities of avoiding single mothers and women with unrealistic expectations. The conversation shifts to Mr. Finley's non-negotiables and his perspective on Candace Owens and her politics. The episode wraps up with a teaser of more to come from the @TheBLCPod. Tune in, like, subscribe, follow, and share!

OSC Ep. 2: When They Go Low

Thu, 07 Dec 2023 16:35:18 GMT

In the second & final installment of off-season conversations, Nic & S.N.M. start with their appreciation & enjoyment of the disclaimer, followed by S.N.M. kicking off Sagittarius season with her birthday coming up & celebrating at a Swinger’s Club. After acknowledging J’s absence, & a brief discussion of whether this episode was considered a pop-up, they dive into the topics, starting with Jonathan Major’s ex stating that he wanted her, a white woman, to emulate Michelle Obama & Coretta Scott King. They talk about recent revelations or allegations regarding Jeannie Mai & Jeezy’s divorce involving infidelity & gatekeeping, TJ Holmes & Amy Robach’s exes getting together, & Deion Sanders & Tracey Edmond announcing the end of their relationship. SNM takes a victory lap as Eboni K Williams seems to agree with her about Lori Harvey & how she’s moving like she should in dating, which leads to a discussion about whether black men & women should get married earlier & so much more.

OSC Ep. 1: Rush To Judgment

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 20:11:06 GMT

In the first off-season conversation, the BLC crew admit to having withdrawal in talking their talk since the season ended. They talk about their Thanksgiving experience with J admitting to having the worst tasting Turkey Day ever, SNM having two Thanksgiving meals, and Nic having a quiet holiday at home. They give updates on topics that they’ve discussed before like Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti still going strong, and Tamar Braxton being spotted with her old bae. J recalls the story about Snoop giving up smoke and him following suit, but for real. They discuss updates regarding Diddy and additional accusations made against him and others, the outrage around the coverage (or lack thereof) of Josh Giddey, an OKC player accused of having relations with an underage girl, and the difference in how white men are covered versus black men. Malika Andrews and Stephen A Smith seem to be at the center of the outrage from people like Kwame Brown, Dez Bryant and others, and the crew discuss how we treat rush to judgement of our own, and so much more. Tune in and enjoy! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share and all that good stuff.