Soul Refiner Live

Dennis Prager's Shocking View on Animated Child Porn

Mon, 15 May 2023 14:19:11 GMT

Jeremy Wiles, the cofounder of KingdomWork Studios and Soul Refiner responds to Dennis Prager's shocking stance on pornography.

May 2023 Leader's Event-How to Manage Victim Mentality in your group

Fri, 05 May 2023 18:52:15 GMT

Leaders from all over the world come together to talk about how victim mentality can interfere with recovery for a member and for a group.

April 2023- Mission Brief Q&A for Men in recovery for sexual sin addiction

Fri, 14 Apr 2023 19:05:05 GMT

Men come together to unpack the answers to the tough questions that arise when they are in recovery from sexual sin and strongholds. How do I stop masturbating? Does my sin give my wife license to treat me horribly?

April 2023 Sanctuary for Women- Answer the tough questions following betrayal

Fri, 14 Apr 2023 18:59:36 GMT

Women join together to unpack the answers to difficult recovery questions following betrayal. Is masturbation infidelity? I still haven't received disclosure, what should I do? Am I wrong to ask him not to privately communicate with other women?

April 2023 Leader's Event

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 19:22:56 GMT

Group leaders will come together on Good Friday to talk about the cost of sin. Could we be taking sin too lightly or being too intolerant or our group members' sins?

March 2023 Sanctuary Event- Women discuss the tough questions following infidelity

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 19:05:11 GMT

Women come together to discuss the tough questions they face following betrayal from sexual sin. What does recovery look like for her? Is there any place for masturbation in marriage? Will she always live in constant fear that he will act out again? Join Karissa and Kristina unpack the answers to these questions and more.

March 2023 Mission Brief FAQ Recovery questions

Fri, 10 Mar 2023 20:21:56 GMT

Is masturbation ok if I"m thinking of my wife? My wife is so angry....how do we move forward? Join us as we unpack the difficult questions men face in recovery from sexual sin and strongholds.

Feb 2023 Co-ed Event- Rebuilding Intimacy Following Betrayal

Thu, 09 Mar 2023 16:29:41 GMT

How can a couple experience any kind of intimacy following betrayal? It is possible and here is how....

Feb 2023 Leaders- What about Polygraphs following betrayal?

Fri, 03 Feb 2023 19:53:17 GMT

Leaders come together to talk about the tough questions their group members have about polygraphs and much more.

Jan 2023 Mission Brief- Is Intimacy with my Wife Possible After I Was Unfaithful?

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 20:10:57 GMT

Lamar and Kristina talk through how intimacy is indeed possible to share again following betrayal, and here's how....

Jan 2023 Sanctuary- How Can I Be Intimate Again with My Husband After His Betrayal?

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 20:10:54 GMT

Lamar and Kristina talk to the wives about how they can feel the "usness" again following betrayal. Intimacy is possible and here's how...

Jan 2023 Leader's Event- Making a Lasting Difference

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 20:10:14 GMT

Leaders come together to discuss how they can be true disciples and create a ripple affect in this broken world. Leading groups is a fantastic way to pay it forward to others in need of healing.

Holiday Intimacy Following Betrayal

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 20:10:12 GMT

In today's special holiday co-ed virtual event, couples come together to discuss how to rebuild intimacy following betrayal. How can we "love one another" as Christ commanded when there has been so much pain?

Nov 2022 Mission Brief- Salvaging the Holidays Following Infidelity

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 20:24:59 GMT

In this webinar, Lamar and Kristina discuss ways men can avoid relapse over the holidays AND how to help their wives. They walk through biblical guidelines men can take that will not only help their recovery, but their wives' recovery, too!

Nov Sanctuary Event- I Need a Miracle this Holiday

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 20:18:53 GMT

Have you been hurt and in desperate need of a miracle this holiday? In this webinar, Lamar and Kristina talk about chasing after your next miracle. They will talk about biblical guidelines and practical principles that can help save your holidays.

Nov 2022 Leadership Meeting- Preparing for the Holidays

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:46:04 GMT

Leaders come together to discuss important strategies to help their group members prepare for the holidays to avoid triggers, relapse or additional pain and trauma.

Mission Brief Oct 2022- Forgiveness Part 2

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:41:28 GMT

Men come together to discuss how to seek forgiveness from their wives, how to forgive those in the past who hurt them, and how to forgive themselves for their sexual sin.

The Sanctuary Oct 2022 Forgiveness part 2

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:41:26 GMT

Women come together to discuss tangible steps that can be taken to work on their journey towards forgiveness following betrayal. They dive deep into Scripture and find a key element every woman is looking for from the one who betrays them. Women, this is a webinar you should definitely watch with your husband if you choose to stay.

October 2022 Leadership Meeting

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 19:22:16 GMT

Men and women leaders come together to discuss how to prevent codependency from sabotaging a group.

Sept 2022 Leadership Meeting-Preventing Burnout

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 13:24:02 GMT

Leaders in recovery have a high chance of experiencing burnout and compassion fatigue. Leaders come together to discuss the signs and symptoms as well as strategies to prevent burn out with leading groups.

September Mission Brief- Asking Forgiveness

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 19:55:03 GMT

How do you ask your wife for forgiveness following betrayal? What if she doesn't accept your forgiveness or holds onto resentment?

September Sanctuary 2022- Forgiveness Following Betrayal

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 19:29:18 GMT

September's Sanctuary: Forgiveness. Tune in and dive deeper into what forgiveness looks like following betrayal. This is a message you will never forget!

August 2022 Sanctuary gathering for women- Parenting following betrayal; part 2

Tue, 23 Aug 2022 16:30:29 GMT

Women are not the only ones impacted by a man's infidelity. The children are also affected. What can moms do to help their children navigate post-betrayal problems?

August 2022 Mission Brief- Men discuss how to help their children following infidelity

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 15:11:15 GMT

Children feel betrayed, too, when their dad is unfaithful to their mom. What can dads do to help lessen the impact of their betrayal on their children? Men come together to discuss how to prevent legacy damage and pain.

August 2022 Leadership Meeting- Putting out Fires

Tue, 09 Aug 2022 14:47:39 GMT

What do you do if someone emotionally hijacks your meetings? What if conflict breaks out? What if someone shows up late or doesn't do the work or participate? We will address what leaders can do to preemptively prevent these problems and more.

July 2022 Co-ed Webinar: The Fallout of Betrayal on Legacy-part 1

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 19:54:08 GMT

Parents come together to talk through the tough questions moms and dads face following betrayal. How much should you share? Can you share too much? Should I wait until they are 18 to divorce? This and many more...

July Leadership Webinar-Don't Miss Out On This Essential Recovery Step

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 19:49:10 GMT

During this leadership webinar, Lamar and Kristina Douberly, Soul Refiner's Discipleship Duo, talk to men and women about the step most couples miss in their recovery journey.

June 2022 Sanctuary Event- Women Ask a Panel of Men Questions Their Husbands Can't Answer

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 18:08:02 GMT

Kristina and Lamar interview Troy Smith and Scott Radetski and ask them questions women wrote in that their husbands can't answer. "How do I know he isn't undressing every woman with his eyes?" "How do I know he won't run off with the first woman who gives him attention?" "How do I know he isn't thinking of her when we are having sex?" These questions and more answered here.

June 2022 Leadership Meeting- Contagious Leadership with Guest Speaker Cliff Wolkens

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 16:00:55 GMT

Kristina and Lamar meet with Cliff Wolkens to discuss how leaders can create the ripple effect and make other leaders from the beginning.

May 2022 Mission Brief-From Villain to Hero- How an Unfaithful Husband Can Step Up and Help HIs Wife Heal

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 15:48:46 GMT

Tracie Hylton joins Kristina and Lamar as they teach men how to help their wives following betrayal. Women who have been betrayed experience betrayal trauma which leads to triggers. Men can make the triggers worse if they do not know what they are and how to help their wives.

May 2022 Leadership Meeting- Can Broken People Lead?

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 15:41:00 GMT

Kristina and Lamar, Discipleship Duo, discuss with other Soul Refiner leaders what it looks like to raise up other leaders. God does not need perfect people!

The Sanctuary-TRIGGERS PART 2- with special guests Susan Pitman and Tiffani Mello

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 13:51:43 GMT

Susan and Tiffani join Kristina in discussing tangible steps women can take to manage triggers that inevitably occur following betrayal

From Porn Star to Pastor - Joshua Broome

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 17:14:57 GMT

On today's podcast Joshua Broome shares his story of how he went from the pit to the pulpit.

TRIGGERS with Special Guest Susan Pitman

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 12:54:49 GMT

This episode begins a series on betrayal trauma triggers and how to handle them. Our special guest on The Sanctuary is Susan Pitman with UnboundedLife,org. Susan shares her testimony and tools for overcoming triggers.

Sex addict for 50+ years, now leading men to freedom through Conquer Series.

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 16:15:16 GMT

Joe Medlock, group leader, mentor, and Certified Biblical Counselor has walked beside over 100 men through Conquer Series and Warpath.

Leadership Webinar with Lamar & Kristina Douberly

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 16:11:07 GMT

Lamar and Kristina Douberly teach skills needed to become the most effective leaders trained to be a part of God's rescue team through Soul Refiner. The Leadership Webinar is a monthly meeting open to all leaders providing an opportunity to ask questions regarding leading groups through Conquer Series, Warpath, Stronger Together, etc.

Mission Brief: Relapse prevention with Ben Renner

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 21:22:39 GMT

Lamar Douberly, Scott Redetski, and Ben Renner talk about little r and big R relapse and the steps necessary to prevent it.

The Sanctuary: Walking through the fire of trauma with Actress, Jeanne Neilson

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 21:15:42 GMT

Do you feel like you're sinking in a pit of depression and despair? You need today's message on The Sanctuary!

We're talking trauma with special guest, Jeanne Neilson. Talented Actress and activist for women rescued from sex trafficking, this South African native is a firecracker for the Kingdom.

Jeanne was cast as lead actress in our film, From The Ashes. She's walked through the fire of trauma and depression and is now a voice of hope for women.

Hear her incredible story and how God linked our paths to work together on this powerful new series on betrayal for women.

Ready to start your journey to healing? Find more info at SoulRefiner.com

A transformed life - from porn addiction to total freedom.

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 20:13:48 GMT

Listen to Scott Radetski talk about how he beat a life-long sex addiction and his healing from abuse and trauma.

Sexually assaulted while serving her country and abused by her ex-husband

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 20:10:11 GMT

The Sanctuary, with Tiana, Kristina and Karissa talk with Michelle Poirtier and learn how she was healed from sexual abuse, domestic abuse, betrayal, PTSD, and a mental illness diagnosis. Now, Michelle is helping other women overcome and transform their lives.

Man stuttered for 45 years and was healed instantly. This is how!

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 20:04:11 GMT

Daniel's testimony will encourage and challenge you. His story details decades of trauma, tragedy, sexual abuse, gangs, sexual addiction, and pain. You need to hear how God healed him from all of it, including recently experiencing complete healing from a profound speech impediment of 45 years.

If their marriage survived this, so can yours!

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 20:00:44 GMT

The Lamar and Kristina Douberly story.

The Sexless Marriage with Dr. Doug Weiss

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 17:50:41 GMT

Struggling in a sexless marriage? Listen to today's webinar with Dr. Doug Weiss as he addresses "intimacy anorexia" (IA) and its devastating effects. Whether you struggle or have been set free from sexual addiction, have a wounded past, etc.....IA could be at the root of why you're still struggling in your marriage.