Olivia and Andrew talk about the sexual shame she carried from a Roman Catholic upbringing and years of people-pleasing, the breathwork experience that changed how she understood her own sexuality, and why presence, not technique, is what actually creates connection. They also cover ongoing consent, where porn helps and where it distorts expectations, and the sexual trauma so many women carry for decades before ever naming it.

This episode discusses sexuality, shame, consent and sexual trauma candidly and is intended for a mature audience.

Guest: Olivia Dydyna, certified sex, love and relationship coach, Theta Healing practitioner, couples tantric sex coach

https://www.oliviadydyna.com/

https://www.oliviadydyna.com/blog/doing-fine-not-the-same-as-free

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

@theintimacyinquiry

Guest: Porcelain Victoria, Behind the Paddle podcast.

https://porcelaindolly.co.uk/

https://www.youtube.com/@BehindthePaddle/videos

Host: Andrew Phipps.

Guest: Jenn Mason, Wink Wink, Bellingham, Washington.

https://www.heyjennmason.com/

https://winkwinkboutique.com/

Host: Andrew Phipps.

Guest: Dr Lori Davis, sex counsellor and relational therapy coach.

https://dr-loridavis.com/

Host: Andrew Phipps.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-phipps-ap/

Kiki has kindly provided 2 free resources for you to enjoy:

Kink Unwrapped:

https://www.yonilicious.com.au/kink-unwrapped

Intimacy Conversation Practices:

https://www.yonilicious.com.au/intimacy-conversation-practice

Kiki and Andrew talk about the shame she grew up with around her own body, how the kink community taught her more about consent and communication than years of academic study, and the common themes she sees in clients, from shame and numbness to performance pressure. They discuss what a yoni massage actually is and why she built a global school around it, what's genuinely missing from sex education for children, and why she believes consent needs to be checked in on continuously, not treated as a single yes.

This episode includes candid discussion of sexuality, kink and personal experience and is intended for a mature audience.

Guest: Kiki Maree, trauma-informed sexologist, founder of Yonilicious Academy

• https://www.yonilicious.com.au/

• https://substack.com/@kikimareexx?r=2u9fyk&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/kiki-maree-0204a9167?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app
• https://www.facebook.com/kristin.yonilicious
• @yonilicious
• Yonilicious

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

Pamela and Andrew talk about the boredom, not brokenness, that started her own search for something more after more than two decades of marriage, why touch work is often the missing piece talk therapy alone can't reach, what many men misunderstand about women's pleasure, and why she believes desire doesn't have to fade with age. They also discuss the professional structure and strict boundaries behind her retreats, and how permission, not perfection, is what keeps long marriages alive.

This episode includes frank, anatomically detailed discussion of sex and pleasure and is intended for a mature audience.

Guest: Pamela Madsen, somatic wellness educator, founder of Back to the Body, author of Shameless

• backtothebody.org
• @thepamelamadsen
• @backtothebodyorg
• https://backtothebody.org/pages/masterclass

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

Nikkiema and Andrew talk about why so many successful women feel disconnected from their own bodies, what a session with a somatic sexologist actually looks like, and why a mismatch in desire between partners is rarely just about sex. They cover how modern porn is quietly reshaping expectations of intimacy, why curiosity fades as we get older, how to build the capacity to talk to a partner about a kink or fantasy, and one small, practical way to start reconnecting with your own body today.

Guest: Nikkiema Rai, somatic sexologist, self-discovery coach and international speaker

https://nikkiemarai.com/

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

Lulu and Andrew talk about the night she realised her old life wasn't enough, even at its most outwardly successful, what surrender actually feels like when it isn't weakness, why slowness and reduced distraction let us access real pleasure and connection, and why she believes redefining sex as something broader than a fixed menu of acts changes people's relationships to their own bodies. Toward the end of the conversation, Lulu shares a recent stage IV colon cancer diagnosis and what she's holding onto for the future.

Guest: Heather "Lulu" Mazzei, licensed clinical social worker, certified psychedelic-assisted therapist, tantra and sacred sexuality practitioner, author of Spirit Sex

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

website: alternativelove.com

Substack: https://alternativelove.substack.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/alternativelove.sf/

In this conversation, Andrew and Kori talk about the real difference between a boundary and a request, why chemistry so often gets mistaken for compatibility, how victim/villain thinking keeps couples stuck, and why some differences between partners are simply irreconcilable, without either person being at fault. They also cover ethical non-monogamy, the modern loneliness epidemic, and why the body often knows what the mind hasn't caught up to yet.

Guest: Kori Strobl, self-leadership and relationship coach https://www.koristrobl.com/ https://www.instagram.com/koristrobl/

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

Andrew and Anna talk about why desire in long relationships doesn't disappear, it redirects, sometimes toward parenting or career, sometimes toward AI companions, and what that means for couples who feel like they've simply "gone flat." They cover the relationship shift model that predicts how couples drift from positive to neutral to negative, the research behind pre-terminal and terminal stages that quietly precede a gray divorce, where the modern lines of cheating actually sit in a world of OnlyFans and AI chatbots, and the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire. Anna also shares the one simple practice she recommends to every couple she works with.

Guest: Dr. Anna Elton, licensed marriage and family therapist and clinical sexologist, author of The Formula of Desire

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

• https://annaelton.com/
• https://theformulaofdesire.com/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaelton/
• https://www.facebook.com/drannaelton
• @drannaelton
• @drannaelton

The conversation covers why she believes many men are unsettled by a woman who openly knows and states her own desire, the double standards sex workers face in dating, how she uses image and persona to reclaim control over how she's seen, and her concerns about AI, from generic AI-written communication to the ethics of submissive sex robots. She also discusses reconciling her religious identity with her work, and her ongoing PhD research on religious sex workers.

This episode discusses sex work and sexuality in explicit terms and is intended for a mature audience.

Guest: Shoshanna Blanca (AKA Jesus Christ Pornstar), sex writer, adult performer, sexologist, PhD candidate in clinical sexology

Host: Andrew Phipps, Intimacy Inquiry

https://linktr.ee/shoshannalovesjesus1

In Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire, Power, and Pleasure in Long-Term Love, Caroline challenges the assumption that desire must precede sex. Drawing on Emily Nagoski's research into spontaneous and responsive desire, she argues that physical and emotional intimacy form a loop, not a hierarchy, and that maintaining physical closeness is itself a buffer against the drift toward roommate, co-parent, and coworker that so many long-term couples experience.

In this conversation with Andrew, Caroline covers a lot of ground. Why the gender archetypes around desire are serving nobody, including men. Why women's desire always seems to require an explanation while men's is validated without question. Why defining sex as penetration creates unnecessary barriers and diminishes female pleasure, given that around 80% of women orgasm through non-penetrative means. Why the most pleasurable sex reported by many people is not spontaneous but planned, communicated, and intentional.

They also explore: the difference between touch that is a request for sex and touch that simply is; how to start the desire conversation outside the bedroom and before things reach crisis point; why mismatched libido is better understood by asking what need is actually being met; why the high and low libido labels are too static to be useful; and whether monogamy is a natural human state or a relatively recent social construct, drawing on Esther Perel and recent research from the Kinsey Institute.

Caroline also talks about what writing the book did to her own relationship (spoiler: only good things), and why she believes the mundane, imperfect, ten-minute version of sex is just as important to a relationship as the two-hour tasting menu.

Warm, practical, and genuinely freeing.

Sex Begets Sex is available now. Caroline writes at Substack under Desire in Real Life.

https://www.desireinreallife.com/

In this conversation with Andrew, Stephanie traces the thread from a rural Wisconsin upbringing where sex education meant abstinence and essentially nothing else, through a clinical career that repeatedly exposed the same gap: nobody in mainstream medicine was connecting hormonal decline to quality of life, and nobody was treating sexual wellness as the essential part of overall health that it is.

They cover a great deal of ground. Why erectile dysfunction is often one of the first signs of heart disease, and why it is always multifactorial. What happens to testosterone, estrogen, and progesterone from your 30s onwards, and how those changes affect everything from cognition and mood to pain during sex. Why hormone replacement therapy is still not taught in standard medical school training. Why women were not required to be included in US research studies until 1993. And why early hormone replacement may reduce the risk of dementia, osteoporosis, and cardiovascular disease.

Stephanie and Andrew also explore what it means to redefine sex as pleasure rather than performance; the value of wellness tools and a self-pleasure practice; what providers can learn from the BDSM community about ongoing consent; and why a single yes is not a yes for life.

She explains why she walked away from corporate medicine and ten-minute appointments to found Revive, a clinic where she takes as long as each patient needs, examines hormones in combination rather than in isolation, and has no intention of franchising.

Practical, warm, and long overdue.

Revive Institute of Sexual Health: revivish.com

Between the Sheets with Dr. Z: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/between-the-sheets-exploring-sexual-health-wellness/id1760176031?uo=4

https://www.instagram.com/betweenthesheetswithdrz/

Raised between South Carolina and El Paso by a young single mother, Amanda learned early to adapt herself to whatever environment she was in. Outwardly confident, top of her class, socially fluent; inwardly fighting an eating disorder and self-harm she kept hidden from everyone around her for five years. Her sense of identity was fragile, her sexuality was uncertain, and at 14 she was sent without warning from South Carolina to El Paso with no phone, no explanation, and no one who knew where she had gone.

In this conversation with Andrew, Amanda traces the events that shaped her: the bullying that made her push down her attraction to girls; the older men who groomed her as a teenager and the distorted sense of power that made her believe she was in control; the unplanned pregnancy at 19 that changed the direction of everything; and the inpatient psychiatric treatment in 2017 that eventually led to a bipolar II diagnosis, and with it the most profound relief of her life.

She describes the years that followed: the medication that finally stabilised her, the husband who did not flinch, and the slow, painful recognition that her mother was not going to change. She reflects on what it meant to go no contact without a confrontation, to notice the silence from the other end, and to arrive at something she simply calls indifference. Because the opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference.

The conversation also moves through pansexuality and ethical non-monogamy; parenting as a third-generation estranged child who is actively choosing to do things differently; what it feels like to like yourself while still trying to meet yourself fully; and what she is building towards: finishing her degree, switching to zoology or biology, and eventually opening an animal rescue with her husband.

One of the most unflinchingly honest conversations The Intimacy Inquiry has had.

In this conversation with Andrew, Natasha traces the thread from her European upbringing, free of puritanical religious shame, through years of reporting in Italy, to the pivotal moment in a Nashville newsroom when a rape retrial changed the direction of her career.

She reflects on the chronic failures of media coverage of gender-based violence: the staggering gap between the statistics (Nashville alone sees 25-30,000 domestic violence investigations per year, against roughly 10 domestic homicides) and what actually makes the news; the loaded language that alibis perpetrators and re-traumatises survivors; and why terms like "she snapped," "monster," and "violence against women" are not neutral, but actively harmful.

The conversation moves through the Epstein case and what it reveals about power protecting power; the criminalisation of marital rape (UK: 1991, Tennessee: 2012); how Saint Augustine helped reshape the church's definition of sex as procreative only; and why the anatomy of the clitoris was not fully mapped until 2005.

Natasha and Andrew also explore how hypersexual myths about men damage male sexuality; why "foreplay" is a term worth questioning; the gendered double standards baked into everyday language; and the inextricable link between sexual inequity and intimate partner violence.

Natasha shares the personal toll of gender violence reporting, how the Women Like Sex project helped her step back without stepping away, and her plans to train as a certified sex health educator, because she wants to do more than funnel expert voices. She wants to become one.

Topics include: sexual shame and cultural conditioning; domestic violence statistics and the media blind spots that hide them; coercion as the most prevalent form of sexual assault; the Madonna-whore complex and its religious roots; consent education; unconscious bias in journalism; privilege, race, and newsroom culture; and what it will take to flip the script.

Women Like Sex podcast: https://womenlikesex.com/

I Wish I'd Known: https://www.pmja.org/contacts/natasha-senjanovic

Jennifer's path to the camera ran through a childhood defined by emotional neglect and sexual abuse. Molested at 10 by a family friend, raised largely by herself from the age of six, she grew into adulthood carrying those wounds without ever being taught how to process them. What she did instead was pour herself into others: 13 years of passionate anti-human trafficking work, sparked by watching the film Taken, which led her to join a local task force, educate college communities about the signs of trafficking, and focus specifically on the protection of minors. polarisproject.org

This conversation is honest about all of it. Jennifer talks about managing vicarious trauma through repeated breaks, about the reality that trafficking most often involves people the victim knows and trusts, and about the fact that no amount of education fully protected her own family: her eldest daughter was raped at 16 by an older boy at a party, a disclosure she shares with quiet candour.

The modeling story is equally candid. She describes saying yes immediately to photography offers that followed her boudoir photos, with one significant exception: a terrifying experience with a fake photographer early in her career, involving an empty house, a husband locked outside, and a stranger banging on the door, that she shares as a direct warning to younger women navigating Instagram casting calls.

Body image runs through the whole conversation. Jennifer is self-conscious about her breast size, wakes at 3am worrying about bookings, and admits she has cried over the gap between what she looks like and what the most heavily booked models look like. She also shares what her tattoos mean: each one tells a chapter of her life, and the one that reads "I am set free" came after she finally, through law enforcement contacts made during her trafficking work, found out what happened to the man who abused her as a child.

The episode closes on her goals: more tattooed women in mainstream fashion and branding, and a platform that inspires women of any age and any body to embrace, in her words, an I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward who gets to be seen as beautiful.

https://www.instagram.com/inkedmom3/

https://inkedmomshop.printify.me/

Note: this episode contains frank discussion of childhood sexual abuse, sexual assault, and adult themes. Listener discretion is advised.

Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and via RSS.

Erika's path to this work began with her own struggle to heal. After 17 years of talk therapy that addressed her depression but never touched the sexual trauma beneath it, a single bodywork training session triggered unexpected flashbacks and everything shifted. She returned to school to study somatic psychotherapy, pieced together the approaches that finally worked for her, and began teaching them to the survivors who arrived in her practice.

The conversation opens with Erika reflecting on growing up with contradictory messages about female sexuality, and on the sexual assaults she experienced as a teenager that she did not recognise as assault at the time. She describes how the body stores what the mind pushes away, and why the unconscious protects a person from their trauma until they have enough resources to face it.

Sexual trauma, Erika says, is not just a body-mind wound but a soul wound; one that tends to produce more symptoms and run deeper than most. She explains how EMDR combines integration with memory reconsolidation so that the negative beliefs survivors hold about themselves organically become positive ones when the process is complete.

Much of the conversation focuses on practical healing: establishing safety and presence before deeper work begins, understanding what emotions reveal about needs, and formulating those needs as requests. Erika describes Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent and the body mapping exercise she uses to help survivors and their partners navigate touch with clarity and care.

She is direct about the role of partners in healing: they need to regulate their own nervous systems, because the survivor cannot manage both. She shares a striking example of a client whose partner's anger during a flashback mid-sex set her recovery back significantly, and explains what genuine support actually looks like.

Andrew and Erika also discuss the $160,000 average financial cost of sexual trauma per survivor according to CDC data, and where to begin if you have never done body-based work. Erika describes her orienting exercise, Coming Into Safety or Presence, the first chapter of her workbook, available free at healingsexualtrauma.com.

https://erikashershuntherapy.com/healing-sexual-trauma/ link to Erika's excellent books

Note: this episode contains frank discussion of sexual assault and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

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Fran describes a childhood spent finding meaning through connection with others, often the marginalised and overlooked, long before she understood why. After being raped by an acquaintance, with a friend's involvement complicating the dynamic further, Fran found that traditional therapy did not address her sexual trauma. It was through somatic work, specifically training at the Somatica Institute, that she felt truly heard for the first time.

From there, Fran built a life around understanding why people hurt themselves and others. Working in food scarcity, domestic violence, rape crisis advocacy, and human trafficking support, she identifies a single recurring thread: dysregulation. She argues that men in particular are taught that their sexuality is acceptable but their emotions are not, leading the nervous system to route fear, stress, and loneliness through arousal, sometimes with damaging consequences.

Fran is sharply critical of the addiction model as applied to sexual behaviour, arguing that labelling someone an addict can entrench the very shame that drives the behaviour in the first place. She introduces what she calls the fifth F, alongside fight, flight, freeze, and fawn, and explains how understanding the body's stress responses can change a person's relationship with their own sexuality.

The conversation moves into somatic therapy more broadly: why talking about trauma often isn't enough, how the body holds what the mind cannot process, and why Fran believes reconnecting with physical sensation, including through weightlifting in her own case, was essential to her healing.

Perhaps most strikingly, Fran speaks openly about her use of BDSM as a deliberate, consensual way of processing her assault, reframing an experience of powerlessness into one where she holds control. She and Andrew discuss why kink communities often communicate far more openly and consensually than conventional relationships, and why this openness can be transformative.

Fran also reflects on staying in her marriage longer than she felt was right, what it taught her about safety, and how the years since her divorce have been spent deliberately exploring her own sexuality without rushing toward a new relationship. She and Andrew discuss whether humans are naturally monogamous or polyamorous, the cultural building blocks, like understanding jealousy and compersion, that Fran believes are missing for polyamory to be widely accepted, and how self-sabotage often shows up as a way of confirming our deepest fears about ourselves.

The conversation closes with Fran's hopes for the future: writing about the people she meets through volunteering, advocacy for men's emotional and sexual wellbeing, and a particular interest in death doula work, supporting intimacy, touch, and connection at the end of life, something she says is too often ignored.

This episode contains frank discussion of sexual assault, trauma, and adult themes. Listener discretion is advised.

Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and via RSS.

Maria's story begins in a Catholic household where sex was never mentioned but nudity was ordinary. She became a nude model at university, then an exotic dancer, then a clinical social worker, and eventually a therapist specialising in sex, relationships, and somatic healing. Now 60, she says she is having the best sex of her life, a statement she backs up with both personal experience and clinical insight.

The conversation moves across a remarkable amount of ground. Maria explains what men at strip clubs were really seeking when they broke down in front of her: not sex, but genuine connection, the same thing that brings people to dominatrices, OnlyFans creators, and therapists alike. She describes her journey toward what she calls her sacred work, including a course for women navigating perimenopause and post-menopause, built on the practice of self yoni massage, which she credits with eliminating her own vaginal dryness and restoring her libido after just a few weeks.

Maria and Andrew explore why talk therapy so often fails to create real change, and how somatic techniques such as gentle reprocessing and EMDR work differently, rewiring the brain at a level where language cannot reach. Maria shares her own experience: years of unknowingly choosing partners with addiction issues, a pattern that only ended after she worked through the childhood trauma that was driving it. She explains how unhealed wounds do not disappear; they recruit new people to re-inflict them until something shifts at the cellular level.

The pair dig into what tantra actually is, not the westernised caricature of exotic positions, but a philosophy that everything in the universe is sacred and connected, and that the deepest intimacy begins with presence. Maria describes simple practices, including eye gazing and synchronised breathing, that can transform a conversation or a sexual encounter in under two minutes.

They also cover the psychology of erectile dysfunction, the real logistics of polyamory, why couples stop touching each other and what that costs them in oxytocin and closeness, and why redefining pleasure beyond a narrow heteronormative script opens up possibilities that many people close off prematurely, often in their forties or fifties, assuming their best years are behind them.

This is a conversation for anyone who has ever felt that their desire was something to be managed or suppressed rather than understood and celebrated. Maria makes the case, calmly and from experience, that it is not too late. It may, in fact, be just beginning.

Maria Merloni: mariamerloni.com Free five-minute guided yoni reconnection practice: mariamerloni.com/ritual

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Shoshanna traces the journey from her first psychedelic encounter with Jesus in 2021, through her research into feminist biblical scholarship, to the creation of projects including Church in Bed, Coming to God, Uncovering Eve, and The Second Cumming. Her latest book, Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain, reinterprets the story of Adam and Eve, arguing that the curses of Genesis were not divine punishments but prophetic descriptions of patriarchy and capitalism, already redeemed by the crucifixion and waiting to be claimed.

In this rich and wide-ranging conversation, Andrew and Shoshanna explore the philosophical and theological case for treating the body as a sacred portal to the divine, the difference between spiritual erotic performance art and conventional pornography, the ethics of the sex work industry, and why so many content creators and performers also hold deep spiritual lives. They discuss the virgin/whore dichotomy, the outdated laws governing the therapy profession, the politics of psychedelic prohibition, and Shoshanna's belief that the Rapture is already unfolding online through cancel culture and collective awakening.

Shoshanna also shares her vision of the Second Coming: not a single figure descending from the sky, but a collective awakening led by women reclaiming spiritual authority and embodying Christ consciousness through non-judgment, unconditional love, and body acceptance. And she outlines her most ambitious project yet: staging the Rapture on Pornhub as a space for radical emotional honesty and conflict resolution.

Thought-provoking, theologically curious, and genuinely unlike anything else in your podcast feed.

This episode contains mature themes and explicit discussion of sexuality and adult content creation. Intended for adult listeners.

In this episode of The Intimacy Inquiry, Andrew Phipps sits down with Michelena Rose, Playboy cover model and Playmate, international model, adult film star, licensed massage therapist, and sex and relationship coach. Based in Miami after building her brand in Myrtle Beach, Michelena films her actual sex life on her own terms, with zero compromise. She is also a mum, a business owner, and one of the most grounded, honest, and genuinely warm people you will hear on this show.

This conversation goes exactly where you hope it does, and somewhere you probably did not expect.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why what you see on camera is exactly who she is off camera
• How OnlyFans changed the power dynamic for women in adult content
• Why your man is not subscribing to her for the sex (and what he actually needs)
• Knives, swords, cacti, Roman candles: the shock and awe content explained
• How to ask your partner for what you really want, without shame
• Pegging: why more women should try being the one in control
• Bisexuality, non-jealousy, and where she draws her personal line
• What love means to her, and giving someone permission to break your heart
• The conversation she already had with her son at age 10
• Her five to ten year vision: podcast, coaching, and taking the sex and relationship world by storm

TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction 01:30 What You See on Camera Is Exactly Who She Is 03:00 Filming Real Sex vs Performing: The Key Difference 04:30 Why She Never Considered Mainstream Studios 05:30 OnlyFans, Creator Control, and the Connection Economy 07:00 Why Her Fans Subscribe (and What Partners Miss at Home) 09:00 Social Media, Disconnection, and Making People Feel Alive 13:00 Growing Up Italian, Free-Spirited, and Body Confident 14:30 How Women React When They First Meet Her 17:00 What She Wants People to Feel Watching Her Work 19:30 Knives, Swords, Cacti, Roman Candles: Shock and Awe Explained 22:30 Every Object Is a First Time, Live on Camera 24:00 A Typical Day: 5AM Gym, Massages, Soccer, Dinner at 6 25:30 The Conversation With Her Son at Age 10 29:00 How to Ask Your Partner for What You Really Want 32:00 The Right Way to Bring Up Pegging 33:30 Why Pegging Is Empowering for Women 39:00 Partners on Camera: When Someone Was Not Comfortable 41:00 Bisexuality, Non-Jealousy, and Where She Draws the Line 42:00 What Love Really Means to Her 46:00 Giving Someone Permission to Break Your Heart 48:30 What People Misunderstand About Women in This Industry 51:00 Travelling Alone to Reset Her Mind 53:00 Her Vision: Miami, Podcast, Sex and Relationship Coaching

ABOUT MICHELENA ROSE: Playboy cover model and Playmate. International model, adult film star, licensed massage therapist, sex and relationship coach. Owner of Get Naked and Glow. Based in Miami, FL. Website: itsmichelenarose.com

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In this episode of The Intimacy Inquiry, Andrew Phipps sits down with Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards, PhD in Spiritual Counseling, international speaker, coach, and author of "The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions." Born in Blackpool, UK and now based in Florida, Stephen has spent decades helping people untangle the relational and sexual patterns that keep them looping through the same chaos. His memoir has been described as equal parts erotic, soul-stirring, and genuinely healing.

This conversation goes deep: childhood trauma and gaslighting, running away from home eight times, electroconvulsive therapy at 16, four marriages, working with Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra and Wayne Dyer, the relationship that became his mirror, shame, forgiveness, the sexual revolution, and why vulnerability is not a weakness.

WHAT WE COVER:

• Childhood gaslighting, control, and running away from home eight times
• Electroconvulsive therapy at 16 and the shame that followed for years
• How working with Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra and Wayne Dyer shaped his path
• Why he wrote "The Venus Fly Trap" and what radical honesty cost him
• Why you don't have a relationship problem, you have a pattern problem
• The letter to his parents he was told not to send (but mailed anyway)
• Social media, pornography, and why growing up is harder now
• The future of gender, androgyny, masculine and feminine energy
• His vision: Netflix, stage shows, and a shame-free sexuality movement

ABOUT DR. STEPHEN PAUL EDWARDS: PhD in Spiritual Counseling. International speaker, coach and author. Born in Blackpool, UK, based in Florida. Worked alongside Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra and Wayne Dyer. Author of "The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions." Leading voice in Quantum Wealth and conscious living. Book and website: vft23.com

ABOUT THE INTIMACY INQUIRY: Hosted by Andrew Phipps, exploring energy dynamics, authentic connection, and what intimacy really means, with yourself, with others, and with life. New episodes weekly.

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A transformational coach and author of "Feminine Genius" LiYana Silver discusses how she helps clients—especially women—rebuild self-trust, body connection, and desire after heartbreak or divorce, and explains why many people can’t safely access what they truly want.

She outlines three common relationship myths: the “myth of romance” (partner above all else), the “relationship escalator” (preset steps toward longevity), and the belief that love equals merging and self-erasure, particularly for women. The conversation reframes divorce as not inherently a failure and emphasizes validating devastation before moving through phases of transformation.

LiYana describes couple work as identifying entrenched patterns rooted in wounds, doing individual healing, and learning communication skills, while also normalizing shifts in sexual spark over time. They explore pleasure practices, de-centering orgasm and penetration, creating safer erotic conversations, reconnecting to bodily yes/no signals, parenting amid social media and pornography through open dialogue, and her own self-care and future goals, including a forthcoming divorce-focused book.

00:00 Meet the Coach

00:43 What Do You Do

02:27 Finding What You Want

04:46 Three Relationship Myths

09:57 When It Falls Apart

15:28 Divorce Is Not Failure

16:24 Dark Night or The End

21:12 Being Yourself in Love

25:25 Raising Kids Online

29:47 Talking About Sex

31:08 Listening to Your Body

32:07 Body Truths and Intuition

34:53 Yes No Body Signals

41:26 Relationship Escalator Talks

46:05 Pleasure Practice and Shame

53:39 Beyond Performance Sex

57:36 Therapist Self Care

01:00:26 Future Vision and Closing

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Spiritual teacher and transformation guide Ashmita Arora discusses her intuitive practice supporting people through grief, heartbreak, burnout, disconnection, and awakening by helping clients identify the root of repeating patterns and create lasting inner shifts in safe, confidential spaces.

She reflects on early sensitivity, anxiety about death and OCD-like repetitive thoughts, and how later miscarriages, family stress, and physical symptoms led her into meditation and a pivotal “pop” experience that opened intuitive communication and channeling, which she initially feared was postpartum psychosis. Arora critiques Western avoidance of death and a standardized, memorization-based education system, arguing AI will push people toward creativity, intuition, and individuality.

She emphasizes presence over multitasking, describes common stuck patterns rooted in fear, guilt, and obligation, and explains relationship growth through communication, evolving “many relationships” within one partnership, and nonjudgment toward monogamy.

00:00 Meet Ashmita Arora

00:50 Formative Years Reflection

01:32 Early Magic and Death Anxiety

04:08 Why We Avoid Death Talk

08:06 School Dread and Body Signals

09:35 Meditation Pop Awakening

13:57 Education AI and Creativity

20:52 Birth of Intuitive Practice

24:15 Patterns Beyond Self Help

27:33 Intimacy Needs and Wholeness

32:14 Media Pressure and Burnout

35:21 Fluid Balance Mindset

36:36 Phones vs Presence

39:47 Slow Down Before Burnout

41:08 Mindful Pleasure Analogies

42:35 Energy Amplification Manifesting

45:21 Tuning Frequency Intuition

48:30 Protecting Your Energy

53:19 Evolving Relationships Communication

59:52 Monogamy Personal Choice

01:01:44 Future Path and Closing

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Trauma therapist and author Lacey Kelly, founder of the Unbecoming Hub, discusses her work at the intersection of psychology, nervous system science, and existential questions of identity, burnout, and belonging. She reflects on being an anxious, ungrounded teen drawn to philosophy and meaning, and says she first felt at home in herself in her late twenties after an autoimmune illness and stepping off the “hamster wheel” of self-fixing.

Lacey defines “unbecoming” as releasing constant striving to become someone else and returning to a grounded home base of ease and inherent wholeness. The conversation critiques self-help culture, isolation and loss of “third spaces,” and how technology provides accessible but often unsatisfying connection. They explore AI companions and attention addiction, the decline of religion/spirituality and shared meaning, therapy’s tendency to pathologize normal existential distress, and a practical step: get curious about the fear of stopping self-improvement and question the premise that you are the exception to inherent worth.

00:00 Meet Lacey Kelly

00:43 Teen Years Curiosity

01:51 Finding Home In Self

02:53 What Unbecoming Means

04:24 Why We Feel Broken

07:40 Tech Connection Paradox

11:59 AI Companions And Loneliness

17:56 Attention Economy Starts Young

25:11 Presence Memory And Phones

28:38 Smartphone Regret Ahead

29:11 Self Fixing Hurts Love

30:42 Self Help Relationship Rules

32:16 Spiritual Wholeness Seat

34:56 Losing Religion Meaning

38:08 Nature Reconnection Wisdom

43:08 Unbecoming Hub Future

46:52 Therapy Pathologizing Trap

52:23 Returning Without Shame

54:33 Try Unbecoming Curiosity

56:09 Closing Thanks Farewell

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Choreographer, educator, and author Alexandra Beller discusses her early experiences coming of age in the 1980s amid intense diet culture, bullying, and body shaming, while finding wholeness and spiritual aliveness through dance.

She describes how her body type limited casting and training opportunities, the power critics once held, and how joining choreographer Bill T. Jones’ company broke industry norms but increased public scrutiny of her body. Beller reflects on building chosen family in dance, developing internal guardrails for self-worth, and learning to receive praise without taking criticism as truth.

She explores menopause as a neurological and personal rewiring that strengthened consent and self-advocacy, and shares creating a pivotal work based on her preverbal child’s developmental movement. She explains her somatic approach to helping clients access body-held emotion and why she wrote a book to support artists, creativity, and inner-critic work.

00:00 Meet Alexandra Beller

01:09 Teen Years and Body Image

04:38 Disordered Eating Pressures

06:08 Rejection and Breaking In

09:42 Critics Then and Now

11:58 Dance Community and Self Worth

16:06 Learning to Receive Praise

19:31 Love Mirrors and Self View

21:22 Menopause Rebellion and Renewal

25:22 Healthcare Gaps and Finding No

29:10 Starting a Dance Company

31:41 A Work Where Words Fail

34:03 Baby Movement as Spiritual Research

38:04 Inner Child Onstage

40:25 Why We Stop Moving

42:26 Undoing School Body Locks

45:51 Nature As Sensation

47:56 Breastfeeding And Wholeness

51:16 Helping Clients Embody

53:38 Somatic Patterns And Emotion

56:43 Why Write The Book

58:32 Writing Flow And ADHD

01:02:19 Vulnerability In Print

01:04:39 Pruning Ego And Therapy

01:06:14 Next Decade And Good Life

01:08:22 Closing Thanks

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Patty Alfonso, an “erotic priestess” and creator of the Embody Her mentorship, explains her trauma-aware, body-based approach to helping women integrate pleasure, power, and truth by reconnecting with the body rather than living solely “from the neck up.” She and the host discuss somatic healing for trauma responses, technology-driven disconnection, and how patriarchy and mixed cultural messages shame women’s sexuality while exploiting it.

Patty shares her personal path from a sex-silent upbringing to feminine embodiment through S Factor movement, and reframes erotic energy as creative life force connected to nature and “womb wisdom.” They explore expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration, introduce erotic blueprints as a framework for pleasure, and emphasize communication, community support, and discernment in relationships, including ethical polyamory. Patty offers resources at pattyalfonso.com/innocence.

00:00 Meet Patty Alfonso

00:43 What Is An Erotic Priestess

02:08 Living In Your Head

05:44 Trauma Lives In The Body

08:37 Her Path To Sensual Movement

12:12 Patriarchy And Pleasure

21:06 Grounding Orgasmic Energy

24:47 Erotic Living Everyday

32:39 Redefining Sex As Pleasure

34:24 Erotic Blueprints Explained

37:45 Shame And Self Exploration

41:18 Can Women Have It All

43:04 Rebuilding Community Support

44:47 Feminine Values and Balance

46:49 Womb Wisdom Beyond Motherhood

49:30 Erotic Innocence Mindset

50:04 Monogamy vs Polyamory

59:45 Kink and Safe Sex Talks

01:04:04 Erotic Energy Fuels Life

01:08:24 Sensual Blueprint Senses

01:12:08 Discernment in Partnership

01:17:58 Future Visions and Pilgrimage

01:21:57 Closing and Listener Offer

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On Intimacy Inquiry, the host speaks with Cidney Green, creator of viral Atlanta alt orgy events, the Pussy Over Pain Movement, and author of the upcoming book All Three In Me.

Green describes her private self as playful and affection-seeking, contrasts her teenage prudishness and dependence on male validation with an early fascination with sex, and discusses porn as entertainment rather than education. She argues society’s comfort with violence but discomfort with sex stems largely from religion and that sexual shame suppresses personal power, especially for women.

Green explains her path into polyamory via a poly Facebook group and an open relationship, framing monogamy as illogical and historically tied to property and womb control. She shares why she wrote the book, reactions to her sex-party notoriety, her views on nudity, self-care practices, sex magic/manifestation, fantasies she hasn’t fulfilled, and her long-term desire for a compound with two to three husbands.

00:00 Meet Cidney Green

00:41 Who Is Cidney Really

01:45 Teen Years And Validation

03:58 Early Sexual Awakening

06:31 Why Violence Wins

11:43 Porn As Entertainment

17:18 Sexual Shame And Power

20:19 Defining Sexual Freedom

22:41 Discovering Non Monogamy

28:13 Monogamy And Womb Control

31:35 Writing All Three In Me

35:20 Backlash And Going Viral

40:18 Book Cover Meanings

42:11 Nudism And Authority

44:41 Body Shame Learned Early

46:33 Europe vs UK Nudity

48:29 Strip Clubs and Odd Laws

51:09 Private Sex Shops Era

51:56 Evolving Sexual Needs

53:39 Sex Magic Manifesting

58:02 Porn Preferences Unfiltered

01:00:11 Fantasies Threesomes and Anal

01:04:56 Pleasure Patriarchy and FGM

01:09:04 Religion Rape Culture and Orgasm Gap

01:14:55 Self Care and Saying Yes

01:17:31 Hollywood Casting and Poly Love

01:20:37 Wrap Up and Farewell

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London-based escort and adult content creator Elizabeth Romanova, a single mother to a 15-year-old, discusses her decade-plus in sex work, her choice of “radical honesty” at home, and how she navigates stigma and judgment by avoiding online comments.

She describes exploring different parts of the industry (escorting, porn, webcamming, OnlyFans) and valuing creator control, travel, and flexible work. Romano explains client motivations—from married men seeking intimacy to lonely single men wanting companionship—and how she sets boundaries, including refusing condomless sex and blocking unsafe requests.

She reflects on trust, spotting lies, and the difficulty couples have discussing desires, which she links to cheating. She outlines self-care, peer support among sex workers, the business side (marketing, tax, accountants), legal caution when touring, and her focus on supporting her daughter toward university while feeling happy and independent.

00:00 Meet Elizabeth Romanova

01:38 Why She Stays

02:14 Exploring Sex Work

03:49 OnlyFans Control

04:53 Porn Industry Shift

06:06 Honesty With Daughter

07:59 Handling Stigma Online

10:51 Married Clients Needs

14:13 Emotional Boundaries

16:24 Dating As Sex Worker

19:06 Safety And Hard Limits

22:28 Trust And Intimacy Talk

27:13 Dating Men vs Women

27:45 Redefining Masculinity

28:58 Equality and Independence

30:42 Intimacy Beyond Sex

32:18 Self Care Routines

33:23 Industry Friendships

35:34 Business Side of Sex Work

38:23 Setting Boundaries

41:00 Staying Legal on Tour

42:05 Future Plans and Parenting

45:31 AI and Career Security

46:14 Happy Ending and Farewell

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Empowerment coach and sex educator Jocelyn Silva shares how growing up Catholic in the San Fernando Valley shaped intense shame-based messages about sex, and how a positive first sexual experience and feminist activism led her to leave the church and become a sex educator with Coochie La, teaching comprehensive sex ed in low-income communities.

She and the host discuss how shame and political forces restrict bodily sovereignty, why online information and porn can mislead young people, and how reframing “sex” as “pleasure” reduces performance pressure. Silva explains signs of performative sex, how stress and lack of emotional safety affect desire, and how clients can shift limiting beliefs using a thoughts-feelings-actions framework.

She emphasizes scripts and mediated conversations to help couples speak desires, build distress tolerance, and address compatibility, and she outlines hopes to keep traveling, create retreats, write a book, and expand her community.

00:00 Meet Jocelyn Silva

00:43 Catholic Shame Messages

03:10 Is Sex Education Improving

04:56 Power Shame Control

07:13 Porn Information Overload

11:48 From Repression To Educator

16:12 Redefining Sex As Pleasure

19:44 Performative Sex Signs

22:44 Feeling Broken And Healing

26:49 Sex Differences Myth

27:52 Social Conditioning Clash

29:12 Same Gender Dynamics

31:33 Breaking Cultural Scripts

33:18 Rewiring Beliefs CBT

37:06 Aging Bodies New Sex

38:59 Speak Your Desires

41:13 Sharing Kinks Safely

43:38 Vulnerability Money Sex

44:59 Place Shapes Intimacy

47:50 Disconnecting Tech Era

50:04 Coach Boundaries Self Care

52:17 Future Vision Wrap

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Trauma-informed relationship and confidence coach Tori Jenae shares how complex childhood trauma shaped her nervous system and dating patterns, including perfectionism, control, low-grade anxiety, and avoidant “push-pull” intimacy.

She explains how early attachments create “love maps,” why trauma is stored in the body, and critiques talk therapy that stops at the mind, emphasizing somatic work and safety in relationship as key to healing.

Tori recounts leaving home at 17, breaking a family lineage of addiction, and finding safety with her ex-husband, with whom she was married for 20 years. The conversation also covers antidepressants and holistic health factors, the loneliness epidemic and monetized intimacy, what healthy intimacy feels like, ways couples rebuild connection, and her “Reclamation Method” and ABCs of healing: awareness, beliefs, and clearing.

00:00 Meet Tori Jenae

00:48 Early Trauma Signs

02:57 Love Maps and Attachment

05:07 Breaking Family Cycles

09:32 Resilience and Purpose

12:40 Learning to Trust

16:56 Healing Through the Body

21:43 Holistic Mental Health

28:38 Loneliness and Lost Intimacy

32:14 Loneliness Needs People

32:31 Dating Apps Reality Check

34:08 What Matters Most

35:04 Stop Living Through Phones

37:33 Success Yet Unworthy

40:33 Happiness Inside You

43:06 Reclamation Method Basics

45:34 ABCs of Healing

51:08 Therapist Boundaries

54:12 Healthy Love Today

55:41 Rekindling Long Term Intimacy

01:02:16 Never Stop Dating

01:03:17 Planning the Future

01:04:44 Closing Thanks

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Elana Auerbach, a sensuality guide and educator, discusses her book and “The Sure Thing” love experiment: a simple weekly pleasure practice designed to help couples replace sex struggles and performance pressure with reliable intimacy, desire, and joy.

She shares her personal history of dissociation, sexual awakening, and her purpose as a “priestess of love and connection,” explaining how a 12-year desire mismatch with her spouse shifted after they committed in December 2020 to a weekly Saturday practice focused on connection rather than goals or orgasm.

The conversation covers redefining sex beyond penetrative acts, addressing shame as “the elephant in the bedroom,” building the ability to ask for what you want, and how regular pleasure practices can improve relationships, family life, and community well-being. She also touches on consent, solo practice, non-monogamy as a choice, and future plans to expand the book’s reach and create audio guided visualizations.

00:00 Meet Elana Auerbach

00:57 Book Arrival Surprise

03:05 Teen Years Awakening

06:54 Calling and Priestess Path

07:56 Creating Weekly Practice

14:30 Why It Works

19:50 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

26:46 Practical How To Start

29:00 Preparing and Rituals

32:28 Requests and Knowing Wants

34:09 Inviting Partner In

34:39 Inviting Your Partner

35:54 Solo Pleasure Practice

36:46 Shame In The Bedroom

38:37 Naming And Healing Shame

42:35 When Desire Changes

46:46 Ask For What You Want

50:00 Pleasure Changes Everything

54:38 Designing Your Sure Thing

59:17 Monogamy Or Choice

01:01:21 Whats Next And Closing

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Non-binary, gender-fluid writer and solo performer Skylar Lyralen Kaye discusses their work on intimacy, queerness, and mental health, and describes a day-to-day life grounded in solitude, meditation, yoga, hiking, and paddleboarding after moving from the US to Portugal, which they find safer, more peaceful, and less achievement-driven.

They redefine success as quality of life, joy, love, and inner peace, and explain how embodiment practices and theater training helped release trauma-held “armor,” highlighting limits of talk therapy and the importance of somatic work. Skylar recounts leaving a 35-year sexless marriage in their sixties after recognizing asexuality, grief-related disconnection, and awakening sexual energy, then navigating queer online dating, boundaries, and consent. They share how they handle vulnerability in memoir/performing through craft, distance, and universality, and emphasize self-love through integrating shadow and inner parts while embracing a quieter, happier future.

00:00 Meet Skylar Kaye

00:45 Daily Life and Solitude

02:15 Portugal vs America

05:02 Redefining Success

09:37 Embodiment Breakthrough

13:20 Somatic Healing Beyond Talk

19:24 Social Media and Self Worth

22:01 Leaving a Long Marriage

29:12 Dating Again and Boundaries

32:56 Consent Culture in Practice

38:57 Sharing Intimacy on Stage

39:52 Gut Check Boundaries

41:57 Memoir Not Diary

43:36 Queer Story Duty

46:04 Learning Self Love

52:11 Nature Connection

57:16 Aging Wisdom Access

01:04:23 Bridging Generations

01:09:48 Why Publish Memoir

01:15:36 One Step Unstuck

01:19:42 Future In Portugal

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Dr. Laura Jurgens, a certified sex and relationship coach and creator of the Desire Gap Bridge Method, discusses how her background in science and personal trauma informed her somatic, body-based approach to helping couples navigate libido mismatches, which she says affect about 80% of long-term couples.

The conversation explores how people attach painful meaning to desire differences, why stereotypes about which partner wants more sex are often wrong, and how narrow, patriarchal definitions of sex and inadequate sex education push people toward porn-based scripts and performance, shame, and disconnection.

Jurgens emphasizes pleasure-focused intimacy, moment-to-moment embodied consent, reconnecting with the body, and practicing difficult conversations in a low-stakes setting to reduce pressure and build vulnerability. She explains how one partner changing can shift the relationship system, addresses empty-nest transitions and aging, and warns that AI may worsen disconnection because human regulation relies on tone and body language.

00:00 Meet Dr Laura Jurgens

00:56 Her Path to Coaching

02:58 Why Desire Gaps Happen

05:23 Redefining Sex as Pleasure

08:30 Sex Ed and Porn Myths

12:05 Consent Is Moment to Moment

14:37 Why Somatic Work Works

19:03 Healing Desire and Fantasy

21:44 Talking About Different Sex

23:32 Practice Conversations Safely

29:42 Being Seen Without Shame

32:55 One Partner Can Shift System

39:33 Authentic vs Performative Desire

41:07 Performance vs Authenticity

42:32 Relearning Safety and Pleasure

44:25 Stop Tolerating Touch

47:59 Mind Reading Myth

49:04 Arousal Curves and Foreplay

51:14 Empty Nest Intimacy Reset

55:44 Aging Bodies New Tools

59:30 Client Crushes and Boundaries

01:02:54 Transformations in Coaching

01:06:31 Empathy and Self Care

01:10:19 Future Mission and Hope

01:13:36 AI vs Human Connection

01:19:26 Closing Reflections

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Licensed clinical social worker Caasi O’Day, founder of Las Vegas practice Polarized Parts, shares her path from being a “lost cause” teen in a small Iowa town—angry, self-harming, using drugs, and distrustful of therapy—to becoming a clinician known for radical honesty, dark humor, and working with clients often judged or labeled “treatment resistant.”

She explains why she centers nonjudgment, authenticity, and self-disclosure, and outlines DBT’s four modules (mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness) alongside internal family systems and somatic work. The conversation explores intimacy, attachment, rejection fears, her fast engagement and later divorce (requested June 2024), and her practice of taking a year off dating after breakups.

O’Day discusses ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, her own first experience (panic attack, then joy after letting go of control), and the importance of integration and body awareness. She also covers therapist self-care, private practice boundaries, and future plans for more somatic workshops, teaching, and nature-based offerings, ending with what she’d tell her 16-year-old self: “You are not too much.”

00:00 Meet Caasi O'Day

01:09 Early Life Template

02:25 Acting Out and Therapy

05:31 Sent Away and Too Much

06:56 Becoming the Therapist

09:37 Working With Outcasts

12:13 DBT Skills Breakdown

14:56 Nonjudgmental Client Care

19:21 Intimacy and Self Worth

23:53 Marriage Divorce and Growth

28:47 Talking About Sex Safely

34:39 Curiosity Over Assumptions

34:57 Erotic Communication Skills

37:41 Puberty And Mixed Signals

41:10 Receiving Honest Feedback

43:05 Desire Changes Over Time

44:20 Somatic Clues In The Body

46:53 Beyond Talk Therapy

51:39 Ketamine And Integration

58:00 Therapist Burnout Boundaries

01:01:59 Rebuilding And Future Vision

01:05:26 Advice To The Sixteen Year Old Cassi

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Valerie Greene, a transformational life coach and relationship specialist, discusses how she helps women and couples turn conflict into deeper intimacy using emotional healing modalities and practical communication tools.

She reflects on her formative years, including a fraught relationship with her emotionally unavailable father and a spiritual but also emotionally unavailable mother, and how early experiences shaped her insecurity and later passion for relationship work. The conversation explores why modern culture often disconnects people from feelings (industrialization, nuclear family pressures, technology), and how skills like emotional awareness can be learned through neuroplasticity, self check-ins, and nonviolent communication.

They cover dating challenges for high-achieving women, masculine vs feminine energy in dating, and how to assess values and emotional availability—especially on apps—while avoiding text-based pseudo-relationships. The episode also addresses sexual intimacy, shame, changing desire over time, and creating safety to talk about sex, including planning for difficult scenarios.

Valerie shares guidance for people starting new relationships after long partnerships, discusses monogamy vs polyamory (including Polysecure), offers daily connection practices like love languages and rituals of reunion, and ends with advice she would give her 16-year-old self: prioritize self-liking, attend to feelings and needs, and be herself.

00:00 Meet Valerie Greene: Transformational Coach & Relationship Expert

00:56 Would 16-Year-Old Valerie Recognize Her Today?

02:07 A Fraught Father-Daughter Dynamic & Learning Conflict Language

06:23 Mom’s Spirituality, Inner Child Work & Learning to Feel Feelings

11:15 Why We Lost Emotional Attunement: School, Industry & the Nuclear Family

16:36 Tech, Tablets & the Imagination Gap in Kids

26:09 Rewiring Emotional Skills: Neuroplasticity, Check-Ins & NVC Tools

27:07 From Toxic Cycles to a Healing Partnership: Her Relationship Journey

31:46 High-Achieving Women, Secure Attachment & Balancing Masculine/Feminine Energy

40:48 Dating Apps Done Right: Filters, Values, and Getting Off the App Fast

47:38 The Real Source of Couple Conflict: Needs vs. Strategies (Not the Dishes)

52:12 Setting Up the Next Topic: Physical Intimacy, Desire Gaps & Obligation

52:52 Intimacy Beyond Penetration: Redefining What ‘Counts’

53:24 Breaking the Silence: Shame, Stress & Talking About Desire

55:28 Body Image, Libido Shifts & Self-Acceptance Work

56:16 When Sex Changes: Expanding the Menu & Passionate Marriage Mindset

58:25 Avoidance Patterns & Why Couples Need a Safe Space to Talk

01:01:02 Relearning Pleasure: Self-Exploration, Journaling & Normalizing Change

01:01:59 Planning for the ‘What Ifs’: Scripts for Erections, Pain & Staying Kind

01:04:19 Desire Evolves: Food Analogy, Gottman Research & Regulating Fear

01:08:43 Starting Over After Long Relationships: Grief, Growth & New Intimacy

01:15:49 Monogamy vs Polyamory: Attachment, Safety & What Actually Works

01:24:17 Daily Connection Rituals: Love Languages, Check-Ins & Deeper Questions

01:28:00 Advice to My 16-Year-Old Self: Self-Liking, Needs & No-Regrets Wrap-Up

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Certified existential kink coach and former professional dominatrix Tina Estrella shares her path from years of substance abuse, self-harm, and misdiagnoses to discovering she’s on the AuDHD spectrum and shifting toward nervous-system-informed, somatic, parts-based work.

She recounts a pivotal “bathroom floor” moment—hearing a clear inner voice ask, “Tina, what are you doing?”—that sparked self-responsibility and a rapid decision to stop destructive behaviours, despite the social upheaval of reinventing her life. The conversation explores her BDSM work (starting as a professional sub, later domme), emphasizing consent, boundaries, and how submission can feel freeing—especially for people burdened by constant control and productivity.

Tina explains existential kink as a parts-based, meditative practice of finding the hidden “turn-on” in unwanted patterns so they lose charge in real life. They discuss how societal norms, patriarchy, and productivity culture shape shame around sex and identity, why many relationships struggle with “should,” and the need to build skills for uncomfortable conversations about desire. Tina highlights pleasure practice, self-knowledge, and nervous system care as foundations for better intimacy, and envisions intimacy becoming increasingly moment-to-moment, self-approved, and quality-focused.

00:00 Meet Tina Estrella: Existential Kink Coach & Former Dominatrix

01:12 Teen Years, Family Roots & Feeling ‘There’s More’

02:47 Misdiagnoses, ADHD Realization & Why Labels Can Trap You

05:26 The Bathroom-Floor Wake-Up Call: “Tina, What Are You Doing?”

10:32 From ‘Why Me?’ to ‘What Am I Doing?’—A Practical Path Out of Loops

12:29 Quitting Addictions Fast: Closing the Door & Reinventing Your Life

15:05 Sober in the Club: Identity, Energy, and Not Needing Substances

18:41 Entering BDSM Professionally: From Sub to Domme (and Why It Helped)

24:33 Why Submission Can Feel Like Freedom: Yin/Yang, Presence & Permission

31:19 From Dungeon to Coaching: Training, Skillsets & Building the Practice

34:39 What ‘Existential Kink’ Means: The Origin Story & Money Patterns

37:32 Meditation for ‘Existential Dread’ Kink: Let the Charge Fizzle Out

38:54 Why Society Labels Us ‘Broken’: Control, Capitalism & Suppressed Authenticity

43:44 Redefining Success Beyond GDP: Rest, Joy, and Real Productivity

45:28 IFS Meets Intimacy: Performance, ‘Shoulds’ & Talking About What You Want

49:30 Uncomfortable Conversations as a Skill: Timing, Practice & Coaching Support

54:22 Redefining Sex as Pleasure: Consent Culture, Boundaries & Better Sex Education

01:01:59 Know Thyself: Nervous System Care, Pleasure Practice & Sexual Blueprints

01:07:55 When Pleasure Opens Old Pain: Feminine Conditioning, Tears During Sex & Power of Sexual Energy

01:10:25 Tattoos, Grounding, and a 10-Year Vision for Intimacy (Closing)

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Bella Krutik, a relationship nervous system and feminine embodiment coach, shares how she helps successful women and men rebuild trust, intimacy, and long-term connection. She reflects on her formative years as a rule-following, approval-seeking “good girl,” shaped by a first-generation Australian/Latvian immigrant family culture of playing small and staying safe.

Bella describes marrying at 20, divorcing four years later, then repeating similar patterns in a second marriage (people-pleasing, self-abandonment, blame, weak boundaries). Years after separating and divorcing her second husband (the father of her son), they reconciled and rebuilt a deeply honest, connected partnership after both did substantial work: she trained as a feminine embodiment coach; he stopped drinking, attended therapy and men’s circles.

They discuss how unrealistic cultural narratives about “perfect love” reduce self-responsibility and make normal human flaws look like red flags. Bella explains embodiment as shifting from living “neck up” into the body—tracking felt sensations, releasing “frozen tension,” and learning to respond rather than react in conflict. The episode also covers signs of “flatmate” relationships (logistics-only talk, screens, intimacy dropping), redefining sex as broader intimacy, practical reconnection via intentional touch and deeper conversations, gratitude as a practiced muscle, and how high-achievers must soften and drop control at home. Bella outlines how she helps clients discern whether to stay or leave without “should,” and how she protects herself by holding sessions in a “container” and using embodiment practices afterward.

00:00 Meet Bella Krutik

01:08 Formative Years

03:24 Immigrant Family Culture: Playing Small, Staying Safe

05:11 Embodiment & Learning Through Mistakes

07:04 Early Relationships: Unaware Patterns & a First Marriage at 20

09:49 Second Marriage, Same Patterns: The Myth of the ‘Ideal Partner’

12:43 Reconciliation After Divorce: Inner Work, Boundaries & Vulnerability

15:54 Society’s ‘Perfect Love’ Script

19:15 What Feminine Embodiment Means in Practice (From Head to Body)

25:29 Holding Pain to Access Pleasure

31:08 From Lovers to Flatmates

35:41 Redefining Sex: From Performance to Intimacy

37:24 Rebuilding Connection: Touch, Presence, and Turning Off Distractions

39:45 The Gratitude Practice: Training Your Brain to See the Good

43:42 Imperfect Love: Slipping, Repairing, and Embracing Messy Emotions

45:12 High Achievers at Home

50:28 Stay or Go? Untangling ‘Should’ and Taking Responsibility

55:03 Protecting the Helper: Holding a ‘Container’ for Clients’ Trauma

57:50 What’s Next: Career Vision, Partnership Without Remarriage, and a Possible Book

01:05:41 Final Reflections & Farewell

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Lauren Venables, a Sydney-based feminine embodiment and intimacy coach who supports high-achieving women in feeling safe enough to drop their guard and receive intimacy, pleasure, and devotion through somatic practices, nervous system work, trauma-informed coaching, grief, and relational healing. Lauren shares how she was shy, perfectionistic, and afraid to be seen as a teen despite being a dancer, and how bullying and a lack of safety in relationships shaped her early intimacy and self-expression.

She describes a major turning point after a nine-year relationship that lacked passion and polarity, followed by years of mindset work before discovering body-based nervous system practices.

She emphasizes creating safety in the body to support boundaries, communication, consent, and deeper intimacy, and outlines a practical approach for discussing desires with a partner: get clear on what you want, regulate through breath and somatic awareness, then speak from vulnerability without blame. The conversation explores redefining sex as intimacy and pleasure rather than penetration and performance. They address shame in the body, releasing emotion through somatic validation and feeling sensations, and the importance of self-pleasure for understanding desire and communicating preferences.

The host and Lauren discuss how BDSM/kink communities often model clearer communication and boundaries, and they examine how mainstream porn and sexualized media can distort expectations and harm self-worth. Lauren reinforces that it’s never too late to reconnect with libido, especially by restoring safety amid burnout, hormones, or menopause.

She also describes practitioner self-care, energetic boundaries, mentors, nature grounding, and her future aims to follow her “aliveness,” and continue living what she teaches through ongoing learning.

00:00 Meet Lauren Venables: Embodiment, Intimacy & Nervous System Safety

00:51 From Shy Teen to Confident Coach

03:15 Dancer in Her Head: Perfectionism, Bullying & Fear of Being Seen

04:43 Why High-Achieving Women Keep Their Guard Up in Love

07:06 Safety, Discernment & Finding Your Yes/No in the Body

08:24 When Success Masks Coercion: The Hidden Side of “Having It Together”

11:03 Lauren’s Turning Point

13:31 Learning to Ask for What You Need: Masculine Safety & Being Held

16:02 How to Talk About Desire Without Shame: Somatic Prep + Vulnerable Language

20:06 Redefining Sex as Intimacy: Beyond Penetration, Toward Connection

23:11 Feminism, Polarity & the Craving to Be Led (Without Losing Power)

26:13 Boundaries Without Walls: Discernment, Nervous System Clarity & Shame Release

30:38 Meeting Shame with Validation: Somatic Tools to Let It Dissolve

33:08 Why We Rush Self-Pleasure (and What We Miss)

34:12 Know Your Desire: Self-Exploration & Communicating Needs

35:46 What Kink Communities Get Right: Consent, Boundaries & Debriefs

37:58 Learning to Love Yourself Through Body Work

39:09 Porn, Media & Sexual Scripts: The Impact on Self-Worth

42:59 1:1 vs Group Work: Safety, Shame, and Going Deeper

44:48 “You’re Never Too Old”: Reclaiming Libido by Creating Safety

49:13 The Body Keeps the Score: Integrating Mind + Somatic Healing

51:04 Holding Space Without Burnout: Practitioner Self-Care & Boundaries

53:40 Grounding in Nature + Looking Ahead (Practice, Love, and Closing)

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In this episode, Briana Bass, a licensed professional counselor associate and board-certified clinical psychologist, shares insights from her unique background, combining high-level corporate experience and work in addiction centers.

She discusses the transformative power of modern, evidence-based therapy in addressing the challenges of today's high-pressure world. Briana reflects on her formative years and explains how modern therapy differs from traditional approaches by focusing on real-world issues such as chronic stress, gender roles, political climate, and technology.

She also touches on the loneliness epidemic, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of authenticity and communication in building deep, meaningful relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Briana Bass

00:45 Briana's Formative Years

02:35 Modern Therapy Explained

04:57 Challenges of Modern Life

07:33 The Impact of Technology on Relationships

16:41 Loneliness in a Connected World

17:30 Deepening Emotional Intimacy

22:25 Navigating Life Transitions

24:10 Navigating Life's Changes Together

25:02 The Power of Communication

25:41 Rebuilding Connection

26:04 Emotional Regulation and Vulnerability

27:34 Practical Tips for Reconnecting

30:23 The Impact of Modern Dating

38:47 Challenges of High-Pressure Environments

40:33 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

43:01 Maintaining Mental and Emotional Health

45:18 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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In this episode, Brylye Collins, a relationship coach, talent leader, and founder of Building with Bry, shares her journey from a corporate HR and talent acquisition background to empowering singles in finding intentional relationships. Drawing on over 20 years of experience, Brylye discusses the importance of self-trust and clarity in dating, her transition from traditional corporate roles to relationship coaching, and the unique challenges high-achieving professionals face in their personal lives.

Brylye also talks about the value of embracing one's individuality outside of societal labels, the drawbacks of relying on dating apps, and the importance of practicing self-care and intentional living. Additionally, she introduces her upcoming workbook and single empowerment retreats aimed at helping individuals reconnect with themselves before pursuing relationships. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of modern dating, the importance of realistic expectations, and fostering genuine connections.

00:00 Introduction to Brylye Collins

01:27 Career Journey and Transition

03:18 Founding Rose Talent Consulting

04:52 Building with Bry: Personal Empowerment

05:40 Reconnecting with Yourself

09:45 Challenges in Modern Dating

17:19 Matchmaking Insights and Practices

21:37 Client Expectations and Realities

24:51 Evaluating Client Readiness

26:30 The Lessons in Meeting People

27:09 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships

28:23 The Impact of Modern Communication on Relationships

31:22 The Importance of Thriving Solo

33:26 Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery

35:02 Handling Intimacy After Long-Term Relationships

36:59 Empowerment Retreats and Workbooks

43:01 Balancing Personal Wellbeing

45:57 Finding the Right Relationship

50:25 Final Thoughts on Relationships and Self-Growth

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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, a naturopathic doctor, author, and pleasure and intimacy coach, shares her revolutionary approach to women's sexual health and wellness. As the CEO of the Pleasure Collective and host of the Amazing Pleasure Principles podcast, Dr. Wiggins combines her 13 years of holistic medical experience with personal insights as a sexual abuse survivor to help high-achieving women reclaim their pleasure. She discusses her journey, the impact of hormone health on sexual desire, and the systemic issues in women's healthcare. Dr. Wiggins also emphasizes the importance of pleasure in all aspects of life and offers practical advice for women to receive and enjoy more from their lives. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the deep connections between pleasure, health, and overall well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jordin Wiggins

01:20 Formative Years and Early Influences

03:24 Hormone and Sexual Health Journey

05:23 The Pink Canary and Rediscovering Pleasure

07:01 Challenges in Women's Health and Hormone Therapy

09:35 Super Traits and Their Impact on Relationships

21:39 Expanding the Definition of Pleasure

26:35 Medical System Gaps and Women's Health

35:05 Receiving in Life and Relationships

39:13 The Value of Support and Compensation

39:56 Embracing Sensation and Tantra

40:34 Emotional Shifts and Relationship Dynamics

41:58 Navigating Perimenopause and Hormone Therapy

44:09 Pleasure-Centered Relationships

46:35 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships

49:07 Self-Discovery and Authenticity

51:35 Protecting Mental Wellbeing

54:26 Healing from Abuse and Rebuilding

01:01:17 Recognizing Coercive Control

01:04:12 Starting the Journey to Deeper Intimacy

01:07:35 Future Plans and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, shares her transformative journey from a 26-year sexless marriage and a successful career as a healthcare executive to becoming a somatic sexologist and author. Pailet discusses her immersive healing retreats, her approach to trauma-informed body-based sexuality, and the importance of emotional and physical intimacy. She offers practical insights into how couples can reconnect and rekindle their passion, emphasizing the roles of empathy, safe communication, and somatic experiences. As she gears up for the release of her new book, 'The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit,' Pailet provides valuable advice for those seeking to improve their intimate lives.

00:00 Introduction to Xanet Pailet

01:04 Personal Journey and Formative Years

02:00 Challenges in a Sexless Marriage

05:41 Awakening and Self-Discovery

09:37 Transition to a New Career

13:05 The Importance of Pleasure and Intimacy

15:12 Modern Challenges to Intimacy

24:32 Tools for Improving Intimacy

27:46 Expectations vs. Reality of Couples Retreats

28:57 Tools for Emotional Safety and Empathy

30:19 Physical Aspects of Intimacy

31:18 Navigating Empty Nest Syndrome

35:19 The Importance of Somatic Experiencing

43:20 Future Plans and New Projects

48:35 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries

51:19 Taking Action to Reclaim Intimacy

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In this episode, we dive deep into sexuality, intimacy, and diverse relationships with Gigi Engle, a renowned sex and relationship psychotherapist. Starting with Gigi's formative years and journey in sex education, the discussion spans various topics including the pitfalls of traditional sex education, the impact of pornography on young minds, and the importance of pleasure-based sex education.

Gigi shares insights on the dynamics in kinky and polyamorous relationships, the significance of open communication, and how societal norms shape our views on intimacy. They also discuss Gigi's forthcoming book 'Kink Curious,' shedding light on its contents and its aim to guide beginners and seasoned kinksters alike. The conversation further touches on the intersectionality of gender, sexuality, and disabilities in sex therapy, and ponders the future of sexual wellness in the age of AI and virtual connections.

00:00 Introduction to Gigi Engle

01:04 Formative Years and Early Career

03:55 Sex Education and Societal Norms

05:45 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality

12:00 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

16:26 Communication and Consent in Relationships

25:46 Exploring Kink and BDSM

29:07 Insights from Writing 'Kink Curious'

30:20 Introduction to the Book

30:35 Book Structure and Content

31:58 Exploring Unique Kinks

33:01 Non-Monogamy and Polyamory

36:39 Jealousy and Relationship Dynamics

41:26 Therapist's Personal Journey

49:44 AI in Sexual Wellness

53:22 Future Trends and Final Though

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Mistress Malisandre, an artist, author, and power dynamic educator, discusses how her work with the House of Embers explores the transformation of power through art and immersive experiences.

She shares her journey into power dynamics, beginning with observing power in her formative years and eventually becoming a professional dominatrix. Malisandre elaborates on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM and how she integrates elements of power dynamics into the lives of vanilla couples, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent.

She also reflects on the vulnerability involved in her role, the ritualistic aspects of her practice, and her efforts to mentor others in the community. Additionally, Malisandre talks about her ongoing projects, including writing a book, and her mission to change conversations around power dynamics and therapy. The conversation touches on themes of intentional living, self-acceptance, and the necessity of maintaining boundaries.

00:00 Introduction to Mistress Malisandre

00:42 Early Life and Power Dynamics

03:21 Exploring Power in Relationships

04:50 Journey into BDSM

08:47 Misconceptions About BDSM

13:13 Communication in Relationships

18:24 Professional Domination and Personal Growth

31:15 Art and Ritual in Domination

41:17 Empathy and Holding Space

42:05 Freedom Through Control

42:52 Understanding Power Dynamics

44:07 The Process of Release

48:09 Setting Boundaries in Domination

53:35 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing

58:54 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength

01:08:32 Future Aspirations and Projects

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Dr. Claudia Six, a clinical psychologist, couple’s counselor, and author with over 35 years of experience, discusses her journey from a shy teenager to a renowned sex therapist. She shares her background, influences, and key concepts from her book 'Erotic Integrity: How to Be True to Yourself Sexually.'

Dr. Six elaborates on the challenges couples face regarding sexual satisfaction, authenticity, and connection. She also addresses the impacts of body image issues, pornography, and the evolving nature of relationships throughout different life stages. Additionally, she offers insight into the importance of self-awareness and honesty in sexual relationships and discusses her own aspirations for personal and professional growth.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Claudia Six

00:55 Teenage Years and Early Influences

02:39 Journey to Becoming a Sex Therapist

08:58 Understanding Erotic Integrity

13:51 Navigating Sexuality in Relationships

20:14 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships

34:41 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality

37:17 The Role of Porn in Sexual Education

37:41 Talking to Kids About Porn

38:31 Porn as Entertainment, Not Education

39:28 Authenticity in Relationships

40:37 The Door Handle Moment

41:04 Challenges in Modern Relationships

42:15 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy

43:24 Understanding Infidelity

48:29 Role Play and Sexual Exploration

50:13 Cultural Differences in Sexuality

52:36 Faulty Beliefs and Relationship Dynamics

56:23 The Loneliness Epidemic

01:00:57 Future Plans

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In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, host Andrew welcomes Nedjma Belaid, founder of With Kind Awareness. Nedjma, a former pharmacist turned empowerment coach, shares her inspiring journey from people-pleasing to deep self-love and authenticity. She discusses her diverse experiences, including her transition from mathematics to pharmacy to spiritual coaching, and the various coaching modalities she has mastered.

The conversation delves into topics such as overcoming people-pleasing, the process of 'sacred undressing,' the balance of masculine and feminine energies, and the importance of self-responsibility. Nedjma also touches on the challenges of adapting to life changes, supporting others on their journeys, and the potential impact of AI and virtual reality on personal connections and coaching.

00:00 Introduction to the Intimacy Inquiry

00:56 Nedjma Belaid's Formative Years

01:58 From Mathematics to Pharmacy

03:55 Struggles with People Pleasing

06:26 Journey to Self-Love and Authenticity

10:10 The Sacred Undressing Journey

12:53 Non-Pharmaceutical Approaches to Mental Health

20:35 Embracing Feminine Energy in Business

30:37 Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships

34:40 Navigating Personal Growth and Relationships

35:31 Sobriety and Social Reactions

36:31 Veganism and Social Perceptions

39:11 Processed Foods and Personal Choices

41:17 Dealing with Disappointment and Inner Work

45:17 Exploring Plant-Based Medicines and Psychedelics

50:03 AI Companions and Virtual Reality

57:08 Coaching and Personal Wellbeing

01:00:33 Future Aspirations and Global Impact

01:04:31 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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In this episode, former Carmelite nun Kimberly Braun shares her profound journey from the cloistered life of a monastery to becoming a spiritual luminary, retreat leader, and author. She explores the evolution of her spirituality, the mystical experiences that shaped her, and the reasons behind her decision to leave the monastic life. Kimberly discusses how her lifelong practices of meditation, presence, and contemplation have transformed her, leading her to guide others in integrating spiritual wisdom into everyday life.

The conversation delves into topics like the nature of reality, the essence of prayer, the impact of technology on human connection, and the concept of home. Throughout, Kimberly’s insights into intimacy, joy, and love offer a compelling narrative of spiritual exploration and service.

00:00 Introduction to Kimberly Braun

01:04 Early Life and Spiritual Awakening

06:09 Journey to Becoming a Carmelite Nun

06:47 Mystical Experiences and Monastic Life

24:48 Leaving the Monastery and New Beginnings

41:28 The Smartphone Distraction Epidemic

42:46 The Evolution of Human Connection

46:01 The Paradox of Technology and Spiritual Growth

48:28 The Complexity of Intimacy in Modern Times

50:05 The Joy of Simple Pleasures

58:46 Writing and Publishing a Book

01:16:07 The Concept of Home and Belonging

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In this episode, Kayla Moore, a certified sex therapist and pleasure coach, discusses her journey and mission to help women and couples reclaim sex, intimacy, and embodiment as sacred and life-giving parts of their lives.

Kayla shares insights from her upbringing influenced by strong female role models, her transformation from traditional psychology to becoming a sex therapist, and her shift towards integrating spirituality and sacred feminine healing into her practice. She highlights the importance of understanding and dismantling patriarchal narratives around sexuality, the necessity of addressing systemic issues, and fostering genuine connections.

Kayla also talks about the significance of pleasure in various forms, the impact of pornography on sexual expectations, and the vital role of communication and consent in relationships. This episode is a profound exploration of human connection, vulnerability, and the pursuit of authentic pleasure.

00:00 Introduction to Kayla Moore

01:02 Kayla's Upbringing and Spiritual Journey

07:02 Transition from Therapy to Pleasure Coaching

08:20 Challenges in the Therapy Profession

14:31 Embracing the Sacred Feminine

15:20 The Role of Priestesses in Ancient and Modern Times

21:53 Healing the Divine Masculine and Feminine

29:23 Reclaiming Sexuality and Pleasure

32:42 Addressing Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

33:37 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

46:57 The Quick and Hurried Nature of Male Self-Exploration

47:28 The Importance of Self-Pleasure and Communication

47:55 Debunking Myths About Self-Pleasure in Relationships

48:47 Slowing Down and Exploring the Body

51:48 The Fear of Receiving and Building Trust

55:24 The Role of Consent and Communication in Long-Term Relationships

59:35 Addressing Pornography and Its Impact on Expectations

01:07:24 Finding Pleasure in Everyday Life

01:15:55 The Power of Love and Connection

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In this episode, award-winning author, psychic medium, and relationship coach June Edward delves into her life story and spiritual journey, discussing how her early psychic experiences and a near-death event shaped her understanding of life, relationships, and the soul’s journey.

She explains her seven-week relationship mastery program, which helps individuals transform their relationships through understanding energy and self-worth. June shares insights on how meditation led to the full awakening of her psychic abilities, the nature of different types of relationships, and the importance of raising one's vibration for attracting positivity. The conversation also touches on the spiritual aspects of death, dealing with toxic relationships, and the balance between good and evil in the universe.

June emphasizes the significance of gratitude, self-love, and the seemingly small interactions that can profoundly impact others.

00:00 Introduction to June Edward

01:10 Discovering Psychic Abilities

03:12 Near-Death Experience and Awakening

11:26 Understanding Relationships and Energy

19:16 The Importance of Self-Worth

26:52 Embracing the Flow of Life

27:13 Gratitude for Past Relationships

27:46 Understanding Soul Visits

29:13 Navigating Toxic Relationships

30:23 Life as a Play

36:18 The Power of Vibration

38:18 The Role of Angels

40:43 Impact of Social Media on Youth

44:33 Energy in Relationships

46:10 Finding Love After Loss

49:56 Setting Intentions with the Universe

55:19 The Importance of Small Gestures

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In this episode of 'Intimacy Inquiry,' the host welcomes Anastasia Pierce, a figure who seamlessly blends artistry, entrepreneurship, and personal empowerment within the adult industry.

Anastasia, with a unique dual perspective from her background in both accounting and performance, discusses her journey from a shy girl in Switzerland to a top business coach for creators on platforms like Loyal Fans. The conversation delves into topics like treating adult content creation as a business, empowering performers to think like CEOs, and the changing dynamics of the adult industry in a digital age.

Anastasia also offers valuable insights into the importance of consistency, authenticity, and strategic planning for long-term success. The episode underscores the evolution of societal acceptance of adult content creation as a viable career path and the critical need for financial planning and self-care within the industry.

00:00 Introduction to Anastasia Pierce

01:06 Anastasia's Formative Years

02:39 Journey into the Adult Industry

04:37 Embracing Sexuality and Confidence

06:37 Transition to Camming

18:35 Building a Business in the Adult Industry

27:24 The Importance of Loyal Fans Platform

30:51 The Challenges of Running an Online Business

32:36 The Evolution and Acceptance of Online Careers

34:40 Balancing Personal Creativity and Fan Demands

36:09 Exploring Diverse Content and Personal Growth

37:37 The Artistic Side of Adult Content

47:00 The Future of Adult Content with Technology

51:29 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing and Financial Planning

56:09 Final Thoughts and Advice

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In this episode, we speak with Holly Nelson, the founder of the Connection Couch and a licensed professional counselor specializing in intimacy, sexuality, and emotional connection.

Holly shares her journey from a rebellious LDS upbringing to becoming a sex-positive, queer and kink-affirming therapist. She discusses her various certifications, including EMDR and advanced EFT training, and her passion for helping clients through shame, trauma, and anxiety related to sexuality. Holly also dives into her reasons for founding the Connection Couch and the importance of communication and negotiation in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships.

Additionally, she addresses the impact of cultural and religious teachings on sexual shame, the role of feminist porn in healthy sexual relationships, and her techniques for helping clients recover from sexual trauma. Finally, Holly highlights the significance of self-love and the therapeutic practices that individuals and couples can incorporate into their daily lives to foster intimacy and connection.

00:00 Introduction to Holly Nelson and Her Work

01:11 Holly's Teenage Years and Early Influences

02:38 Exploring Sexuality and Overcoming Shame

05:09 Journey into Sex Therapy

07:06 Creating the Connection Couch

10:40 Navigating Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

18:11 The Importance of Self-Love and Personal Growth

24:44 The Impact of Pornography on Society

26:01 Couples and Pornography: Challenges and Misconceptions

27:40 Exploring Feminist and Holistic Porn

29:16 Common Kinks and Desires in Therapy

30:41 Approaches to Sex Therapy for Individuals and Couples

33:30 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory

35:55 Addressing Sexual Trauma in Therapy

41:25 Therapist Self-Care and Wellbeing

43:16 Future Aspirations and Closing Thoughts

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In this episode, Gloria Battini, a renowned spiritual guide, psychic, medium, astrologer, and transformational teacher, discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their intuitive intelligence and heal from past traumas.

Sharing insights on tarot, oracle cards, and astrology, Gloria emphasizes that psychic abilities are innate and can be developed by anyone. She also shares her personal journey through severe OCD and emotional abuse, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery and authenticity.

The conversation touches on societal conditioning, the power of vulnerability, and practical guidance on using spiritual tools for self-awareness and growth.

00:00 Introduction to Gloria Battini

01:50 Gloria's Personal Journey and Mission

02:07 Understanding Psychic Abilities

03:07 Experiences with Intuition and Energy

04:46 Society's Disconnection from Intuition

15:58 The Role of Astrology

24:37 Astrology and Personal Healing

32:54 Mediumship and Translating Energy

36:40 The Importance of Practice

37:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Physical

40:10 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing

44:18 Leaving a Toxic Relationship

50:00 Finding New Love and Trust

54:41 Reconnecting with Childhood Joys

58:53 Understanding Tarot and Oracle Cards

01:04:33 Protecting Your Energy

01:08:17 Hopes for the Future

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Tonya Todd, a Las Vegas-based author, actress, and activist, delves into her life and work in this engaging script. Known for her evocative stories about passionate women, her new book '52 Love' offers bite-sized lessons on intimacy.

Tonya champions marginalized voices and shares her journey from being painfully shy to becoming empowered through acting. She discusses her writing process, the significance of representation in media, and her penchant for vampire literature.

Tonya also reveals her insights on cosplay and the importance of creative resistance. This script highlights her commitment to storytelling that reflects diverse experiences and relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Tonya Todd

01:10 Early Life and Struggles

02:18 Overcoming Shyness Through Acting

07:31 Defining Powerful Women in Writing

08:27 Challenges of Gender and Inclusion

15:26 Writing vs. Acting: A Creative Journey

18:06 The Writing Process and Future Projects

25:05 Exploring Comic Books and High Art

31:56 Embracing Character Confidence

32:31 Role Play and Cosplay in Relationships

35:13 The Birth of '52 Love'

36:19 Navigating Love During Turbulent Times

37:45 From Blog to Book and Podcast

40:08 Exploring Love Languages

42:38 The Importance of Communication

47:00 Vampire Fascination and Writing

56:14 Balancing Creativity and Downtime

59:33 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

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In this episode, Koya Bakare, Ms Elite United States 2024, shares her incredible journey from trauma to triumph. As a speaker and mindfulness coach, Koya discusses her formative years, her relationship with her mother, and the pivotal role of pageantry in her life. She opens up about overcoming bulimia, suicide attempts, and sexual assault, revealing how these experiences have shaped her mission to empower others. Koya also talks about her spirituality, the importance of self-love, and finding joy in life's simple pleasures. This deeply moving conversation highlights the power of authenticity, resilience, and staying true to one's purpose.

00:00 Introduction to Koya Bakare

00:53 Reflecting on Teenage Years

03:02 Mother's Influence and Support

08:06 Journey into Pageantry

13:33 Therapy and Healing

26:09 Romantic Relationships and Trust

31:52 Self-Love and Personal Growth

32:58 Embracing Self-Love and Identity

33:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery

34:30 Guidance for Women on Self-Confidence

35:19 Writing as a Tool for Healing

36:53 Practices for Self-Love and Well-Being

40:12 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Perception

48:48 Balancing Service and Self-Care

53:41 The Role of Spirituality in Life

57:10 Future Plans and Aspirations

01:00:26 Legacy and Life Reflections

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In this episode, we sit down with Bernando Mendez, a renowned relationship and dating coach who guides women globally to lasting love by understanding the masculine mindset, building self-worth, and creating genuine romantic connections.

Bernando shares insights from his own transformative journey and coaching experiences, detailing how he helps women release limiting beliefs and attain dating clarity. We delve into his background, his personal struggles, and his professional shift from entrepreneurship to relationship coaching.

Bernando also discusses the importance of self-love, navigating modern relationship dynamics, and developing an effective, attuned dating plan. The conversation covers various topics, including attachment styles, emotional alignment, and practical tips for successful dating. Inspirational success stories of his clients illustrate the profound impact of his guidance.

Join us for an enriching discussion filled with actionable advice and heartwarming anecdotes.

00:00 Introduction to Bernando Mendez

01:22 Early Life and Personal Struggles

03:45 Journey into Coaching

08:26 Understanding Attraction Blind Spots

12:52 The Importance of Self-Love

15:14 Modern Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics

23:05 Navigating Dating and Relationships

30:08 Understanding Emotional Attunement in Relationships

31:57 Creating the Best Scenarios for Meeting Good People

35:38 Handling Different Dating Challenges

41:31 Identifying the Right Partner

46:08 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships

48:43 Success Stories and Personal Growth

53:10 Maintaining Mental Wellbeing as a Coach

58:10 Future Plans and Vision

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In this episode, Andrew engages in an insightful conversation with Aude Firmin, a London-based spiritual mentor, intuitive business coach, and reiki practitioner. Aude shares her journey from dealing with personal trauma and societal conditioning to emerging as a guide for others on their spiritual and self-discovery paths.

She delves into her youth, experiences in the tech industry, and how she integrates spiritual wisdom with practical guidance. The discussion covers topics such as healing from past traumas, understanding energy and spirituality, challenges and boundaries in her work, and the role of intimacy and sexuality in personal growth. Aude also shares her thoughts on the impact of technology on human connections and the potential for spiritual awakening in a technologically driven world.

00:00 Introduction to Aude Firmin

01:37 Aude's Formative Years and Early Challenges

03:35 Journey to Spiritual Awakening

10:09 Understanding Energy and Spirituality

17:59 Navigating Client Relationships and Boundaries

27:52 Discovering Psychic Abilities

32:40 Personal Reflections on Grief and Healing

35:06 The Role of a Psychic Medium

36:02 Connecting with Ancestors

39:07 Healing from Past Relationships

44:28 Challenges of Dating a Psychic

52:43 The Impact of AI on Human Connection

57:40 The Power of Human Energy

01:00:40 Concluding Thoughts

In this insightful episode, board-certified sexologist Amy Rowan shares her personal and professional journey in the realm of sex and intimacy. Amy, a cancer survivor and mother of three, opens up about her early fascination with vinegar, how her upbringing influenced her career, and the pivotal moments in her discovery of sexology.

She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's body, communication in relationships, and the role of pleasure in sexual experiences. Amy also delves into her battle with cancer and how it affected her sense of self and sexuality. The discussion extends to the impact of pornography on youth and the need for comprehensive sex education. Amy's dream of establishing a sexual wellness center that integrates multiple facets of sexual health highlights her dedication to improving people's sex lives. This episode is a thoughtful exploration of the complexities and rewards of a well-rounded approach to sex and intimacy.

00:00 Introduction to Amy Rowan

00:23 Amy's Personal Life and Interests

00:55 The Vinegar Obsession

02:17 Early Curiosity About Sexuality

05:07 Challenges in Female Sexuality

07:33 Journey to Becoming a Sexologist

09:37 Client Transformations and Success Stories

10:47 Understanding the Role of a Sexologist

12:12 Addressing Common Sexual Issues

18:15 The Importance of Emotional Connection

27:27 Navigating Sexual Desires and Fantasies

32:06 Overcoming Cancer and Its Impact on Intimacy

40:05 Lack of Guidance from Medical Professionals

40:47 The Need for Sex and Intimacy Specialists

43:20 Sexual Health and Aging

46:04 Creative Approaches to Intimacy

54:17 Parenting and Sex Education

59:50 The Impact of Pornography on Youth

01:02:57 Healthy Conversations About Sex and Consent

01:09:44 Personal Reflections and Future Plans

01:17:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this revealing conversation, Suzannah Weiss, a certified sex educator, sex and love coach, and writer, discusses her journey from dealing with teenage insecurities and body image issues to becoming an advocate for feminist sexuality and ethical non-monogamy.

She shares insights from her books 'Subjectified' and 'Eve's Blessing,' and her experiences with psychedelics, orgasmic birth, and OnlyFans. Suzannah emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, redefining pleasure, and the potential of psychedelics in sexual healing.

The discussion also touches on societal norms around sexuality, the impact of culture on sexual behavior, and the joys of living a life that balances work and personal well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Suzannah Weiss

00:58 Formative Years and Early Influences

02:47 Journey to Sexual Confidence

04:28 Cultural Influences on Sexuality

07:52 Professional Path and Achievements

13:14 Exploring Sexual Desires and Communication

18:22 Redefining Pleasure and Sensuality

26:49 Ethical Non-Monogamy

27:27 Exploring Non-Monogamy in Relationships

29:37 Are Humans Naturally Monogamous?

34:02 The Role of Psychedelics in Personal Growth

41:55 The Concept of Orgasmic Birth

46:55 Embracing Sexuality and Self-Expression

53:41 Future Aspirations and Personal Growth

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Dr. Syd Young, founder of Out Wellness in Austin, Texas, discusses the importance of creating inclusive, queer, and trans-focused wellness spaces. They share their personal journey from being a competitive tennis player to becoming a physical therapist and advocate for trans rights.

Dr. Young elaborates on the challenges faced by marginalized groups in traditional healthcare environments and the transformative mission behind Out Wellness. The interview covers topics including the impact of body image in sports, societal biases against larger bodies, and the significance of providing safe, supportive communities. Dr. Young also shares insights into the physical and emotional challenges trans individuals face, especially during hormone treatment and post-surgery, and emphasizes the importance of holistic well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Syd Young and Out Wellness

00:35 Formative Years and Tennis Journey

01:35 Body Image and College Experience

03:41 Serena Williams and Body Size Stigma

04:57 Personal Experiences with Weight and Health

10:35 The Biggest Loser and Societal Assumptions

16:16 Founding Out Wellness

18:34 Creating a Safe Space for All

20:36 Holistic Wellness Approach

28:35 Personal Fitness Journey

31:52 Emotional Immaturity and Life Skills

32:49 The Intensity of College Sports

33:32 Body Image and College Recruitment

35:47 Discrimination and Safety Concerns

37:08 Challenges in Starting a Nonprofit

38:54 Creating a Safe and Inclusive Space

43:14 Transphobia and Media Representation

54:42 Toxic Masculinity in Sports

59:28 Nourishing Mental Wellbeing

01:01:48 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist, Keri Green, discusses her journey into sex therapy, drawing from over 20 years of experience. She shares personal stories, details her motivation for entering the field, and emphasizes the importance of communication and self-care.

Keri explores topics like mismatched sexual desire among couples, the impact of early sexual experiences, and the societal taboo surrounding discussions about sex. She provides insights into ethical non-monogamy, the potential issues of sex and porn addiction, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. Throughout, Keri highlights the importance of being open, empathetic, and the need for continuous exploration and communication in one's sexual journey.

00:00 Introduction to Keri Green

00:46 Early Life and Formative Years

04:53 Journey into Sex Therapy

08:09 Challenges in Discussing Sexuality

13:41 Mismatched Desire in Relationships

26:26 Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy

29:50 Revitalizing Long-Term Relationships

30:12 The Power of Small Changes

31:05 Role Play and Novelty in the Bedroom

32:12 Embracing Playfulness and Fun

33:46 Exploring Personal Comfort Zones

35:13 The Importance of Sexual Education

38:59 Navigating Porn and Sex Addiction

47:03 Therapist Self-Care and Future Plans

51:19 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this episode, Andrew interviews Noah Heymann, a dating and relationship coach who helps individuals find love through his website datecoach.com and Instagram handle datecoach.com.

Noah's expertise covers areas such as in-person approaches, online dating profiles, communication techniques, body confidence, and intimacy. He shares his journey from a closeted teenager to a full-time coach, emphasizing the influence of past experiences on current dating behaviors.

Noah also discusses the importance of candid communication in relationships, different dynamics in online dating for various genders, and the role of data in improving dating success. Additionally, he touches upon open relationships, BDSM, and navigating modern dating challenges. Noah underscores the value of authenticity and offers strategies for effective communication and dating in both new and long-term relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Noah Heymann

01:25 Noah's Personal Journey

04:01 Challenges in Modern Dating

06:40 The Science of Online Dating

15:48 Differences in Dating Dynamics

27:50 Navigating Authenticity in Relationships

31:16 Overcoming Childhood Challenges

32:22 Impact of Past Relationships on Self-Sabotage

34:02 Navigating Vulnerability in Dating

34:14 Discussing Kinks and Fetishes

35:32 Tools for Better Communication in Relationships

37:14 The Importance of Open Discussions

39:49 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships

49:07 Modern Dating Dynamics and Apps

54:28 The Joy of Personalized Coaching

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In this episode, Monica Bermudez, a heart-centered spiritual coach and energy healer, shares her transformational journey and the intricacies of her work through Sacred Heart Awakenings.

Focusing on helping empathic women and high-achievers reclaim their inner power, Monica discusses quantum energy healing, intuitive insight, and ancient wisdom as tools for overcoming grief and emotional blocks.

Delving into her teenage years and personal awakening, she outlines the importance of self-love, the integration of divine feminine energy, and the profound healing roles of nature and intimacy. The conversation further explores the protective measures needed when opening up channels and how science is catching up to these ancient practices.

Monica also highlights the importance of authenticity and sovereignty in one's spiritual journey.

00:00 Introduction to Monica Bermudez

01:13 Monica's Teenage Years and Early Struggles

03:08 Discovering Mysticism and Psychic Abilities

04:51 Science and Spirituality: Bridging the Gap

06:19 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing

12:05 Embracing Sacred Heart Awakening

21:54 Healing Ancestral Trauma and Intimacy

29:39 The Power of Divine Feminine Energy

33:08 Understanding Clairaudience and Empowerment

34:15 Managing Overwhelm and Protection Techniques

37:11 The Importance of Discernment and Protection

40:58 Discovering and Embracing Your Soul Purpose

47:35 The Power of Nature and Grounding

55:30 Intimacy, Pleasure, and Self-Understanding

59:02 Exciting Future Plans and Personal Insights

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In this episode, licensed professional counselor Wendi Dumbroff discusses her journey and commitment to helping individuals and couples with their intimacy and communication issues. She emphasizes the importance of creating a non-judgmental, safe environment for emotional healing.

Wendi shares insights on the pervasive impact of shame on sexual well-being and highlights the significance of normalizing open conversations about desires and fantasies in relationships. Additionally, she discusses how redefining sex, understanding grief, and overcoming societal norms can foster healthier intimate connections. Wendi also touches on the growing interest in non-monogamy and the unique challenges it presents. Throughout the conversation, Wendi reinforces the value of mindfulness, self-care, and continuous learning in her practice.

00:00 Introduction to Wendi Dumbroff

00:57 Early Life and Formative Years

02:44 Body Image and Societal Pressures

04:14 Impact of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

06:41 Family Dynamics and Sexual Issues

09:42 Wendi's Journey to Becoming a Therapist

12:38 Self-Care and Mindfulness in Therapy

17:54 Misconceptions About Sex Therapy

20:43 Addressing Shame and Guilt in Sexuality

29:56 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

31:54 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Traditional Sex

32:16 The Importance of Affectionate Touch

32:54 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

33:02 The Role of Daily Interactions in Sexual Relationships

34:00 Addressing Relationship Issues Before Sexual Problems

35:12 Understanding Grief and Its Impact on Intimacy

39:08 Reconnecting After Children Leave Home

43:16 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations

50:53 Navigating Non-Monogamy and Open Relationships

55:14 The Joys and Challenges of Parenthood

57:07 Looking Forward: Hopes and Plans for the Future

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In this episode, Anu Verma, founder of Victim to Victor, shares her inspiring journey from childhood abuse to becoming a fierce advocate for survivors. Through her bestselling memoir and podcast, Anu combines personal experiences with professional expertise in mental health, bodywork, and trauma recovery. She discusses the challenges of acceptance, the power of forgiveness, and the importance of intimacy in healing relationships. Anu's story is a powerful testament to resilience, self-worth, and the transformative power of holistic healing.

00:00 Introduction to Anu Verma and Victim to Victor

01:35 Anu's Turbulent Childhood

02:32 Struggles with Self-Worth and Relationships

04:57 Journey to Healing and Acceptance

07:19 Cultural Sensitivity and Family Dynamics

12:07 Forgiveness and Moving Forward

18:32 Intimacy and Personal Growth

27:20 The Power of Vulnerability and Writing

28:34 Facing PTSD and Trauma

29:52 The Healing Power of Talking

31:51 The Role of Support and Supervision

32:41 Embodiment and Somatic Healing

34:39 The Importance of Affirmations and Gratitude

44:01 Setting Boundaries and Self-Worth

47:38 Supporting a Partner Through Trauma

49:54 Living with Self-Love and Future Plans

53:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Projects

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In this episode, Dr. Susan Milstein, a renowned health education specialist, certified sexologist, and co-host of the podcast 'Unzipping Taboos,' shares insights from her extensive career.

Dr. Sue discusses the challenges and breakthroughs in sexual health education, both in her formative years and in professional life. She highlights the critical role of conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and healthy relationships, emphasizing the need for comprehensive sex education.

Dr. Sue also delves into the evolving landscape of sexuality, the impact of AI and digital trends on sexual education, and the importance of physical touch and skin hunger. The discussion further explores the dynamic changes in gender roles and expectations in modern society, providing listeners with a nuanced understanding of sexual health and well-being across different life stages.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Susan Milstein

01:03 Formative Years and Early Influences

04:27 College Years and Advocacy

06:48 Professional Path and Health Consulting

09:39 Sex Education and Public Perception

12:39 Pleasure and Intimacy Across Ages

19:38 Changing Attitudes Towards Sex

31:36 The Importance of Self-Exploration

31:57 Challenges in Sex Education

32:07 Masturbation and Media Representation

32:35 Gender Norms and Masturbation

33:46 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Orgasm

36:28 The Role of Touch and Intimacy

39:09 Skin Hunger and Human Connection

42:55 Men's Struggles with Modern Masculinity

51:04 AI and the Future of Intimacy

59:30 Personal Joys and Future Aspirations

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This episode features an insightful discussion with Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones, a clinical sexologist, relationship therapist, and intimacy advisor based in California.

Dr. Jones shares her experiences growing up in a repressive environment and how she overcame those challenges to become an expert in human sexuality. The conversation delves into topics such as the importance of self-acceptance, the difference between intimacy and sex, the effects of societal norms on women's sexuality, and the role of fantasies and role play in enriching sexual experiences.

Dr. Jones also addresses the impact of pornography, the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, and the significance of dealing with anger related to sexual issues. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Jones emphasizes the need for open communication, self-exploration, and the importance of creating a safe, shame-free space for healing and growth.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones

01:12 Formative Years and Early Challenges

02:14 Journey to Sexual Healing

04:00 Understanding Intimacy and Pleasure

13:00 Role Play and Cosplay in Sexual Healing

20:22 Client Experiences and Therapeutic Approaches

26:01 Labels, Kinks, and Fetishes

33:32 The Danger of Being Boxed In

34:02 A Positive Backlash Against Control

34:44 The Pursuit of Happiness Over Materialism

37:22 Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy

42:26 The Nature of Monogamy and Control

44:22 Anger and Its Impact on Sexuality

50:14 The Impact of Technology and Pornography

54:33 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing as a Therapist

56:52 Final Reflections and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, Ava Pikul delves into her transformative journey from yoga instructor to authentic tantra practitioner. Ava shares the profound life lessons she learned from her time as an erotic dancer and her deep immersion into tantra and spiritual practices.

Initiated into a Tibetan tantric Buddhist lineage, she now integrates clinical expertise with sacred embodiment to offer a holistic approach to healing and self-worth. Ava discusses the importance of understanding one's sexuality, overcoming shame, and the significance of deep intimate connections.

She also touches on the influence of her upbringing, her work with clients, and future aspirations to create an immersive healing retreat focused on connecting with the earth and each other. The conversation sheds light on the intricate balance of power, control, and education in achieving profound personal growth and empowerment.

00:00 Ava Pikul's Journey: From Yoga to Tantra

01:07 Early Experiences and Formative Years

05:25 Navigating Teenage Years and Early Adulthood

08:06 The Dual Life: Yoga Instructor and Stripper

16:30 Discovering Tantra and Its True Essence

20:44 The Responsibilities of a Tantra Practitioner

28:20 Tantra and Psychedelics: Exploring Connections

31:49 The Dangers of Ungrounded Psychedelic Use

32:40 Exploring Human Senses Beyond the Basic Five

33:36 Advocating for Extraordinary Sexual Experiences

34:11 Addressing Sexual Disconnect in Relationships

35:16 The Importance of Self-Love in Sexual Liberation

35:47 Reconnecting Women with Their Bodies

47:45 The Role of Vulnerability in Intimacy

50:15 Programs for Sexual Healing and Growth

54:36 Balancing Personal Boundaries and Client Care

57:53 The Impact of Digital Age on Human Connection

01:03:50 Future Aspirations for In-Person Healing Retreats

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Edy Nathan, a licensed and certified sex therapist with extensive training in EMDR, hypnotherapy, and Family Systems, discusses her approach to understanding and living alongside grief.

With decades of experience, she helps individuals navigate their pain with self-compassion and resilience. Nathan, an expert in grief and sexual grief, talks about the significance of viewing grief as a dance of self-discovery rather than a linear process.

The conversation explores the developmental and traumatic aspects of grief, the concept of sexual grief, and the Liberation Protocol she developed to help others find their own healing. Nathan also delves into her personal experiences, the physical and emotional impacts of grief, and how she maintains her own emotional well-being.

The dialogue highlights the importance of community, empathy, and embodied curiosity in the grieving process.

00:00 Introduction to Edy Nathan

01:11 Early Life and Sensitivity

02:55 Understanding Grief and Trauma

07:55 The Role of Theater in Edy's Life

11:31 Transition to Therapy and Personal Loss

15:08 Combining Theater and Therapy

19:10 The Concept of Sexual Grief

22:05 Physical and Emotional Aspects of Grief

35:24 The Liberation Protocol

38:41 Empowering Clients for Self-Healing

39:05 Embodied Curiosity: The First Step to Liberation

39:38 Somatic Work and Anxiety

41:52 Reframing Negative Cognitive Messages

42:39 Exploring Grief and Unresolved Relationships

43:31 Changing Neural Pathways Through Somatic Exercises

45:04 Understanding Sexuality and Intimacy

55:19 Menopause and Sexual Grief

01:01:30 Guilt and Grief: Navigating Complex Emotions

01:05:39 Transition and Legacy in Grief

01:11:01 Self-Care and Emotional Wellbeing

01:13:27 Concluding Thoughts and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, Dr. Kelly Barron, host of 'The Kellfire Show,' discusses her mission to revolutionize the perception of menopause by empowering women to break free from societal taboos and stereotypes.

She shares her personal journey, from her upbringing in Long Island and dealing with a traumatic assault in her twenties, to becoming an advocate for women's health and empowerment.

Dr. Barron emphasizes the importance of fitness, nutrition, and self-care, and stresses the significance of communicating openly about menopause and sexual health.

She also talks about her experiences with powerlifting, MMA fighting, and her passion for inspiring women to address life's challenges with confidence and grace.

00:00 Introduction to the Kellfire Show

01:40 Kelly's Teenage Years and Early Adulthood

03:56 A Life-Changing Incident

06:32 Overcoming Trauma and Finding Strength

08:53 Journey into MMA and Powerlifting

17:28 Embracing Menopause and Empowering Women

33:12 Reflecting on Life's Achievements

34:00 The Birth of the Kellfire Show

34:57 Empowering Women Through Stories

39:09 Discussing Menopause and Intimacy

46:06 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

54:25 Personal Success and Self-Love

01:01:12 Future Plans and Aspirations

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Gigi Patsy, a British online adult content creator and call girl, shares her candid insights into the world of sex work, her journey, and the stigmas surrounding the industry. Gigi uses VivaStreet https://www.vivastreet.co.uk/escort/gb to allow potential clients to reach out to her.

Recognized for her work by Paddle Magazine and Snap Awards, Gigi delves into her past, discussing her upbringing, self-confidence, and how she transitioned into the adult industry. Balancing her work between content creation and escorting, Gigi explains her methods for maintaining her mental health and the importance of treating her work with professionalism.

She also touches on societal views on sex work, the importance of financial planning, and her aspirations for the future.

As Gigi navigates her career, she highlights the need for respect, proper sex education, and support systems for women in the industry.

00:00 Introduction to Gigi Patsy

00:58 Early Life and Teenage Years

05:18 Journey into the Adult Industry

08:22 Balancing Filming and Escorting

13:02 Client Interactions and Challenges

25:11 Dealing with Stereotypes and Stigma

34:31 Navigating Public Scrutiny

35:03 Social Media Accountability

36:37 Double Standards in Media

37:56 Age Verification and VPNs

38:55 Challenges in Content Creation

40:28 Sex Education and Realistic Expectations

42:01 Consent and Communication in Intimacy

48:34 Awards and Recognition

56:51 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

01:03:48 Financial Independence and Future Planning

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In this episode, Andrew interviews Riana Milne, a globally certified life, dating, and relationship coach specializing in trauma recovery and cultivating healthy love.

They discuss Riana's background, including her challenging childhood, and how it shaped her career in trauma counseling and relationship coaching. She shares her insights on the importance of emotional health, communication in relationships, and her unique approach to coaching. Riana also provides practical advice on dating, dealing with trauma, and maintaining long-term relationships.

The conversation delves into her personal experiences, her trauma recovery programs, and the impact of mindset on personal and professional success.

00:00 Introduction to Riana Milne

01:11 Riana's Early Life and Influences

03:19 The Impact of Trauma and Career Beginnings

04:26 Mindset and Personal Growth

07:56 Building a Career in Coaching and Counseling

10:19 Understanding and Healing Trauma

15:16 The Coaching Model vs. Traditional Therapy

17:49 Communication and Relationship Dynamics

30:42 Awareness and Modern Challenges

32:10 Concerns About Modern Communication

32:30 The Impact of Technology on Relationships

34:08 Vacation and Quality Time

36:04 Finding Love and Building Relationships

36:49 The Five Fs of Emotionally Healthy Love

40:29 Navigating First Dates and Early Relationships

46:13 Maintaining Intimacy and Pleasure

49:20 Balancing Work and Personal Life

53:26 Future Goals and Retirement Plans

57:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this insightful episode, we sit down with Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and co-founder of Personal Life Media, Inc. Susan, a widely acclaimed author of 34 books including 'Sexual Soulmates' and 'Relationship Magic,' shares her journey and expertise on achieving lifelong intimacy and passion.

From discussing the importance of self-appreciation to revealing techniques for maintaining a sexual connection well into older age, Susan delves into practical advice such as orgasmic cross-training and the impact of censorship on sexuality education.

She emphasizes the importance of understanding and communicating sexual needs, providing valuable resources like her 'expanded orgasm practice' and 'Sex Life bucket list.' Susan also highlights her ongoing work, including a documentary on sexuality and censorship, and her efforts to support other sex experts through the Intimacy Alliance.

00:00 Introduction to Susan Bratton

01:01 Formative Years and Personal Growth

02:57 Sexual Wellness and Overcoming Trauma

04:09 Expanding Intimate Pleasure

05:42 The Sex Life Bucket List

07:37 Career Realization and Industry Growth

13:08 Challenges and Censorship in Sexual Education

19:57 Techniques for Orgasmic Intercourse

26:52 Addressing Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Communication

30:33 Rediscovering Intimacy After Empty Nest

31:21 Introduction to Expanded Orgasm Practice

32:17 Techniques for Prolonged Pleasure

34:58 Understanding Female Sexual Anatomy

37:27 Benefits of Expanded Orgasm for Couples

45:44 Addressing Menopause and Sexuality

47:40 Overcoming Censorship in Sexual Education

54:52 Future Plans and Final Thoughts

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Bel di Lorenzo, founder and CEO of Gohddess, discusses her innovative methodology teaching women vaginal gymnastics to enhance sexual pleasure and reconnect with ancient feminine power.

She describes her personal journey from a sexually curious but inexperienced teenager to a leading figure in sexual wellness. Bel shares her research and development of the Gohddess Method, including the physiological and psychological benefits, particularly for women postpartum, during menopause, or those recovering from sexual trauma.

Her insights delve into the importance of pelvic floor training and its holistic impact on women's lives, emphasizing the mental and emotional benefits alongside the physical. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of sexual wellness for overall quality of life and the potential for expanding her methods to assist men and address trauma healing.

00:00 Introduction to Bel di Lorenzo and Gohddess

00:56 Bel's Teenage Years and Early Fascination with Sex

10:22 Discovering and Mastering Pompoir

19:01 The Science Behind Vaginal Gymnastics

24:03 Writing the Book and Building the Brand

31:25 Personal Experiences and Community Impact

34:27 Postpartum Recovery and Pelvic Floor Training

35:34 Menopause and Pelvic Floor Benefits

37:08 Medical Field's Approach to Sexual Health

38:50 Research and Funding Challenges

40:27 Holistic Benefits of Pelvic Floor Training

44:44 Innovations in Pelvic Floor Training

01:04:00 Mental and Physical Wellbeing

01:06:31 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

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In this episode, Karen Bigman, a certified sex education life coach and host of the podcast 'Taboos to Truth', delves into the complexities of midlife intimacy. Discussing her own experiences with navigating intimacy after divorce, sexual exploration, and the challenges of menopause,

Karen offers valuable insights into maintaining a fulfilling sex life after 50. She emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, exploring personal desires, and overcoming societal taboos. Karen also touches on the significance of ethical non-monogamy, body empowerment, and the transformative potential of new sexual experiences at any age.

With an engaging discussion on topics ranging from ethical porn to the importance of sexual health and pleasure, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to achieving satisfaction and empowerment in midlife sexual relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Karen Bigman

00:40 Karen's Teenage Years and Early Adulthood

03:09 Journey to Sexual Empowerment

03:50 Discovering Sexual Health and Therapy

05:31 Starting the Podcast and Coaching

08:21 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

18:20 Navigating Midlife Relationships

23:06 Rekindling Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

23:21 Tools and Resources for Enhancing Communication

25:15 Exploring Fantasies and Role Play

29:36 Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy

37:16 Challenges and Realities of Pornography

42:57 Future Plans and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, we delve into a candid conversation with Lauren Elise Rogers, a certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy and relationship coach.

Lauren shares her transformative journey from a conservative religious upbringing with no sexual education to becoming a beacon of progressive sex education. She emphasizes dismantling shame, exploring desires, and fostering conscious relationships with sex and oneself.

With her unique approach rooted in equity, embodiment, and truth-telling, Lauren discusses her personal experiences, her thriving business, and the importance of pleasure and curiosity in sexual well-being.

The discussion also touches on the realities of long-term relationships, sexual fantasies, and the embodiment of holistic intimacy.

00:00 Introduction to Lauren Elise Rogers

01:56 Lauren's Early Life and Sexual Education

03:16 Marriage and Personal Discovery

04:46 Journey into Sexuality Education

06:00 Opening a Business in Sexual Education

07:20 Reflections on Sexuality and Society

10:38 Understanding Sexual Shame and Its Origins

20:39 The Role of Embodiment in Sexuality

40:39 Creating Safe Spaces for Sexual Conversations

46:38 The Exhaustion of Mind Reading in Relationships

48:20 The Importance of Personal Agency

50:28 Negotiating Desires in Relationships

52:04 Addressing Shame and Embracing Desires

01:00:13 Healing Through Relationships and Self-Discovery

01:02:14 Finding Love and Building a Business

01:10:46 Maintaining Professional Boundaries and Self-Care

01:16:23 Future Aspirations and the Power of Curiosity

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In this engaging conversation, Tera Patrick, an iconic figure in the adult film industry, shares her life story and current ventures. Tera discusses her early career, beginning with modeling in her teens and later transitioning into adult films in 1999. She reflects on her prolific career, her transition to entrepreneurship, and the numerous accolades she received.

The discussion delves into the cultural impact of porn, the challenges of dating while in the industry, and the evolution towards self-producing platforms. Now residing in Northern Italy, Tera focuses on wellness and travel blogging, offering a refreshing perspective on travel and its profound impact on life.

Tera emphasizes the importance of empathy, communication, and the role of travel in personal growth. The conversation also touches on her plans for the future, including her travel blog 'Travel with Tera,' and her commitment to leaving a positive impact on others.

00:00 Introduction to Tera Patrick's Life and Career

01:20 Early Life and Family Background

02:42 Body Image and Puberty

04:09 Sex Education and Societal Stigmas

07:33 The Evolution of the Adult Industry

11:22 Modeling and Transition to Adult Films

22:12 Challenges and Realities of the Adult Industry

32:31 Impact of Porn on Society

40:50 Inappropriate Conversations and Social Etiquette

41:06 Loneliness Epidemic and Social Media Impact

41:57 Challenges of Online Dating and Fear of Rejection

42:42 Managing Fan Expectations and Content Control

43:19 Porn as Entertainment vs. Education

43:53 Unrealistic Expectations from Porn

44:42 Importance of Communication in Relationships

50:53 Intimacy Beyond Physical Acts

01:02:06 Transition from Adult Industry to Travel Blogging

01:07:13 Reflections on Travel and Cultural Differences

01:10:52 Future Plans and Personal Wellbeing

01:13:38 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this episode, Naomi Swartzentruber shares her dramatic transformation from life in the strict Swartzentruber Amish community to achieving independence and self-discovery.

Naomi details her escape at 17, her struggle with addiction, and her unexpected career as an exotic dancer in Las Vegas. She speaks candidly about the challenges she faced, including abusive relationships and substance abuse, and how she eventually found empowerment and peace.

Naomi also discusses her memoir, 'The Amazing Adventures of an Amish Stripper,' her journey to motherhood, and her mission to inspire others through social media. This episode is a powerful testament to resilience, self-empowerment, and the strength of the human spirit.

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

00:32 Naomi's Amish Upbringing

05:11 Rebellion and Escape

18:06 Life After Escape

33:52 Struggles and Substance Abuse

38:49 Struggles with Addiction

40:56 A New Beginning in Vegas

42:32 Toxic Relationships and Abuse

47:02 Finding Stability and Pursuing Education

58:30 Writing the Memoir

01:06:29 Navigating Family Dynamics

01:16:01 Reflections and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, Amanda Dames, also known as the Kink Consultant, shares her journey from feeling like a 'weirdo' as a child to embracing her identity as a certified sexologist and kink coach.

Amanda delves into her early experiences with kink, her professional work as a dominatrix, and her mission to create judgment-free spaces for conversations around kink and BDSM. She discusses the importance of aftercare, the challenges of overcoming shame, and the beauty of deep, intimate connections in kink dynamics.

Amanda also shares her experiences with boundary-setting, the misconceptions around kink, and her own aspirations for future relationships. This candid and insightful conversation offers a unique perspective on living authentically and embracing one's true desires.

00:00 Introduction to Amanda Dames: The Kink Consultant

00:57 Formative Years and Early Kink Awareness

03:19 Navigating Kink in Relationships

05:35 The Role of Spanking in Kink

09:25 From Shame to Acceptance: Becoming a Dominatrix

12:51 Transition to Coaching and Helping Others

14:56 The Importance of Communication in Kink

24:12 Porn and Its Impact on Kink

35:59 The Importance of Boundaries

36:31 Checking In With Your Body

38:02 Practicing Boundaries in Relationships

39:17 Exploring Kink Safely

51:25 Misconceptions About Kink

55:35 The Role of Aftercare

01:06:33 Loving Your Body and Sexuality

01:09:57 The Essence of Being Human

01:11:01 Societal Conditioning and Self-Exploration

01:11:40 Personal Anecdotes and Early Experiences

01:14:40 The X Factor: A New Dating Show

01:15:20 Navigating Kink and Relationships

01:22:03 Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy

01:33:05 Maintaining Wellbeing and Personal Interests

01:37:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

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In this episode, certified sexual intimacy specialist Samantha Raddock shares her transformative journey, from facing cancer to embracing a purpose-driven career in sex education and trauma-informed coaching.

Trained at the Tantra Institute of Integrated Sexuality and Somatica Institute, Samantha combines neuroscience research with holistic body-based modalities to improve sexual health and intimate relationships. She emphasizes the importance of open conversations about sex, consent, and the impacts of pornography.

Samantha also delves into topics such as menopause, non-traditional relationships, and the critical role of self-discovery in overcoming trauma, providing valuable insights for listeners. Tune in to explore Samantha's inspiring story and her advocacy for a more open and supportive approach to sexual wellness.

00:00 Introduction to Samantha Raddock

01:21 Formative Years and Teenage Self-Discovery

04:23 Sex Education and Societal Taboos

08:35 Journey to Becoming a Sexual Intimacy Specialist

11:34 Impact of Cancer on Sexuality

21:15 The Role of Pornography in Shaping Intimacy

31:38 Exploring Desires in Long-Term Relationships

33:04 Understanding and Communicating Desires

33:47 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Desires

38:24 Navigating Media Influence on Sexuality

42:05 Reconnecting with the Body Post-Cancer

47:12 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries

48:58 Current Research and Future Projects

59:41 Concluding Thoughts and Personal Joys

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In this episode, Andrew interviews Sabrina Osso, founder and CEO of Osso Safe. Sabrina shares her harrowing childhood experiences of domestic violence and how these experiences shaped her mission to create safer homes.

A professional dancer, TEDx speaker, and real estate agent, Sabrina has turned her pain into power through innovative solutions that integrate education, policy, and real estate to reduce home violence. Sabrina discusses her holistic approach, leveraging dance, and real estate to foster respect and safety in residential properties.

She also addresses the impact of pornography on domestic violence, the importance of empowering children, and how Osso Safe aims to bring about social change. Tune in to hear Sabrina's powerful story and her passionate work towards making safety at home a standard, not a privilege.

00:00 Introduction to Sabrina Osso and Osso Safe

01:40 Sabrina's Traumatic Childhood

03:21 Finding Freedom Through Dance

04:34 Creating Osso Safe from Personal Experience

05:41 Challenges and Lack of Support

15:53 The Role of Real Estate in Osso Safe

18:59 The Importance of Safe Living Environments

21:34 Osso Safe Certification and Its Impact

29:07 The Role of Pornography in Domestic Violence

32:49 Distinguishing Erotica from Pornography

33:15 The Impact of Pornography on Youth

35:17 The Dark Side of BDSM

41:41 The Role of Therapy in Healing

44:57 Challenges in Trust and Relationships

48:38 Writing 'Home Safe Home'

50:44 Empowering Children Through Education

56:34 The Role of Schools in Addressing Abuse

01:02:23 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing

01:07:04 Final Thoughts and Messages

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In this episode, we delve into the life and journey of Lannette West, best known for her appearances on HBO Max and TLC's 'Milf Manor.' Lannette shares her transformative path from struggling with addiction to finding self-love and peace.

She opens up about her struggles with self-esteem, the importance of vulnerability in achieving true intimacy, and the profound impact of reuniting with her estranged father. Lannette also discusses overcoming her addiction to cocaine and the therapeutic value of speaking openly about stigmatized issues such as mental health and sexuality.

Her story is a powerful testament to the strength and resilience required to confront personal demons and emerge stronger.

00:00 Introduction to Lannette West

00:54 Reflecting on the Past: Lannette's Formative Years

02:57 Journey to Self-Love and Acceptance

05:10 Overcoming Personal Struggles

08:00 Reconnecting with Family

11:56 Public Perception and Personal Growth

13:49 The Impact of Reality TV

22:48 The Importance of Vulnerability and Intimacy

27:10 Navigating Rumors and Public Scrutiny

30:06 Breaking Taboos: Conversations on Sex and Shame

32:32 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Sexuality

35:26 Exploring Sexual Identity

36:17 Societal and Religious Constraints on Sexuality

36:48 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex

44:12 The Journey Through Addiction

55:46 Finding Peace and Joy in Sobriety

59:50 The Power of Sharing and Inspiring Others

01:01:59 Final Thoughts and Words of Encouragement

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Rose Leopold shares a deeply personal journey of overcoming severe emotional and physical illnesses that began abruptly at age 15. This journey included experiencing panic attacks, depression, and physical manifestations like migraines and jaw pain.

Through an eight-year struggle, the guest navigates through over four dozen medications, multiple diagnoses including OCD and PTSD, and psychiatric treatments. A turning point occurs with participation in a 12-step program which introduces a new wave of vulnerability and authentic connection.

The narrative delves into explorations of mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and eventually the intentional use of psychedelics for healing trauma. Reflecting on intergenerational and inherited trauma, the speaker notes the importance of an inside-out approach to life, focusing on inner authenticity rather than external validation.

Rose discusses a career transition from sex work to holistic coaching, emphasizing the power of presence and emotional release in relationships. Key topics include self-awareness, the re-parenting of the self, and cultivating an authentic inner self to experience genuine pleasure and fulfillment.

00:00 Introduction to Rose Leopold and Initial Resonance

02:23 The Onset of Debilitating Illness

03:23 Struggles with Mental Health

06:33 Journey Through Medication and Alternative Healing

06:53 Discovering Radical Vulnerability

07:31 Exploring Mindfulness and Psychedelics

13:43 Intergenerational Trauma and Healing

23:17 The Role of Presence in Healing

54:44 Living from the Inside Out

01:12:45 Exploring the Body's Surface and Presence

01:13:54 Understanding Somatic Nuances

01:17:04 The Role of Pleasure in Our Lives

01:19:23 Navigating Intimacy and Emotional Barriers

01:23:37 Challenges in Sexual Intimacy

01:26:35 Men's Perspectives on Sexual Intimacy

01:26:50 The Importance of Presence in Relationships

01:27:18 Integrating Sexual Energy for Healing

01:55:04 Personal Growth Through Sensual Work

02:08:16 Future Aspirations and Professional Growth

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In this episode, Andrew interviews Violet Lange, a Harvard-educated trauma-informed relationship coach, Reiki master, certified yoga teacher, and founder of Violet Lange Coaching.

Violet shares her journey from a corporate career in chemical engineering, marketing, and consulting to becoming a renowned coach for women seeking deeply loving and passionate relationships. She discusses her personal experiences with trauma, healing, and the importance of integrating mind, body, and spirit.

The conversation delves into emotional resilience, the complexities of intimacy, the role of fantasies and kinks, and the transformative power of self-care and embodiment practices. Violet also touches on her personal life, including her unique love story and how she maintains intimacy with her husband while raising children. This episode offers valuable insights and practical advice on achieving and sustaining meaningful connections.

00:00 Introduction to Violet Lange

00:55 Formative Years and Early Challenges

02:14 Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing

05:43 Embracing Pleasure and Somatic Healing

12:14 Transition to Love Coaching

16:21 Common Themes in Coaching

18:52 Modern Disconnection and Dating Challenges

23:47 A Cosmic Connection: Meeting Her Husband

31:54 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

36:27 Maintaining Intimacy After Children

37:57 Navigating Libido Differences During Pregnancy

38:48 Creating Structures for Sexual Connection

39:58 The Importance of Quality Over Frequency

41:05 Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory

47:13 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

53:12 Embracing Sacred Sexuality and Fantasies

01:03:36 Maintaining Boundaries and Integrity in Dating

01:08:41 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries

01:09:59 Reflecting on Life's Purpose and Success

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In this episode, associate psychotherapist and sex and relationship therapist Sandy Rose shares her journey from a reserved childhood to becoming a founder of Sandy Rose Therapy.

She discusses her transformative experiences, including her divorce, and how they led her to explore her authentic self, sensuality, and sexuality. Sandy blends psychodynamic therapy, somatic awareness, and trauma-informed care to help individuals and couples reconnect with their true selves.

The conversation delves into topics such as the importance of communication in intimacy, breaking down societal stigma and shame, the impact of media on sexual perceptions, and the positive role of psychedelics in therapeutic settings.

Sandy's ultimate vision includes creating a retreat for couples using MDMA to foster deeper connections and healing.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:16 Formative Years and Early Intimacy

03:39 Awakening and Post-Divorce Exploration

06:24 Sexual Health and Therapy Journey

17:59 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

24:53 Communication and Vulnerability in Relationships

39:41 Questioning Beliefs About Intimacy

41:01 The Misconceptions of Pornography

44:02 Communication in Relationships

45:54 Exploring Personal Pleasure

49:54 Addressing Trauma and Trust Issues

01:00:04 Therapist's Self-Care and Client Support

01:03:57 Future Aspirations and Psychedelics

01:10:27 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

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In this insightful episode, Dr. Michael Nuccitelli, a New York state licensed psychologist and cyber psychologist, discusses his iPredator concept, a framework to understand and defend against online aggression.

The conversation delves into the types of online aggressors, the psychological impact of cyberbullying, and stalking, and offers practical advice for parents and adults to protect themselves and their loved ones in the digital age.

Dr. Nuccitelli also highlights the significance of digital citizenship, the psychology behind online behaviors, and shares real-life stories from his volunteer work. The episode emphasizes the importance of education, awareness, and responsible online behavior to mitigate risks in cyberspace.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Michael Nuccitelli and iPredator

00:36 Personal Concerns and Introduction to Cyber Psychology

01:16 Origins of the iPredator Concept

03:31 Types of Online Aggressors

04:26 Criteria for Identifying an iPredator

06:27 Impact of Technology on Society and Vulnerability

16:51 Parenting in the Information Age

20:15 The Reality of Cyberbullying and Online Predators

28:10 Infobesity and Internet Addiction

33:38 Understanding Catfishing Tactics

34:47 Red Flags on WhatsApp and Telegram

36:22 Psychological Isolation and Scams

39:34 Challenges in Law Enforcement

40:50 Importance of Digital Citizenship

47:02 Dark Psychology and Online Behavior

49:30 The Role of Online Communities

53:20 Personal Responsibility in Online Safety

56:30 Predatory Trolls and Online Psychopathy

59:59 Final Thoughts and Future Directions

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In this episode, Skyeblu Cutchie, a spiritual mentor and sexual reclamation coach, shares insights from her journey of overcoming childhood trauma and rediscovering her true self.

She discusses her somatic practices and psycho-sexual coaching methods that help women and couples reconnect with their bodies and reclaim pleasure as a birthright. This conversation covers Skyeblu's formative years on a cattle farm, her struggle with body image, the impact of external influences on sexuality, and the importance of emotional connection in relationships.

Skyeblu emphasizes a 'pleasure first' approach to intimacy and talks about the role of spirituality in her practice. Listeners will also learn about the importance of communication in maintaining healthy sexual relationships. Skyeblu elaborates on her future plans to expand her reach through group programs and her desire to continue making a significant impact on women's lives.

00:00 Introduction to Skyeblu Cutchie

00:59 Skyeblu's Formative Years

04:48 Journey to Becoming a Sex Therapist

05:34 The Role of Therapy in Healing

09:21 Exploring Intimacy and Communication

24:44 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

38:47 Navigating Conversations in Relationships

39:45 The Role of a Sex Therapist

42:25 Emotional Connection and Physical Desire

45:59 Spirituality and Sexuality

47:52 Affairs and Relationship Dynamics

53:58 The Impact of Technology on Intimacy

57:47 Pleasure-First Approach to Intimacy

01:06:18 Self-Care for Therapists

01:09:34 Future Plans and Reflections

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In this enlightening discussion, Amy Herrick PhD, a scientist turned identity guide and transgender advocate, shares her personal journey of understanding and embracing her true identity.

Amy discusses her early feelings of misalignment with her assigned gender, the impact of societal pressures, and her eventual transition. She also explores foundational aspects of identity development and the importance of living authentically. Amy's story is a compelling mix of science, personal experience, and advocacy, aimed at helping others navigate their own identity journeys with empathy and rigor.

00:00 Introduction to Amy Herrick PhD

01:05 Early Life and Gender Identity

02:27 Teenage Years and Gender Realization

05:57 Interest in Genetics and Chemistry

08:06 Transitioning and Career in Software

13:30 Philosophy of Science and Truth

24:02 Living Authentically and Transition Journey

33:34 Thoughts on Medical Interventions for Trans Youth

38:29 Genetics and Biochemistry of Gender

40:04 Impact of Hormones and Puberty Blockers

42:41 Political Climate and Gender Transition

44:29 Defining Gender and Sex

58:06 The Transgender Experience and Identity

01:03:36 Mission and Purpose of Identity Coaching

01:12:34 Concluding Thoughts on Identity and Success

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In this episode, Lilith Foxx shares their journey from a conservative, immigrant household where sex and sexuality were taboo, to becoming a prominent sexuality educator.

Topics discussed include Lilith's childhood curiosity about sexuality, the lack of sex education in schools, her personal research and experiences, and how a traumatic event led to the kink community.

Lilith also discuss their involvement in the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (ASECT), and her passion for teaching kink, polyamory, and sexual education.

Other themes include the stigmatization of sex work, the importance of inclusive practices for people with disabilities, and the role of communication and consent in sexual relationships. Lilith concludes by highlighting the importance of community and their future plans in public health education.

00:00 Introduction and Early Life

02:57 Curiosity and Early Education

07:01 Sexual Assault and Kink Exploration

08:02 Discovering the Kink Community

12:05 Pursuing a Career in Sexuality Education

15:29 Challenges and Misconceptions

26:37 Sex Work and Legal Issues

35:07 Disability and Sexuality

35:32 Challenging Infantilization and Advocating for Accessibility

39:19 Defining Sex and Intimacy

42:10 Pleasure Mapping and Self-Exploration

43:54 Media Literacy and Inclusive Representation

45:40 The Importance of DEI in Business and Society

46:28 Personal Experiences and Cultural Reflections

50:27 Sexuality, Feminism, and Misogyny

57:17 Resources for Learning About Sexuality

58:52 Community Support and Professional Boundaries

01:06:21 Future Aspirations and Personal Growth

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In this insightful conversation, Leslie Draffin, a multifaceted woman's society coach, shares her extraordinary journey from a conservative upbringing and personal trauma to becoming a guide in psychedelic microdosing, breathwork, meditation, and menstrual psych education.

Leslie delves into how she overcame feelings of unworthiness and disconnection from her body through spiritual awakening, somatic practices, and the transformative power of psychedelics. She offers a compelling perspective on integrating mind-body practices to heal trauma, reconnect with femininity, and explore profound self-discovery.

The discussion also covers societal views on menopause, the impact of diet culture, and the need for sovereign choices in personal health. Leslie's experiences and insights provide a powerful testament to the healing potential within us all.

00:00 Introduction to Leslie Draffin

00:46 Leslie's Formative Years and Early Struggles

04:38 Spiritual Awakening and Career Transition

16:07 Embracing Somatic Practices

40:09 Exploring Psychedelics for Healing

45:40 Microdosing and Sobriety Journey

47:55 The Role of Guidance in Psychedelic Experiences

50:57 Future of Psychedelics and Legalization

56:09 Mushrooms and Personal Transformation

01:02:31 Menopause and Hormone Replacement Therapy

01:15:02 The Importance of Somatic Practices

01:19:44 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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In this insightful episode, Nicola Beer, a certified relationship counselor, hypnotherapist, and host of the Successful Relationship Revival podcast, shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a specialized therapist in sexual wellness and intimacy.

Nicola discusses her unique blend of therapy and coaching to help individuals and couples overcome intimacy blocks and rebuild trust and connection. From emotional intimacy foundations to overcoming porn addiction, Nicola offers practical advice and exercises to enhance intimate relationships.

She also explains the benefits of setting rules around phone usage, practicing hypnotherapy, and engaging in regular emotional check-ins and monthly relationship reviews. Nicola's move to Thailand to offer deeper, immersive therapy experiences demonstrates her dedication to transforming relationships while maintaining her own well-being.

This episode is packed with strategies for anyone looking to improve their relationship and personal emotional health.

00:00 Introduction to Nicola Beer

00:55 Formative Years and Personal Struggles

02:01 Journey to Becoming a Relationship Counselor

04:34 Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity

06:24 Building Emotional and Physical Intimacy

10:11 Daily and Monthly Communication Practices

14:54 Sex Revitalized Program

18:22 Cultural Differences in Discussing Intimacy

24:10 Life in Dubai and Thailand

28:38 The Changing Culture of Dubai

29:49 The Impact of Porn on Relationships

32:16 Addressing Porn Addiction

36:25 The Digital Age and Its Effects on Intimacy

41:01 Managing Emotional Wellbeing as a Therapist

44:59 The Importance of Mind-Body Connection

48:31 Hypnotherapy and Its Benefits

52:47 Navigating Intimacy Issues in Relationships

01:00:05 Looking Ahead: Personal and Professional Future

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In this episode, we talk with Amita Sharma, co-founder of Nourish Doc, a holistic wellness platform that supports women through every stage of their hormonal transition, from PMS to perimenopause and beyond.

Amita shares her journey from her upbringing in India, where discussions on these topics were taboo, to creating an innovative self-care app for women. She emphasizes the need for awareness and communication on often stigmatized issues like menopause, libido, and mental health. The conversation covers the impact of hormonal changes on relationships, the importance of holistic wellness, and why men should be educated about their partners' experiences.

Additionally, Amita provides insights into maintaining mental and physical well-being and discusses her vision for Nourish Doc's future success in reducing chronic conditions and improving relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Amita Sharma and Nourish Doc

01:01 Amita's Formative Years and Cultural Background

01:49 Challenges and Stigmas Around Menopause

04:40 Amita's Personal Journey and Realization

07:05 Impact of Menopause on Relationships

11:53 Global Awareness and Medical System Gaps

14:08 Navigating Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)

17:40 Exploring Holistic Alternatives to HRT

19:26 Challenges of Clinical Trials for Custom Therapies

19:51 The Disconnect in Hormone Replacement Therapy

20:14 The Importance of Self-Care and Research

20:40 Launching the App and Initial Responses

21:03 Holistic Lifestyle and Natural Remedies

22:17 Maintaining Intimate Relationships

22:58 The Financial and Emotional Strain of Parenting

26:56 Communication and Therapy in Relationships

30:36 Personal Practices for Mental and Physical Wellbeing

34:26 Future Goals and Success Metrics for Nourish Doc

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In this episode, sex therapist and somatic sex coach Susan Morgan Taylor shares her journey from a sexless marriage to becoming an expert in women's and couples' intimacy.

Susan reveals her proprietary Pleasure Keys process, designed to help couples navigate challenges, enhance their erotic lives, and deepen their connection. She discusses the importance of self-awareness and self-exploration, recounting her own transformative experiences with somatic practices.

Listeners will gain insights into embodying their true desires, the significance of clear communication, and how to maintain a healthy sexual relationship. Susan also highlights her private coaching, transformative retreats, and online resources available through the Pathway to Pleasure Collective.

00:00 Introduction to Susan Morgan Taylor

01:10 Susan's Personal Journey to Sexual Awakening

03:10 Discovering the Pathway to Pleasure

07:38 The Pleasure Keys Process

14:00 Understanding and Communicating Desires

22:27 The Three Ns: Notice, Name, Negotiate

29:00 Practical Applications and Real-Life Scenarios

37:13 Navigating Intimacy: Listening to Your Body

39:50 The Role of Somatic Therapy in Healing

44:42 Embracing Sexual Energy and Confidence

55:37 The Power of Immersive Retreats

01:00:06 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy: A Personal Choice

01:04:40 The Importance of Truth in Relationships

01:06:49 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing as a Therapist

01:08:51 Future Vision: Transforming Relationships

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In this episode, Amara Samata shares her transformative journey from a curiosity-driven childhood with a Southern Baptist preacher father and a logical, practical nurse mother, to the performing arts, and eventually, into the healing arts and spiritual awakening.

Amara discusses her experiences with meditation, yoga, and profound mentorships that led her to deep self-realization. She delves into her near-death experience at a young age that instilled a lasting existential curiosity.

Drawing from personal transformation and professional practices, Amara introduces concepts like 'winning a winning game,' the importance of discernment, and practical approaches to healthy and dynamic relationships.

She also describes her work in coaching and guiding individuals, including CEOs and high-level professionals, towards self-discovery and harmonious living. Amara emphasizes the significance of honesty, balance, and resourcefulness in both personal growth and relationships, aiming to bring her frameworks to a broader audience.

00:00 Introduction and Early Life

03:07 Journey into Performing Arts

03:49 Transition to Healing Arts

04:12 Profound Experiences in Asia

05:38 Near-Death Experience and Life's Meaning

08:53 Awakening and Self-Realization

24:57 Inner Guidance Method

43:23 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships

47:42 The Importance of Emotional Sharing

50:04 The Best Friend Game Exercise

54:21 Building Trust and Communication

58:35 Understanding Enoughness and Resourcefulness

01:09:17 Scaling and Collaborating for Greater Impact

01:14:22 Daily Practices for Avoiding Burnout

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This episode features Sari Cooper, a sex therapist and director of the Center for Love and Sex in NYC. With a unique background in dance and 25 years of therapeutic experience, Sari shares insights into building authentic emotional and sexual relationships.

The discussion covers her formative years influenced by her brother's schizophrenia, the integration of somatic practices in therapy, and the importance of sexuality education for therapists through the See It Program.

Key topics include the impact of cultural and societal norms on sexual health, the role of fantasies in relationships, and strategies for creating safe spaces for sexual conversations. Sari also emphasizes the significance of sex esteem and the holistic approach to therapy that addresses both mental and physical well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Sari Cooper

01:29 Sari's Formative Years and Early Influences

03:13 Transition from Dance to Therapy

05:33 Discovering and Pursuing Sex Therapy

07:41 The See It Program and Its Impact

09:58 Challenges and Misconceptions in Therapy

20:28 Creating a Safe Space for Clients

21:52 Understanding Sensual and Sexual Experiences

31:19 Redefining Sexuality and Pleasure

37:00 Understanding Men's Moves in Bed

38:09 Expressing Fantasies and Fears

40:43 Normalizing Fantasies Through Science

46:53 Impact of Media on Sexual Expectations

53:56 Building Sex Esteem and Confidence

59:21 Therapist Self-Care and Client Empowerment

01:03:12 Conclusion and Resources

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In this episode, we delve into the world of divorce law with seasoned attorney, mediator, and author Kathy Boufford. With nearly 30 years of experience at Bellenot and Boufford, LLC, Kathy shares her insights on the complexities of divorce, common pitfalls, and the importance of communication in marital relationships.

She discusses her practical guide, 'Divorce Matters,' which aims to empower individuals navigating the legal and emotional aspects of divorce. Kathy also touches on her personal journey in family law, the importance of pre-marital agreements, and the challenges older couples face as divorce rates among those over fifty rise.

Additionally, Kathy provides valuable tips on choosing the right attorney and maintaining mental well-being amid the emotionally taxing field of family law.

00:00 Introduction to Kathy Boufford

00:37 Divorce Statistics and Trends

01:20 Challenges in Marriage Counseling

06:13 Kathy's Journey into Family Law

10:14 Emotional Impact of Family Law

14:30 Communication in Relationships

23:27 Rising Divorce Rates Among Older Couples

26:33 Complexities of Multiple Marriages

33:13 Prenuptial Agreements and Their Impact

37:06 Writing a Book Amidst a Busy Career

38:37 Common Legal Myths and Initial Consultations

39:32 Breaking Down Legal Fees and Procedures

40:36 Empowering Clients with Knowledge

41:53 The Evolution of Providing Legal Information

43:43 Writing a Book to Help Clients

48:55 Addressing Non-Marital Relationships

56:47 Challenges in Legal Representation

01:03:34 Choosing the Right Attorney

01:08:00 Future Projects and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, Laura Giles, a licensed clinical social worker and trauma therapist, discusses her journey from her animistic upbringing to her extensive career in trauma therapy, shadow work, and spiritual coaching.

She shares insights into the importance of holistic practices and the interconnectedness of all life forms. Laura delves into topics such as intergenerational trauma, the impact of societal structures on compassion and empathy, and the significance of vulnerability and self-awareness in healing.

The conversation also covers the psychological barriers to intimacy and the role of past life regression in personal growth. Laura's unique perspective underscores the need for balance, compassion, and authentic connection in cultivating fulfilling relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Laura Giles

00:53 Early Life and Formative Years

02:53 Understanding Animism

04:53 The Impact of Trauma on Perception

08:43 Spiritual Travels and Group Energy

11:15 The Role of Compassion in Healing

24:28 Past Life Regression and Healing

27:25 The Epidemic of Loneliness

28:49 The Decline of Human Connection

30:13 Cultural Differences in Community and Family

34:33 The Impact of Volunteering and Community Involvement

38:16 The Power of Vulnerability and Truth

44:24 Understanding and Healing Through Shadow Work

59:43 Maintaining Healthy Boundaries and Basics

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In this comprehensive discussion, licensed mental health therapist Gina Guddat delves into her extensive background spanning therapy, fitness coaching, and nonprofit leadership. With over fifteen years of experience, Gina brings a wealth of knowledge on building healthy relationships, intimacy, and self-respect.

Addressing topics from practical fitness routines for couples to overcoming trust issues after betrayal, she emphasizes the significance of mutual respect and communication. Gina also discusses how her upbringing influenced her perspectives and shares ways she helps couples navigate their unique intimacy needs. Additionally, Gina sheds light on self-advocacy, combating compassion fatigue, and her enduring commitment to global humanitarian efforts.

00:00 Introduction to Gina Guddat

00:56 Diverse Experience in Therapy and Fitness

01:18 Foundations of Healthy Relationships

02:24 Growing Up with Strong Relationship Models

03:13 Talking About Intimacy and Sex Education

05:16 Challenges of Modern Sex Education

07:25 The Myth of the Soulmate

13:57 Respect and Change in Long-Lasting Relationships

27:51 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal

28:25 Types of Betrayal in Relationships

29:09 The Importance of Coming Clean

30:14 Steps to Rebuild a Relationship

32:53 Addressing Blame and Vulnerability

35:56 Self-Love and Overcoming Self-Doubt

39:54 The Role of Physical Fitness in Relationships

45:22 Future Plans and Legacy

50:49 Compassion Fatigue and Self-Care

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In this episode, thought leader and content creator Jasmina Sabi delves into her tumultuous upbringing, marked by fear, neglect, and survival instincts. Through an open conversation, she explores her journey from a childhood filled with turmoil to struggles with self-worth, love, motherhood, and the profound impact of therapy.

Sabi's candid discussion includes personal anecdotes that highlight societal norms, the importance of seeking therapy, and her relationship with her children. She also reflects on broad topics like the role of emotional abuse, the impacts of societal expectations, and the influence of organized religion. This engaging dialogue offers profound insights into trauma, personal development, and the quest for authenticity in human connections.

00:00 Introduction to Jasmina Sabi

00:58 Surviving a Turbulent Childhood

03:53 Motherhood and Self-Discovery

05:34 Parenting Challenges and Insights

08:29 Societal Norms and Personal Beliefs

12:08 Reflections on Race and Identity

19:57 Education and Personal Growth

27:42 The Illusion of Ownership and War

28:27 Living by the Dead's Words

31:21 The Role of Pure Intentions in Intimacy

32:38 The Concept of Conditional Love

36:24 The Burden of Leadership

43:32 The Importance of Mental Health

49:45 The Power of Lived Experience

55:59 A Mother's Determination

57:27 Understanding the Brain and Change

58:12 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, Australian entrepreneur, author, and online dating expert Maureen Pound delves into her journey of re-entering the dating scene after a seven-year hiatus, using Tinder to engage with thousands and meeting nearly a hundred men.

Known for her candid and practical approach, she shares her experiences that led her to write 'How to Get Laid on Tinder for Men,' a guide to help men navigate online dating authentically. Pound discusses her upbringing as the youngest of nine children in a Catholic family, her passion for words and people, and how these influenced her interest in relationships and intimacy.

She emphasizes the importance of genuine communication in online dating, offers practical tips for creating engaging profiles and initiating conversations, and highlights the need for men to take charge while staying respectful and genuine. Despite the digital age's challenges, Pound underscores the timeless relevance of real, human connection.

00:00 Introduction to Maureen Pound

00:44 Maureen's Early Life and Interest in Relationships

03:57 Journey into Online Dating

04:57 Writing the Book and Helping Men

06:38 Experiences and Insights from Tinder

11:04 Creating an Engaging Tinder Profile

13:39 Starting Conversations on Tinder

16:25 Challenges of Digital Communication

20:22 Building Sexual Confidence

26:09 Navigating Online Dating Meetups

32:05 Photo Fails and Self-Reflection

32:42 Blaming External Factors

33:13 Evolution of Dating Methods

34:06 Importance of Presentation

35:20 Changing Trends in Dating Apps

37:17 Ethics and Honesty in Relationships

38:02 Tinder Etiquette and Protocols

41:47 Personal Success with Tinder

44:57 Balancing Companionship and Independence

47:37 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships

52:46 Future Plans and Personal Wellbeing

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Katie Turner, a psychologist based in Calgary, discusses her path from a traditional psychology background to integrating eastern healing techniques in her practice. Turner shares insights from her personal journey, including an extended stay in India and Nepal that served as her spiritual awakening.

She also addresses the challenges of navigating spiritual practices while maintaining evidence-based psychological methods. Her holistic approach supports highly sensitive individuals, empaths, and those seeking profound transformation.

The discussion also ventures into topics like intuitive abilities, the impact of social media, and the importance of boundaries and self-awareness in achieving mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Katie Turner

01:09 Early Life and Formative Years

01:55 Discovering Empathic Abilities

04:03 Spiritual Awakening in India and Nepal

04:49 Exploring Intuitive Development

06:23 The Importance of Travel and Cultural Perspectives

08:19 Understanding Spirituality vs. Religion

10:29 Mediumship and Scientific Exploration

14:29 The Role of Trauma and Emotional Memory

19:33 Navigating Grief and Emotional Processing

25:39 Integrating Western and Eastern Healing Techniques

27:53 Writing the Book: Addressing Spiritual Awakening

29:19 The Dangers of Toxic Positivity

29:56 Navigating Spiritual Leadership and Trust

31:04 Understanding Shadow Work

32:46 The Impact of Digital Communication on Relationships

35:42 Social Media and Mental Health

38:51 Setting Healthy Boundaries

47:17 The Importance of Nature and Spiritual Connection

48:46 Embracing the Brutal and the Beautiful

50:58 Intuitive Guidance and Goal Setting

53:30 Protecting Mental Wellbeing as an Empath

56:26 Opening Up to Spiritual Guidance

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Brat Barbie, a prominent online creator, shares her journey from starting in the phone sex industry to becoming a successful content creator on platforms like Loyal Fans.

Featured as the platform's Creator of the Month in January 2025, Brat discusses her initial steps into the adult industry, her evolution into the persona of 'Brat Barbie,' and her focus on non-nude content that explores themes of sexuality, empowerment, and personal expression.

She highlights the challenges and dedication required in her profession, the supportive role of Loyal Fans, and how she balances her professional and personal life. Brat also delves into the unique requests she encounters, the extensive skill set required to succeed in her field, and her future aspirations for expanding her fan base and content creation.

00:00 Introduction to Brat Barbie

01:01 Early Career and Transition

02:54 Creating the Brat Barbie Persona

04:43 Fan Reactions and Industry Insights

07:28 The Realities of Being a Creator

11:48 Engaging with Fans and Setting Boundaries

17:29 Setting Boundaries in Professional and Personal Life

19:19 Navigating Relationships and Acceptance

20:24 Event Experiences and Meeting Fans

21:52 Platform Support and Recognition

25:27 Future Goals and Career Aspirations

27:40 Advice for Newcomers to the Industry

30:01 Maintaining Mental and Physical Wellbeing

32:29 Favorite Content and Creative Exploration

33:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Brat Barbie is a twice award-nominated, renowned Domme from LoyalFans. She has been in the industry for over ten years, having curated an incredibly successful career through female and financial domination fetish clips. Brat Barbie's content is considered non-nude and whilst enjoying this flexible, empowering work, she is in a happy relationship of seven years.

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Catherine Drysdale, a board-certified sex and relationship coach, delves into her journey from growing up in a sex-negative household to becoming a leader in pleasure-based education and trauma healing. Combining neuroscience-backed tools with deep empathy, Catherine helps individuals and couples rewrite their narratives and cultivate fulfilling intimate lives. In this conversation, she candidly shares her personal experiences with trauma, healing, and empowerment while providing insights into her coaching methods. Catherine emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, consent, and mindful self-care, underscoring her commitment to help clients embrace pleasure and set healthy boundaries.

00:00 Introduction to Catherine Drysdale

01:06 Catherine's Formative Years and Early Experiences

02:23 Exploring Sexuality and Boarding School Challenges

06:14 Navigating High School and Early Relationships

07:05 Understanding Female Pleasure and Masturbation

18:53 Sexual Assault and Trauma

23:08 Healing and Advocacy

43:39 The Importance of Comprehensive Sex Education

45:42 Exploring the Middle Ground in Politics

46:08 Introducing the Pleasure Path

46:39 Redefining Pleasure and Sex

47:54 Personal Journey of Self-Discovery

52:00 Coaching Approach and Client Goals

57:17 Techniques and Tools for Healing

01:05:23 Navigating Modern Intimacy

01:09:46 Personal Reflections and Future Goals

01:14:22 Complex Family Relationships

01:20:47 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries

01:24:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry Podcast, we are joined by the vibrant and captivating Trinity Infinity. Known for her pink hair and bubbly persona, Trinity shares her journey from high school graduate to adult content creator.

She opens up about her experiences in various facets of the adult industry, such as webcam modeling and phone sex, and her exploration of fetishes. Trinity discusses her personal growth, overcoming guilt and shame from a conservative upbringing, and embracing her sexuality. She emphasizes the importance of clear communication in BDSM, balancing professional and personal intimacy, and the need for boundaries in her work.

Trinity also touches on unconventional fetishes and how she navigates unexpected client requests with creativity and openness. Additionally, she shares her aspirations of running an animal rescue center or cat café in the future, underlining her love for animals. The episode wraps up with advice for those struggling with sexual shame and encourages listeners to embrace their desires without judgment.

00:00 Welcome to the Intimacy Inquiry Podcast

00:07 Meet Trinity Infinity: The Bubbly Brat Princess

01:09 Trinity's Journey into Fetish and Adult Content Creation

04:56 Embracing Sexuality and Overcoming Shame

09:43 The Therapeutic Side of BDSM and Kink

13:57 Balancing Personal and Professional Intimacy

17:45 Navigating Relationships and Open Communication

22:12 The Art of Dominance and Performance

28:05 Exploring the Concept of Taboo

28:54 Personal Taboos and Exploration

30:09 Mainstreaming of Kink and BDSM

34:00 Unusual Fetishes and Creative Challenges

38:32 Connecting with Clients and Understanding Their Desires

48:12 Balancing Work and Personal Well-being

53:15 Encouragement for Embracing Sexuality

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In this episode, Satya Lila, a sacred sexuality educator, transformational coach, and spiritual guide with over 30 years of experience, discusses her journey and work in helping individuals and couples reconnect with their divine erotic energy.

Satya shares personal insights from her own spiritual awakening, the challenges she faced in relationships, and how she overcame them through sacred sexuality workshops. She explains the essence of sacred sexuality, its benefits, and how it integrates with spirituality.

The conversation also touches on the importance of open communication in relationships, the healing power of sexual energy, and the significance of creating a safe, intimate space for connection. Satya provides practical tips and resources for those interested in exploring sacred sexuality.

00:00 Introduction to Satya Lila

01:20 Satya's Early Life and Relationships

04:19 Discovering Sacred Sexuality

07:09 Reconnecting with Sexual Energy

21:16 Teaching and Transitioning to Sacred Sexuality

22:59 Developing the Sexual Communion Program

34:15 Creating a Safe Space for Communication

35:45 Devotional Time and Intimacy

37:21 Overcoming Shame and Embarrassment

41:05 Redefining Sexual Expectations

44:24 The Gifts of Past Relationships

48:40 The Importance of Nature

53:01 Monogamy vs. Polyamory

56:50 Exploring Psycho-Sexuality

59:35 The Importance of Self-Time

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In this episode, internationally acclaimed author and relationship coach Eri Kardos discusses her journey from conservative beginnings to becoming a leading expert in love and relationships.

Eri shares insights from her career, including her work with Fortune 500 executives, and delves into the four pillars of her Relearn Love philosophy. She emphasizes the importance of curiosity, cultivating knowledge, implementing change, and celebrating successes in relationships. Eri also talks about her personal experiences, the significance of integrating somatic practices, and her adventurous lifestyle as a world traveler.

With practical advice and heartfelt stories, Eri inspires listeners to deepen their connections and embrace personal growth.

00:00 Introduction to Eri Kardos

01:04 Eri's Upbringing and Early Influences

02:22 Career Journey and Realizations

04:18 Transition to Full-Time Coaching

04:46 Approaching Executives About Personal Growth

07:45 Personal Experiences Shaping Professional Approach

14:35 Core Philosophy of Relearn Love

23:27 The Importance of Somatic Practices

30:03 The Surprising Freedom of Emotional Release

32:15 Writing the Bestselling Book on Relationship Agreements

38:49 Living as a Full-Time Traveling Family

41:59 The Power of Letting Go and Embracing Change

46:32 Preparing for Love and Self-Discovery

49:10 Homework: How to Feel Seen, Heard, and Loved

01:01:08 Nourishing Yourself to Give More

01:04:22 Final Thoughts and Invitation to Connect

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In this episode, the host announces the first sponsor of 'The Intimacy Inquiry,' Le Wand Massager, and offers listeners a 25% discount on full-priced items. Use the code intimacy25

The conversation then introduces Alicia Sinclair, founder and CEO of Le Wand, who has over two decades of experience in the sexual wellness industry. Alicia shares her unconventional entry into the industry and her journey from receptionist to a leading entrepreneur and educator.

She discusses the importance of sex education, the challenges of product development, and the necessity of understanding customer needs.

Alicia emphasizes the significance of high-quality products and building customer relationships. Finally, they touch upon the role of regulations, societal stigma, and the importance of mental and physical well-being, highlighting the broader impacts of the sexual wellness industry.

00:00 Exciting News and Sponsor Introduction

01:03 Meet Alicia Sinclair: Pioneer in Sexual Wellness

02:01 Alicia's Journey into the Industry

03:19 From Receptionist to Entrepreneur

05:52 Product Development and Market Insights

10:37 Challenges and Innovations in the Industry

14:54 Marketing Strategies and Customer Engagement

23:52 Breaking Stigmas and Promoting Sexual Wellness

29:22 The Role of Sex Toys in Enhancing Intimacy

29:52 Exploring the Benefits of Vibrators for All Genders

30:27 The Importance of Foreplay and Open-Mindedness

31:18 Humorous Anecdotes and Personal Experiences

31:42 Challenges and Regulations in the Porn Industry

32:51 The Impact of Age Verification on Porn Access

34:21 The Resurgence of Physical Media and Old-School Methods

36:31 The Evolution of Censorship and Marketing in the Sex Industry

47:23 Balancing Work and Personal Wellbeing

50:01 Gratitude and Passion for the Job

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Anya Hynell, a certified sex and intimacy coach and founder of Pleasure, Please Coaching, shares her transformative approach to sexual and emotional wellbeing.

With a focus on overcoming shame, understanding core desires, and improving communication, Anya helps individuals and couples unlock their full pleasure potential.

The discussion traverses her journey from a sexually uninformed youth to an advocate for sexual empowerment, alongside challenges like sexual assault and societal stigmas.

She also tackles the complexities of navigating consent, fantasies, and the myths surrounding porn and sex addiction, emphasizing self-awareness and mutual respect in intimate relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Anya Hynell

01:17 Anya's Teenage Years and Early Influences

02:54 Discovering Sexual Education and Overcoming Challenges

04:18 Empowerment Through Education and Personal Growth

06:18 Exploring Sexuality and Communication

12:54 Understanding Core Desires and Intimacy

17:49 Navigating Sexual Empowerment and Boundaries

24:36 Addressing Shame, Guilt, and Porn Addiction

28:29 The Impact of Porn and Performance Anxiety

32:47 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

34:45 The Legacy of Freud on Sexual Perception

35:16 The Misconceptions About Penetration

36:49 Communication Challenges in Relationships

38:19 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Discussions

45:29 Exploring Fantasies and Desires

51:42 The Importance of Normalizing Sexual Experiences

54:51 Future Aspirations and Personal Wellbeing

01:05:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

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In this insightful episode, guest Bev Mitelman shares her personal journey of growing up in a chaotic environment and its influence on her understanding of relationships.

Bev, a certified practitioner and executive leader, explores how early attachment styles, whether secure or insecure, profoundly impact adult relationships. She delves into the origins and manifestations of different attachment styles—secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant.

Bev also discusses how awareness and dedicated work can shift one's attachment style towards secure attachment, enhancing relationship dynamics and emotional well-being. Practical advice and the importance of understanding one’s own needs and trust levels in fostering healthier connections are highlighted, making this a valuable conversation for anyone looking to improve their relational patterns.

00:00 Introduction to Bev Mitelman's Story

00:56 Bev's Formative Years and Personal Growth

02:29 Discovering Attachment Styles

05:58 Understanding Secure Attachment

09:16 Insecure Attachment Styles Explained

12:34 Healing and Changing Attachment Styles

14:24 Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships

24:01 Anxious Preoccupied Attachment

28:05 Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

30:22 Understanding Emotional Unavailability

30:46 The Impact of Childhood on Adult Relationships

31:20 Different Attachment Styles

32:59 Fearful Avoidance and Its Challenges

34:42 The Importance of Self-Understanding in Relationships

41:59 Communicating Needs in Relationships

51:42 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing

54:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, we explore the dynamic career of Adreena Winters, famously known as the Queen of Cuckolds in the UK’s erotic content industry.

With 15 years of experience, Adreena has transitioned from a Pizza Hut waitress to a leading voice in adult entertainment, specializing as a professional femme dom and cuck queen. Her commitment to empowering individuals and exploring sexual fantasies is evident in her founding of the Cuck Academy and the release of her book 'So You Want to Be a Cuckold.'

Adreena shares her journey, from her early curiosities about fetish clubs to becoming a recognized figure in the industry, and discusses the nuances of the cuckold dynamic. She also reveals her recent pivot towards sex education and her goal of helping men embrace their non-alpha identities with confidence.

Additionally, she opens up about her personal life, the evolution of her desires, and her strategies for maintaining mental and physical well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Adreena Winters: The Queen of Cuckolds

00:59 Early Life and Career Beginnings

01:59 Transition to Fetish Modeling and Porn

03:05 Impact of Lockdown and Shift to Self-Produced Content

04:24 Personal Reflections and Sexual Openness

07:17 Understanding Cuckolding and Its Dynamics

08:57 The Role of Dominance and Misconceptions

12:28 Challenges in Communication and Writing the Book

17:45 Exploring Desire and Personal Growth

21:12 Exploring Intimacy Beyond Penetration

22:34 Confessions Series: Real-Life Dynamics

23:45 The Role of Pornography in Sexual Exploration

25:45 The Impact of OnlyFans on Performer-Audience Interaction

30:39 Personal Boundaries and Relationship Dynamics

38:20 Balancing Professional and Personal Life

41:46 Future Aspirations and Helping Others

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In this episode of Intimate Inquiry, join Dr. Joli Hamilton, a research psychologist and certified sex educator specializing in consensual non-monogamy and jealousy, as she delves into her personal journey and professional insights.

Dr. Hamilton shares her early experiences with sexual inquisitiveness and trauma, her transition from a monogamous marriage to exploring non-monogamy at age 32, and how she helps others create custom-built non-monogamous partnerships.

She discusses the importance of communication, handling jealousy, and the misconceptions surrounding non-monogamy. The conversation also touches on the impact of life transitions, such as midlife and empty nesting, on relationship dynamics, and the broader implications of non-monogamous living.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Joli Hamilton

01:01 Formative Years and Early Experiences

02:37 Navigating Early Relationships

05:46 Transition to Non-Monogamy

11:59 Understanding Jealousy and Communication

19:13 Challenges and Misconceptions in Non-Monogamy

25:28 Guiding Clients Through Non-Monogamy

29:12 Navigating Relationship Nuances

30:06 Exploring Non-Monogamy

31:37 The Role of Fantasies

33:30 Imagining Non-Monogamy

35:28 Communication Challenges

44:54 Midlife and Relationship Evolution

54:39 Polyamory in Later Adulthood

01:01:06 Concluding Thoughts

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In this insightful conversation, relationship and masculinity coach Jason Lange discusses his journey from personal struggles with intimacy and emotional connection to founding Evolutionary Men, where he helps men navigate vulnerability, intimacy, and healthy masculinity.

Jason emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, somatic therapy, and men's groups in cultivating meaningful relationships and overall wellbeing. The episode explores the impact of societal expectations on men, the role of evolutionary psychology in understanding male behavior, and the significance of teaching emotional fluency.

Jason also shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on creating safe spaces for emotional expression and how men can move from disconnection to connection. This discussion offers valuable insights for anyone looking to foster deeper, more satisfying relationships and emotional fulfillment.

00:00 Introduction to Jason Lange and His Work

01:11 Jason's Formative Years and Personal Journey

02:39 Discovering Emotional and Physical Connection

07:38 The Evolutionary Psychology of Masculinity

10:51 Challenges Men Face in Modern Society

24:32 Rites of Passage and Mentorship

30:05 The Importance of Emotional Fluency

38:55 Expressing Emotions Through Modeling

40:09 Creating Safe Spaces for Emotional Exploration

40:28 The Importance of Men's Groups

41:33 Handling Anger and Emotional Containment

43:09 The Mind-Body Connection

44:46 The Role of Emotions in Decision Making

47:48 Personal Story of Grief and Emotional Suppression

49:51 The Power of Vulnerability in Men's Groups

54:17 Communication in Modern Relationships

01:01:48 The Heart of Shadow Retreat

01:07:32 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing as a Coach

01:10:13 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, Andrew is joined by Ruby Mae, a New York-based city companion and storyteller.

Ruby offers bespoke, immersive experiences that blend sensuality, presence, and connection. She emphasizes the importance of slowing down to create authentic and emotionally deep encounters where clients feel truly seen and cherished.

Ruby discusses her journey into the companionship industry, her thoughts on modern relationships, and the societal need for genuine human connection. She also shares insights into maintaining a balance between personal and professional life, the nuances of intimate connection, and future aspirations.

This conversation highlights the value of authentic interaction in an increasingly fast-paced and disconnected world.

00:00 Introduction to Ruby Mae

01:03 Ruby Mae's Journey and Philosophy

02:11 The Importance of Slowing Down

06:33 Creating Immersive Experiences

12:42 Navigating Intimacy and Connection

31:37 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

38:07 Developing a Premium Brand

39:29 Marketing and Branding Strategies

40:57 Challenges and Adjustments

44:33 Photography and Personal Growth

46:28 Client Boundaries and Safety

51:30 Future Plans and Education

01:00:00 Self-Care and Personal Time

01:07:16 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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In this episode, Sam Morris, a seasoned coach in healthy relationships, sex, and habit change, shares insights from her decade-long career.

Host of the podcast 'Whatever Happened to Gentle Men', Sam discusses her journey from working in the court system and as a probation officer to becoming a relationship coach. She elaborates on the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and maintaining independence within relationships.

Sam also emphasizes tackling the loneliness epidemic through simple yet effective steps like engaging in community activities and seeking online support groups. Her ultimate goal is to introduce relationship education in schools to nurture better communication and emotional resilience in future generations.

00:00 Introduction to Sam Morris

00:58 Sam's Career Journey

02:11 Life-Changing Conversations

03:42 Realizations and Personal Growth

04:43 Helping Others Through Coaching

06:04 Challenges in Modern Relationships

20:15 The Importance of Self-Love

27:55 Addressing Loneliness

29:24 Practical Tips for Overcoming Loneliness

41:42 Building Confidence for Better Relationships

42:28 The Icebreaker Effect

43:09 Dating Apps: Pros and Cons

43:47 Meeting in Real Life vs. Online

47:50 Communication in Long-Term Relationships

58:24 Maintaining Independence in Relationships

01:06:05 Balancing Care Professions and Personal Wellbeing

01:10:31 Setting Boundaries and Handling Fixations

01:15:44 Future Goals: Teaching Relationship Skills in Schools

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In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, the host is joined by Eve Hall, a licensed physical therapist and certified health coach who specializes in sexual health and pelvic floor therapy.

Eve, also an advocate for Bipoc LGBTQ+ and Latina communities, is dedicated to de-stigmatizing conversations about sex, pleasure, and intimacy. The discussion delves into her journey into sexual health advocacy following a sexless marriage, her establishment of the Please Me podcast, and the importance of open communication about sexual desires.

Topics range from the orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships, positive body image, and ethical non-monogamy to healthy sexual practices and greater understanding derived from other communities.

Eve shares invaluable insights and personal experiences aimed at fostering healthier and more fulfilling intimate relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Eve Hall and Her Mission

00:52 Eve's Journey into Sexual Health Advocacy

02:30 Exploring Sexual Health and Communication

04:22 Eve's Personal Transformation and Dating Experiences

06:50 Embracing Big Clit Energy

09:09 Understanding the Orgasm Gap

18:04 The Importance of Sexual Health

30:51 Embracing Body Changes

31:33 The Importance of Self-Care

32:11 Connecting with Your Body

33:28 Exploring Sensuality and Confidence

36:23 Understanding Pornography

43:26 Communicating Desires in Relationships

51:06 Maintaining Mental and Physical Wellbeing

54:51 Future Goals and Aspirations

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In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, we speak with Jessi Magick, a somatic guide, ritualist, and embodiment facilitator. Jessi shares insights into her work that blends neuroscience, somatic psychology, and sacred living, spanning both Connecticut and Costa Rica.

She discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their body's intelligence through sensual embodiment, ritual, and trauma-informed presence. Jessi also delves into her personal journey, discussing her upbringing, transformative experiences, and the profound impact of being present in one’s body. Additionally, she offers perspective on the importance of rituals, reclaiming feminine power, and healing from trauma.

This episode is a rich exploration of intimacy, embodiment, and personal transformation.

00:00 Introduction to Jessi Magick: A Journey of Rewilding and Embodiment

01:29 Formative Years: Growing Up in a Martial Arts Family

03:10 Discovering Energy Work and Embracing Sensitivity

04:34 Becoming a Teacher and Embracing the Calling

07:53 The Importance of Body Awareness and Sensuality

09:12 Reconnecting with Nature and Overcoming Shame

16:04 The Power of Presence and Embodiment

24:16 Curiosity and the Human Experience

32:38 Magic, Witchcraft, and Personal Empowerment

38:21 Manifesting Connections and the Power of Nature

40:13 Healing Trauma and Reclaiming Safety

41:54 The Body's Natural Healing Processes

47:24 Grief, Gratitude, and Emotional Release

57:50 The Role of Rituals in Healing

01:03:15 Retreats and Personal Growth

01:08:09 Living Authentically and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, tantric and holistic sex coach Emma Galland shares insights into her journey and her holistic approach to sexuality and wellbeing through her platform, Tantric Awakenings.

Emma discusses the profound impact of embracing sexual energy, connecting with one's body, and creating a safe space for vulnerability and communication. She emphasizes the importance of a holistic lifestyle, including proper nutrition, in achieving sexual vitality and personal empowerment.

Reflecting on her experiences, Emma highlights the transformative power of tantric sex and the liberation it brings to individuals and their relationships. Tune in to discover how integrating tantric practices can lead to profound personal and relational growth.

00:00 Introduction to Emma Galland and Her Work

00:52 Emma's Upbringing and Early Experiences

04:27 Discovering Tantra and Its Impact

05:41 Marriage, Sexuality, and Personal Growth

07:33 The Power of Sexual Energy and Tantra

09:41 Understanding the Body's Signals

15:21 Exploring Sexuality and Overcoming Conditioning

19:05 Inherited Trauma and Somatic Healing

21:46 Defining Tantra and Tantric Sex

25:36 Transformative Power of Tantric Practices

26:34 The Role of Intention in Tantric Sex

30:50 The Benefits of Tantric Sex

41:14 Personal Stories and Experiences

51:02 Struggles with Presence in Intimacy

51:47 Premature Ejaculation and Disconnection

53:12 Tantric Techniques for Ejaculation Control

55:12 Understanding Male and Female Orgasms

01:00:00 The Importance of Self-Exploration for Women

01:16:36 Creating Emotional Safety in Relationships

01:28:19 The Role of Porn and Communication in Relationships

01:40:20 Embracing Radical Honesty and Personal Growth

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In this episode, Anna shares her inspiring journey from leading a successful security company to becoming a coach specializing in relationship-building and personal development.

She elaborates on her struggles with addiction, the importance of addressing childhood voids, and developing essential life habits. Anna also provides insightful perspectives on balancing personal and professional success, the significance of nurturing various types of relationships, and the power of self-reflection.

This episode offers valuable lessons on achieving emotional freedom, maintaining health, and fostering meaningful human connections.

00:00 Introduction to Anna's Journey

00:46 Childhood Influences and Values

04:15 Building and Selling a Security Company

06:48 Transition to Coaching and Personal Development

07:37 The Importance of Relationships

12:30 Understanding and Overcoming Loneliness

13:58 Addiction and Personal Growth

15:39 The Concept of Habit Freedom

23:55 Defining and Achieving Goals

31:09 Setting Achievable Goals

32:20 Mastering the Relationship with Discomfort

34:35 Finding Joy Beyond Addictions

37:13 The Power of Living in the Now

38:13 Building a Strong Relationship with Yourself

39:35 Reflecting on Relationships with Others

42:45 Embracing Radical Responsibility

45:43 Belief Systems and Personal Growth

50:33 Balancing Success and Relationships

54:48 Future Aspirations for the Relating Academy

59:02 Personal Habits for Growth

01:03:21 Final Reflections and Gratitude

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In this episode, we sit down with Tami, a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist with over twenty years of experience. Tami shares her journey from knowing she wanted to be a counselor in her teenage years to founding her private practice in 2002.

With a focus on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, domestic violence, and relationship dynamics, she combines traditional therapy with yoga and has authored books to guide individuals through emotional challenges.

Tami also talks about societal views on therapy, the evolving perception of it in the U.S. and U.K., and the importance of early intervention in mental health issues. Listeners are offered insights into tackling domestic violence, healthy communication in relationships, and managing anxiety and depression.

Additionally, Tami discusses her upcoming interest in the Enneagram personality system and her continuous journey of learning and growth.

00:00 Introduction to Tami's Professional Background

01:27 Tami's Formative Years and Career Beginnings

03:00 Transition to Private Practice

04:00 Therapy Perceptions in the US vs. UK

06:38 Challenges in Therapy and Relationship Dynamics

17:34 Understanding and Addressing Domestic Violence

27:12 The Impact of Anxiety and Depression

31:04 Understanding Anxiety and Brain Function

32:32 Supporting Someone with Anxiety

33:20 Personal Experiences with Depression

34:55 The Importance of Human Connection

37:42 Navigating Relationships and Empty Nest Syndrome

39:42 Midlife Crises and Relationship Priorities

46:37 Balancing Work and Personal Life

50:14 The Enneagram and Personal Growth

53:27 The Joy of Lifelong Learning and Travel

58:20 Conclusion and Future Plans

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In this episode of Intimate Inquiry, the host welcomes Koby Falks, a gay Australian adult content creator, entrepreneur, and LGBTQ+ advocate known for his authenticity and bold storytelling.

Koby discusses his experiences growing up in rural Queensland and Tasmania, his journey of coming out, and his challenging first relationship. He shares insights into masculinity, sexuality, and thriving in the adult entertainment industry.

Koby emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, challenging toxic masculine stereotypes, and finding one’s true identity.

He also talks about his decision to start on OnlyFans, developing a unique brand image, and balancing personal and professional life. 00:00 Introduction to Koby Falks

01:00 Koby's Childhood and Upbringing

04:55 Coming Out and Early Adulthood

08:19 First Relationship and Challenges

11:16 Navy Experience and Identity Struggles

15:47 Finding Identity in the Queer Community

26:09 Starting OnlyFans and Building a Brand

35:13 The Appeal of OnlyFans and Interaction with Fans

36:21 Exploring Kinks and Fantasies

38:53 The Performance Aspect of Porn

43:13 The Evolution of Content Creation

44:27 The Importance of Authenticity and Niche Appeal

53:57 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

58:00 Maintaining Mental and Physical Well-being

01:01:02 Final Thoughts and Social Media Presence

In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis discusses her journey into the field of relational therapy and her creation of the strong model of relational therapy. She explores the complexities of modern relationships, including emotional safety, evolving gender roles, and the challenges of modern masculinity.

Kristal, who is also a certified trauma and sex therapy professional, shares insights from her book 'Strong, A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Growing up in a cross-cultural household in Japan gave her unique perspectives on relationships, which were further shaped by her experiences in the U.S. She emphasizes the importance of understanding self-awareness, communication, and safety in building healthy relationships.

Additionally, Kristal addresses the impact of societal and media pressures on modern masculinity and offers advice for both men and women to foster stronger, more resilient partnerships.

00:00 Introduction to Kristal DeSantis

01:11 Kristal's Cross-Cultural Upbringing

03:48 Navigating American Dating Culture

05:20 The Birth of a Therapist

07:37 Developing the Strong Model of Relational Therapy

12:41 Challenges of Modern Masculinity

19:12 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships

22:51 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

23:32 Establishing Safety in Relationships

25:33 The Science of Safety in Relationships

27:28 Building Trust in Couples Therapy

28:12 Respect and Power Dynamics

29:54 The STRONG Model for Relationship Survival

30:42 Openness, Nurturing, and Generosity

32:45 Navigating Empty Nest Syndrome

44:07 The Importance of Fun and Intimacy

45:11 Personal Growth and Future Plans

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In this episode, intimacy and sex coach Allie Andrews delves into her journey from childhood curiosity about sex to becoming a certified sex and intimacy coach. Allie discusses her struggles with people-pleasing and using sex for validation, and how her background in dance, yoga, and holistic health shaped her understanding of embodiment and pleasure.

She highlights the importance of self-pleasure, communication, and finding balance between productivity and pleasure. Allie also talks about her experiences working with clients, the significance of discussing sexual desires openly, and the barriers to intimacy.

The discussion underscores the evolving nature of sexual desires and the transformative power of exploring one's sexuality in a safe and consensual environment.

00:00 Introduction to Allie's Journey

01:10 Formative Years and Family Influence

02:16 Health and Wellness Path

06:48 Transition to Sex and Intimacy Coaching

09:23 Challenges and Breakthroughs

11:40 The Importance of Open Conversations

23:08 Understanding and Embracing Desires

34:40 Barriers to Intimacy

38:12 Starting Point in Coaching

38:30 Discussing Boundaries and Preferences

39:12 Importance of Communication in Intimacy

42:07 Redefining Sex and Intimacy

47:08 Exploring Desires and Fantasies

53:12 Role Play and Erotic Art

59:05 Personal Growth and Future Plans

01:02:36 Maintaining Well-being as a Therapist

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In this episode, we dive deep with Inka Winter, a pioneering filmmaker renowned for her work in neurotic cinema and the portrayal of sexuality. In addition to being a feminist porn director, Inka is a sex and relationship counselor with a profound commitment to authenticity and inclusivity.

She discusses her journey from growing up in a cult to becoming an advocate for holistic porn, emphasizing the importance of ethical production and nuanced storytelling. Inca also shares her views on the current state of the porn industry, the challenges of societal sex negativity, and the role of communication in healthy relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Inka Winter: A Visionary Filmmaker

01:21 Inka's Personal Journey and Influences

05:15 Defining Holistic and Ethical Porn

09:45 The Role of Education in Pornography

11:10 Inka's Approach to Counseling

12:58 Challenges and Self-Care in Counseling

17:42 Society's Sex Negativity and Education

21:04 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

25:38 Inka's Creative Process in Filmmaking

32:08 Insights into the Porn Industry

33:44 Algorithmic Challenges on Porn Platforms

34:39 Ethical Standards in Mainstream Porn

37:03 Fast Food vs. Gourmet Porn

40:56 The Role of Education in Understanding Porn

42:28 Age Verification and Data Privacy Concerns

51:37 The Complexity of Sexual Assault and Pornography

57:31 Diverse Representation in Porn

01:01:49 Future Projects and Personal Life

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In this episode, Dr. Karen Stewart, a renowned clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and educator, shares insights from her extensive career dedicated to sexual health and relationship wellbeing.

Dr. Stewart discusses her formative years in a traditional Catholic family and how witnessing relationship issues among her peers inspired her career path. She outlines her approach to therapy, emphasizing the importance of building rapport and understanding individual histories to address sexual dysfunction and relationship challenges.

Dr. Stewart also explores topics such as the impact of early exposure to pornography, the implications of loneliness and modern dating, and how to navigate relationship challenges including infidelity and trauma.

Finally, she shares her personal strategies for maintaining mental and physical wellbeing while managing a demanding career.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Karen Stewart

00:58 Early Life and Formative Years

02:49 Career Path and Shift to Psychology

05:16 Approach to Therapy and Client Interaction

08:49 Challenges in Couples Therapy

12:16 Dealing with Infidelity in Relationships

16:11 Navigating Life Milestones in Relationships

26:25 Impact of Pornography on Young Minds

30:50 Is Watching Porn Cheating?

31:32 The Rise of VR Porn

34:04 Masturbation vs. Relationship Intimacy

35:17 The Impact of Porn on Sexual Performance

38:15 The Business of Pornography

39:15 Parenting and Porn Education

42:10 The Effects of Loneliness and Social Isolation

45:21 Dealing with Rejection and Resilience

50:47 Addressing Sexual Trauma in Therapy

59:43 The Importance of Therapy and Self-Care

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In this heartfelt podcast episode, Ana Murby from Connecticut opens up about her complex and inspiring life journey.

As a mother of five, Ana reflects on her upbringing in a Christian household and shares the challenges she faced due to her introverted nature and reluctance to question her faith. Her story takes a dramatic turn as she recounts her experiences with two failed marriages, emotional and physical hardships, and a period of rebellion away from her faith.

Ana describes how she rediscovered Christ and rebuilt her life, focusing on a Christ-centered approach to her third marriage and raising her children. She also shares her views on the church, societal norms, and the importance of transparency and communication, both in personal relationships and with God.

Ana's powerful narrative serves as a testimony to the transformative power of faith and the importance of resilience and self-reflection.

00:00 Introduction to Ana Murby

00:32 Formative Years and Early Beliefs

00:59 Questioning Faith and Personal Struggles

04:31 Rebellion and Return to Faith

11:40 Self-Worth and Body Image

20:19 Building a Christ-Centered Marriage

34:13 Navigating Youth Temptations

35:14 Creating Open Communication with Kids

36:24 Addressing Sensitive Topics

40:16 The Role of the Church in Discussing Sex

47:10 Personal Faith Journeys

54:17 Writing and Creative Pursuits

01:01:50 Advice for Those Seeking Faith

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In this episode, pioneering sexologist Dr. Carol Queen discusses her trailblazing contributions to the field of sexual health and pleasure.

With decades of experience in research, public speaking, and sex-positive activism, Dr. Queen shares her insights on how society views and discusses sexuality. She delves into her formative years, the importance of better sex education, and the necessity of exploring one's sexual identity without judgment.

Dr. Queen also emphasizes the significance of communication in intimate relationships and the holistic approach needed for sexual wellness, especially during life changes such as menopause. Her inspiring narrative encourages individuals to redefine intimacy and pleasure in modern culture.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Carol Queen

01:18 Formative Years and Early Influences

06:40 Sex Education and Personal Experiences

16:35 The Importance of Masturbation and Self-Exploration

26:24 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

41:30 Understanding the Orgasm Gap

41:48 Sex Education and Misconceptions

43:20 Hormones and Sexual Pleasure

45:04 Menopause and Sexual Health

56:34 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

01:04:34 Historical Perspectives on Sexuality

01:08:46 Self-Care and Mental Wellbeing

01:15:49 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode, Christina Braver, an author known for her Steamy Small Town contemporary romance novels set in the Pacific Northwest, delves into her journey from a clinical psychologist and healthcare technology worker to a romance novelist.

Christina emphasizes the importance of depth and authenticity in her writing, highlighting her passion for representing passionate heroes with strong and soft sides, and heroines navigating societal challenges. She discusses the significance of real and open sexual relationships in her books, the importance of communication in relationships, combating toxic masculinity, and promoting sex positivity.

Christina also touches upon how romance novels can enhance real-life relationships, offering advice on how to talk about sex, fantasies, and pleasure. She concludes by sharing her process of balancing professional writing with family life and the motivation behind her work.

00:00 Introduction to Christina Braver

01:18 Christina's Journey to Writing

03:15 Writing Explicit Romance

05:49 Character Development in Romance Novels

08:43 Sex Positivity and Realistic Portrayals

12:02 Communicating About Sex and Pleasure

31:46 Exploring Fantasies and Safe Spaces

39:25 The Realities of Sexual Expectations

39:50 Navigating Sexual Boundaries and Communication

42:39 Insights from the BDSM Community

43:32 The Importance of Consent and Communication

47:48 Diverse Representation in Romance Novels

51:11 The Rise of Fantasy and Science Fiction in Romance

53:17 Personal Reflections and Autobiographical Elements

57:06 Vacation Romance and Its Unique Dynamics

01:06:39 Supporting Men in Modern Relationships

01:08:46 Balancing Writing and Personal Wellbeing

01:11:31 Upcoming Book Release and Final Thoughts

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In this insightful episode, visionary coach, speaker, and trauma-informed healer Astra Soulfeather discusses their holistic approach to sexuality, intimacy, and personal empowerment through their platform, Higher Love.

Astra shares personal stories of trauma and spiritual awakening, emphasizing the significance of mindfulness, intention, and authentic self-expression in transformative journeys. Topics include the impact of trauma, the importance of understanding and embracing one's own sexuality, the challenge and benefits of non-monogamous relationships, the role of pornography, and the necessity of constant communication and presence in relationships.

The episode concludes with Astra highlighting the importance of recognizing one’s value and the power of purposeful service in personal and professional healing work.

00:00 Introduction to Astra Soulfeather

01:00 Formative Experiences and Trauma

02:55 Spiritual Awakening and Transformation

07:41 The Practice of Spirituality

12:42 Higher Love and Relationship Dynamics

17:44 Intergenerational Trauma and Healing

25:24 The Role of Guides and Healers

33:21 The Liberation Pledge and Personal Transformation

46:20 Authentic Intimacy and Sexuality

54:59 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Sex

55:53 The Importance of Desire and Receiving

56:31 Sexuality as a Reflection of Self

59:01 Redefining Pleasure and Intimacy

01:07:43 The Role of Pornography in Sexual Education

01:18:02 Navigating Sexual Desires and Fantasies

01:26:14 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy

01:33:53 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

01:40:31 Balancing Personal Wellbeing and Helping Others

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In this episode, Ms. Mackenzee, a noted advocate for sex positivity and adult artistry, shares her journey into the world of BDSM and sexuality.

Raised in a secluded Catholic environment, she found herself drawn to alternative forms of sexuality and kink in her late teens. Miss. Mackenzee transitioned from a potential career as a music teacher to being a celebrated content creator and activist, emphasizing the importance of consent, body autonomy, and inclusivity.

She discusses her approach to negotiation in intimate relationships, her educational platform 'BDSM and Intimacy University,' and the crucial role of ongoing communication and trust in fulfilling sex lives. The conversation also touches on societal perceptions of sex education, the misconception of mainstream porn, and the importance of continual learning and self-care.

Throughout, Miss. Mackenzee's passion for helping others explore their sexual identities without shame is central to her work and personal fulfillment.

00:00 Introduction to Miss. Mackenzee

01:17 Formative Years and Early Influences

03:36 Discovering the Adult Industry

05:50 Embracing Dominance and Sexual Identity

11:31 Challenges and Realities of Porn

16:12 Balancing Content Creation and Advocacy

20:05 Negotiation and Communication in Intimacy

26:18 BDSM and Intimacy University

31:23 The Beauty of Power Exchange Relationships

32:03 Exploring Play and Power Dynamics

34:06 Navigating Play Frenzy and Safety

35:26 The Importance of Communication and Consent

37:23 Balancing Interests in Relationships

38:17 The Role of Education in Sexual Exploration

39:50 Personal Growth and Continuous Learning

49:53 Maintaining Mental and Physical Wellbeing

54:11 Finding Joy in Personal and Professional Life

In this episode, Dr. Silber, a pioneering expert in performance and behavior transformation, shares her journey of becoming a post-betrayal transformation specialist after personal experiences of betrayal.

She explains the five stages of healing from betrayal, the impact of unhealed trauma on physical and mental health, and how individuals can move beyond their hurt to rebuild themselves.

Dr. Silber also delves into her work with both betrayed and betrayer clients, highlighting the transformative potential for both parties. Additionally, she discusses the importance of addressing the root beliefs that drive behaviors and how performance improvement in organizations can be tied to overcoming betrayal.

Dr. Silber's story of turning her trauma into a mission to help others is both inspiring and informative, providing valuable insights for anyone dealing with the aftermath of betrayal.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Silber and Her Journey

01:18 Personal Betrayal and the Path to Healing

02:37 Discoveries in Betrayal and Healing

06:50 Stages of Healing from Betrayal

12:39 Moving Beyond Stage Three

18:02 Rebuilding and Transformation

23:32 Rebuilding After Destruction

24:18 Rethinking Relationships and Betrayal

25:01 The Decision to Help Others

26:21 The Impact of Betrayal on Health

29:08 Transforming Habits and Beliefs

31:06 Betrayal in the Workplace

36:04 Supporting Betrayers and the Betrayed

41:31 Personal Reflections and Future Plans

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In this insightful interview, Dr. Kennedy, a board-certified sex therapist with a PhD in clinical sexology, discusses her commitment to dismantling taboos around sexual health and pleasure.

She shares her journey and the values that drive her work, touching on the common theme of people feeling 'not enough' due to societal pressures and comparison culture.

Dr. Kennedy also introduces her 'Pleasure Project' and 'Pleasure Circle,' aimed at helping women explore their sexuality and improve their intimate lives. The conversation covers the impact of social media, the importance of intimacy in long-term relationships, and the challenges of navigating sexual identity and desires.

Dr. Kennedy emphasizes the need for open communication, self-exploration, and the importance of balancing professional and personal life for mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Kennedy

00:51 Formative Years and Career Journey

02:38 The Core Theme of Self-Worth

03:37 Impact of Social Media and Culture

05:40 Addressing Feelings of Inadequacy

09:39 The Pleasure Circle Program

14:11 Sexuality and Intimacy in Relationships

20:57 Navigating Empty Nesting

29:51 Addressing Personal Deterrents and Stimulators

30:27 Sexual Preferences and Communication

35:59 The Impact of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

42:08 Navigating Sexual Identity and Pleasure

51:21 Balancing Professional and Personal Wellbeing

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In this episode of The Intimacy Inquiry podcast, Pepper Kat, a dynamic sexuality advocate and storyteller, shares her journey from journalism to the adult entertainment industry.

With a warm and inclusive approach, Pepper discusses overcoming societal taboos, the empowering aspects of platforms like OnlyFans, and the importance of sex work in human understanding and empathy.

She also dives into her innovative projects like the Dream Girl Chronicles and the Create Your Dream Girl experience. Through candid conversations, Pepper inspires listeners to embrace their uniqueness and foster a deeper understanding of their sexuality.

00:00 Introduction to Pepper Kat

00:43 Pepper Kat's Journey: From Journalism to Adult Entertainment

02:15 Breaking Taboos: Discussing Sexuality and Stigma

04:07 Transitioning Careers: Embracing Adult Content Creation

05:56 Empowerment and Control in the Adult Industry

07:57 The Evolution of Porn and Its Impact

16:04 Creating Authentic Content: The Role of Indie Porn

17:49 The Spicy Spectrum Podcast: Exploring Human Desires

22:26 Creating a Safe Space for Fantasies

23:04 The Concept of Dream Girl Chronicles

23:55 Innovative Storytelling in Adult Content

25:33 Audience Engagement and Feedback

27:45 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

28:08 Understanding and Empathy in Interactions

31:42 Addressing Loneliness and Social Challenges

34:12 Exploring Sexuality and Authenticity

36:33 Future Aspirations and Personal Wellbeing

40:15 Travel Dreams and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, we sit down with Alexa Creed, a dynamic adult performer and content creator renowned for her raw authenticity and innovative storytelling.

Alexa discusses her journey from a double-degree holder in computer science and cryptography to a celebrated figure in the adult industry. She shares personal anecdotes from her happy childhood, supported by open-minded parents, which laid the foundation for her explorative and non-judgmental approach towards sexuality.

Alexa also delves into her deep commitment to inclusivity, body positivity, and fostering genuine connections through her work. She talks about the challenges and rewards of maintaining a balance between her professional persona and personal life, her thoughts on societal stigmas around sex, and her role in encouraging open dialogues about desire and vulnerability.

The conversation also touches upon broader societal issues such as empathy, parenting, and the importance of mental well-being, making it a profound exploration of what it means to experience and express desire authentically.

00:00 Introduction to Alexa Creed

01:04 Early Life and Formative Years

02:18 Journey into the Adult Industry

04:24 Professionalism in the Adult Industry

06:09 Business Approach and Creativity

10:25 Empowering Vulnerability in Men

16:19 Stigma and Society's View on Sexuality

24:44 The Role of Education and Communication

30:21 Men's Responsibility in Addressing Abuse

31:10 The Influence of the Tate Brothers

32:20 The Role of Empathy in Society

33:55 The Concept of a Unified World

34:38 Challenges of Entering Politics

38:07 Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance

41:25 Balancing Onscreen Persona and Personal Identity

45:41 Staying Innovative in the Adult Industry

50:11 Living in the Present

52:09 Finding Joy in Simple Things

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In this episode, we welcome Brandon Simpson, a certified sex addiction therapist specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues, sexual behavior, and mental health.

Brandon, who holds a Master's in Clinical Psychology and works at the Novus Mindful Life Institute in California, shares his journey from New York to Los Angeles and his career transition from aspiring high school biology teacher to therapist. He discusses the importance of non-judgmental, sex-positive therapy, addressing societal expectations, sexual identity, and compulsive behaviors.

Brandon provides insights into the complexities of trauma, addictions, and the societal shame around sex and kinks. He emphasizes empathy, understanding, and the need for a balanced approach to mental health. The conversation also delves into personal coping mechanisms, the role of nature in his wellbeing, and the importance of curiosity in fostering societal empathy.

00:00 Introduction to Brandon Simpson

01:19 Brandon's Early Life and Move to California

02:45 Life in Los Angeles

04:44 Career Path and Shift to Therapy

07:12 Challenges and Rewards of Therapy

09:29 Impact of Political Climate on Therapy

12:01 Understanding Client Needs and Issues

13:56 Early Exposure to Porn and Its Effects

19:25 Societal Expectations and LGBTQ+ Issues

21:32 Dating Apps and Modern Relationships

26:31 Addressing Sex and Porn Addiction

29:27 The Impact of Media on Stress Relief

30:02 Initial Steps Towards Sobriety

31:04 Challenges of Developing a Healthy Relationship with Sex

32:24 Rewiring the Brain's Pleasure Pathways

35:52 Understanding and Accepting Sexual Desires

42:55 Addressing Trauma and Its Effects

49:33 Maintaining Mental Health as a Therapist

53:44 Finding Personal Joy and Happiness

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In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Danae Maragouthakis, a medical doctor with over 20 years of experience in public health and sexual wellness.

Dr. Maragouthakis shares her remarkable journey from the U.S. to co-founding Yoxly, a venture providing remote sexual health services aimed at improving accessibility, privacy, and convenience. This episode covers a wide range of topics including the importance of empathy in healthcare, overcoming barriers to sexual health services, and the role of social media in sexual education.

Dr. Maragouthakis also discusses the impact of pornography on sexual expectations, the rising rates of STIs, and the importance of being proactive about sexual health.

Tune in to learn how Yoxly is working to normalize and de-stigmatize conversations around sexual wellness while providing personalized care and education.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:52 Danae's Background and Journey to the UK

06:23 The Role of Empathy in Healthcare

10:39 Yoxly: Revolutionizing Sexual Health Services

12:09 The Importance of Regular Sexual Health Checkups

19:40 The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Health

24:16 Common Questions and Concerns on Sexual Health

26:21 The Importance of Expert Communication

27:00 Building a Supportive Community

27:16 The Reluctance to Discuss Sexual Health

29:36 The Disconnect Between Knowledge and Action

30:36 Challenges in Accessing Sexual Health Services

32:22 Rising STI Rates Across Generations

34:19 The Role of Social Media in Sexual Health Education

39:57 Maintaining Personal Well-being

43:53 Personalized Medicine and Sexual Wellness

49:31 Concluding Thoughts and Future Hopes

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In this episode, certified life coach Jolene Winn, who hosts the Porn Addict's Wife Podcast, discusses her journey as the wife of a former porn addict and her mission to help women navigate complex topics such as sex, sexuality, and the impact of pornography on relationships.

Jolene shares her personal experiences growing up with strong religious values, her husband's struggle with pornography, and how their relationship has evolved. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, open communication, and personal growth in overcoming porn addiction. Jolene also explores how parents can address pornography with their children and her new initiative, Porn-Free World, aimed at creating resources for couples and families.

The discussion highlights the need for compassion, self-awareness, and a shift from judgment to understanding in dealing with pornography's impact on society.

00:00 Introduction to Jolene Winn and Her Mission

01:28 Jolene's Early Life and Influences

05:39 Defining and Understanding Pornography

09:10 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships

10:49 Jolene's Personal Journey and Life Coaching

15:02 Challenges of Discussing Pornography Addiction

23:07 Intimacy vs. Sexuality

25:18 Addressing Pornography with the Younger Generation

27:31 Setting Boundaries and Open Communication

27:47 Talking to Kids About Pornography

28:39 Personal Experiences and Vulnerability

30:02 Addiction and Recovery

30:43 Moral Perspectives on Pornography

34:22 Impact on Relationships

36:04 Faith and Compassion

38:15 Judgment and Social Media

41:28 Creating a Safe Space for Discussion

43:17 Advice for Those Struggling

45:16 Sex Education and Parental Responsibility

47:02 Homeschooling and Family Life

48:24 Personal Joy and Wellbeing

50:21 Future Plans and Conclusion

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This episode features a conversation with Janet Held, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma therapy, blending her rich cultural heritage of Russian, Armenian, and American influences.

Janet discusses the impact of culture on mental health and trauma therapy, her therapeutic approach, and her expertise in techniques like EMDR and Brain Spotting. She also explores the experiences that led her to this field, the influence of social media and pornography on mental health, and the importance of fostering self-love and intimacy in therapeutic practices.

The discussion concludes with insights on overcoming addiction, especially regarding online content, and the significance of maintaining personal mental wellness as a therapist.

00:00 Introduction to Our Guest: Janet Bayramyan

01:30 Janet's Personal Journey into Trauma Therapy

07:19 Understanding EMDR and Brainspotting

16:50 The Impact of Pornography on Mental Health

31:48 Navigating Social Media and Technology's Influence

37:23 The Importance of Self-Love and Future Aspirations

42:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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The amazing Dr. Ashley Zimmerman shares her journey from self-loathing to self-love, focusing on her work as a pelvic health specialist, sexuality counselor, and doula.

She details her childhood experiences, the struggles with body image, and the impact of inadequate sexual education. As a healthcare provider, Dr. Ashley emphasizes the importance of self-exploration and proper body education to dismantle societal taboos.

The conversation also delves into the effects of social media, dating apps, and pornography on sexual health and relationships, and Dr. Ashley’s personalized approach to helping people feel empowered and free within their bodies.

The episode closes with a discussion on self-care practices and the importance of seeking professional support for mental and physical well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Ashley Zimmerman

01:00 Formative Years and Early Experiences

02:04 Challenges and Discoveries in Sexual Health

03:51 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery

17:02 The Role of a Doula

20:05 Navigating Life Transitions

27:30 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

49:52 Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance

52:57 Taking Responsibility for Self-Acceptance

53:21 Struggles with Body Image

56:01 The Role of Therapy and Self-Belief

56:20 The Power of Positive Self-Talk

58:00 Overcoming Deep-Rooted Beliefs

59:59 Addressing Sexual Taboos and Misconceptions

01:03:06 The Importance of Physical Movement

01:06:29 Generational Trauma and Healing

01:09:52 Navigating Social Judgment and Optimism

01:15:04 The Impact of Social Media and Dating Apps

01:25:48 The Influence of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex

01:33:52 Personal Growth and Future Goals

01:38:38 Maintaining Mental and Physical Wellbeing

01:42:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, we dive into the life and career of Tera Winters, an adult model and performer who once went by the name Kimber Veils.

Tera shares her journey from working in a Chinese restaurant and briefly wanting to be a gas station attendant, to becoming an adult entertainer. She discusses her start as a stripper at 18 , her initial nervousness transitioning into comfort with her nakedness, and an unexpected diagnosis of Graves' disease which temporarily halted her career.

Tera talks about her experience re-entering the adult industry as Tera Winters, dealing with work dynamics, the impact of OnlyFans, the physical toll of the job, and the general support within the industry.

She also touches on her personal interests, like drawing and her love for her dog, providing an intimate and respectful look into her life both in and out of the spotlight.

00:00 Introduction to Tera Winters' Journey

00:57 Early Career and Personal Challenges

01:42 Transition to the Adult Industry

03:36 Experiences in the Porn Industry

06:15 The Reality of Filming Adult Content

11:06 Navigating the Industry and Personal Life

21:50 Impact of Free Content and OnlyFans

27:15 Viewer Perceptions and Industry Insights

39:25 The Business of Content Creation

39:47 Coping with Personal Loss

40:53 Rebuilding and Career Choices

41:21 Exit Strategies and Industry Pressures

43:23 Body Image and Industry Expectations

48:23 Tattoo Stories and Artistic Aspirations

54:58 The Joy of Pets

58:29 Finding Joy in Work and Art

01:04:12 Being Authentic On and Off Camera

In this episode, we are joined by Jillian Amodio - a social worker, licensed mental health provider, certified sex therapist, educator, and founder of Moms for Health.

Jillian shares her personal journey from growing up in a conservative Catholic household to becoming an advocate for inclusive sex education and mental health. She discusses the importance of removing shame and providing accurate information about sex and relationships to children.

Jillian also delves into her work on her upcoming book, which aims to provide a holistic and inclusive guide to understanding one's body. Additionally, she touches on her passion for yoga, mindfulness, and finding joy in life's simple pleasures.

This episode provides insight into the critical need for open and informed discussions on sex, relationships, and mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Background

01:32 Jillian's Early Life and Challenges

04:40 The Role and Impact of Social Work

08:13 Self-Care for Mental Health Professionals

10:23 Moms for Mental Health: Origin and Mission

18:41 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex

29:24 Answering Children's Questions About Sex

29:54 Educating Kids About Safe Sex

31:58 Sex Education in Schools vs. Home

33:30 Personal Experiences with Sex Education

35:58 The Importance of Inclusive Sex Education

41:50 Writing a Comprehensive Guide on Sex Education

46:38 Incorporating Mindfulness and Yoga into Life

49:20 Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures

51:03 Learning to Love Yourself

52:44 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this episode, we are joined by Ceara Corry, known as Cee, the Sex Lady, a social worker and the founder of The Naked Truth in North Carolina.

Ceara shares her personal journey from surviving sexual trauma and navigating complex family dynamics to advocating for sexual health and wellness through education and therapy. She discusses the broader aspects of sexual wellness beyond just physical health, touching on mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

Ceara explains the importance of comprehensive sex education in schools, the impact of pornography on young minds, and the concept of creating a safe space for discussing sensitive topics.

The episode also highlights cultural influences on sexual relationships and the importance of community, continuous learning, and self-reflection in personal and professional life.

00:00 Introduction to Ceara Corry

01:22 Ceara's Personal Journey

05:59 Defining Sexual Wellness

15:47 Cultural Influences on Sexuality

20:24 Impact of Pornography on Relationships

25:09 Debating Sex and Porn Addiction

25:49 Understanding Underlying Needs

27:00 Shame and Its Impact

27:48 Terry Crews' Experience with Pornography

29:33 Creating a Safe Space for Clients

33:09 Balancing Self-Care as a Therapist

35:46 The Importance of Self-Love

38:14 Sex Education in Schools

43:40 The Role of Family and Friends

44:53 Finding Joy and Happiness

48:30 Future Aspirations and Reflections

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The video features Vic Lagina, a former prominent figure in the pornography industry, discussing his 20-year career with Brazzers.

Vic shares his unique journey from an outsider growing up in Philadelphia to becoming a major porn producer, his struggles with personal relationships and drug addiction, and his eventual exit from the industry.

He emphasizes the ethical complexities and emotional toll of the porn world while discussing the impact of pornography on society, the importance of age verification, and the potential implications of AI in the industry.

Now living a more peaceful life, Vic reflects on his past experiences and promotes his book 'Filthy,' promising raw and insightful revelations about the porn industry.

00:00 Introduction to Vic Lagina

01:55 Early Life and Education

03:23 Career Beginnings in Miami

05:43 Transition to Porn Industry

09:01 Building a Porn Empire in Vegas

10:54 Challenges and Relationships

12:54 Reflections on the Industry

23:12 Personal Struggles and Growth

34:18 Philosophical Musings and Future Outlook

47:34 The Decline of PornHub and Industry Challenges

48:24 Navigating the Changing Dynamics of the Porn Industry

49:30 Disconnect and Disillusionment in Studio Porn

51:16 The Final Straw and Exit from the Industry

53:28 Reflections on Leaving and Writing the Book

57:03 The Reality of the Porn Industry

01:04:25 The Impact of Porn on Society and Relationships

01:14:41 The Rise of OnlyFans and AI in Porn

01:22:33 Personal Well-being and Life After Porn

01:28:13 Concluding Thoughts and Future Outlook

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In this insightful episode, integrated sex coach and intimacy educator Nadine Hamilton joins from Bali to discuss her journey and work in sexual empowerment.

Born in New Jersey, Nadine grew up with curiosity about sexuality, despite societal shame. She transitioned from potential nonprofit work to becoming a coach after a life-altering period. Nadine describes her role in guiding others to reconnect with their bodies through somatic intimacy, emphasizing the importance of embodied experiences over mere talk therapy.

Touching on themes such as masturbation, societal pressures, and the influence of pornography on expectations, she shares methods for reprogramming one’s relationship with pleasure.

Nadine also discusses the vital role of consent, personal desires, and the impact of modern technology and social media on young people’s relationships. The episode concludes with reflections on playfulness, self-care practices, and Nadine's plans for a more rooted life.

This conversation is a compelling exploration of the paths to erotic liberation and the importance of authentic, embodied connections.

00:00 Introduction to Nadine Hamilton

01:12 Nadine's Early Life and Sexual Awakening

03:28 Career Shift and Personal Transformation

06:27 Understanding Somatic Coaching and Sexological Bodywork

14:11 The Impact of Societal Expectations on Sexuality

28:39 Challenges of Modern Youth and Technology

35:47 The Role of Pornography in Shaping Sexual Expectations

39:34 Understanding the Struggle with Porn

39:57 Embodiment Practice for Overcoming Porn Addiction

41:40 The Impact of Porn on Perceptions of Sex

44:08 The Importance of Consent and Self-Understanding

47:23 Navigating Nervousness and Authentic Expression

49:21 Discovering and Honoring Your Desires

53:15 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy: Finding Your Truth

57:08 Practicing Self-Care and Embodiment

01:01:43 The Power of Being Witnessed in Self-Pleasure

01:08:05 Embracing Playfulness and Curiosity in Life

01:09:44 Looking Ahead: Future Aspirations

01:10:35 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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