Comedian Heather Chelan gives advice and talks about choosing honesty over ghosting, learning not everyone comes from penetrative sex, and how she’s finally having shame free sex. 

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We’ll be back in the new year! Be sure to follow the show to be notified when new episodes drop. Got questions about solo sex, finding your sexual self, relationships, or friendship woes? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org. Be sure to include some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

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Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to sexlife@kcrw.org with some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to sexlife@kcrw.org and your question may be answered on the show. 

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Jordan Gonsalves hosts But We Loved, a podcast that dives into queer history through conversations with LGBTQ+ elders. Jordan joins Myisha to talk about crushes on friends and toxic relationships. Plus, Jordan shares his dating horror story.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Author Brontez Purnell writes about sex and queerness. His book ‘100 Boyfriends’ was awarded the 2022 Lambda Literary Award in Gay Fiction. Brontez joins Myisha to talk kinky sex in midlife and if it’s ever okay to fake an orgasm. Plus, Brontez shares what he doesn’t tolerate in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Dylan McKeever uses humor to talk about trans identity and queerness in her work. She joins Myisha to talk situationships and why non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. Plus, Dylan shares the best lesson she’s learned in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

This week, the one and only Bob the Drag Queen answers your questions with Myisha for our season finale! The two talk about the importance of exploring your attraction and how to ask for the perfect kiss. Plus, Bob shares how a Grindr hook up turned into an instant connection. 

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Pre-order Bob’s new book, Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert 

Stay in touch with Myisha! Read her Real Love column for TIME, explore her Better Sex E-Zine, or follow her on Instagram @myishabattle

For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Luke Franchina is the internet’s favorite bestie. This week, he joins Myisha to talk about knowing when to leave a relationship and healing from a breakup. Plus, Luke shares what he learned about himself through his divorce.

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller 

The Relationship Cure by John M. Gottman and Joan DeClaire 

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For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Brandon Kyle Goodman returns to the show to help us get through this messy election week and to talk about their new podcast, Tell Me Something Messy. Myisha and Brandon get into why research is your friend in non-monogamy and how sexual liberation isn’t linear. Plus, Brandon shares what non-monogamy has taught them about love. 

Tell Me Something Messy is part of iHeartMedia’s Outspoken Podcast Network. New episodes air weekly on Thursdays.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Dr. Carol Queen is an author, sex-positive activist, and the staff sexologist at Good Vibes. This week she joins Myisha to take on your questions about dirty talk, anilingus, and exploring dating and sexuality in your 60s. Plus, hear which of your dating horror stories left us truly mortified. 👻

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

Naked at Our Age by Joan Price

Exhibitionism for the Shy by Carol Queen

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Find Dr. Carol Queen at Good Vibes 

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For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Dylan Tupper Rupert explores the world of the Sunset Strip's most legendary rock n’ roll groupies in the newest season of KCRW’s Lost Notes. She joins Myisha to talk sex playlists and why she says f*** the dating scene. Plus, Dylan shares the dating mishap that still haunts her. 

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Check out KCRW’s Lost Notes: Groupies on your favorite podcast app!

📩 Need advice about sex or dating? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode and we'll keep you anonymous.  

For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

adrienne maree brown is an author and activist. Their latest book Loving Corrections is about the importance of holding people and systems accountable to create honest relationships. adrienne joins Myisha to talk about why men shouldn’t solely rely on other men for dating advice and yearning for connection.  

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P.S. This spooky season we want to hear all about your worst dates! Drop us an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might feature your story on the show, you get to vent, and we'll keep you anonymous. It's a win win!

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Tuck Woodstock explores the vast diversity of trans experiences on his podcast Gender Reveal. He joins Myisha to talk about navigating a conversation around sex when your partner is asexual. Plus, Tuck shares all the times his crushes have fizzled out. 

P.S. What's the worst date you've ever been on? This spooky season we want to hear all about your bad dates. Share your story with us by dropping an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org and we might feature it on the show. You'll get to vent and we'll keep you anonymous. It's a win win!  

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For a full transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife 

Matteo Lane and Nick Smith are comedians, frenemies, and hosts of the I Never Liked You Podcast. They join Myisha to talk about redefining monogamy and revisiting an old hookup. Plus, Matteo and Nick share their funniest sex mishaps. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Check out I Never Liked You on your favorite podcast app! 

For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife 

Tomás Mier, Rolling Stone journalist and pop culture content creator, talks Only Fans and queer dating with Myisha. Plus, he shares his own dating standards including when to bring a partner to family dinner. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Amber Whittington, aka AmbersCloset, is a content creator and LGBTQ+ activist. This week, she joins Myisha to talk about being true to yourself as a baby gay. Plus, Amber shares how an ex helped her through her grief.   

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Tracy Clark-Flory explores desire in her book Want Me and weekly newsletter. This week, she joins Myisha in tackling personal versus external desires. Plus, Tracy gives advice to her younger self. 

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This week we’re answering your friendship dilemmas with Ann Friedman, co-author of Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close. Plus, Ann shares ways to support your friends who are in lousy relationships. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Visit the podcast feed for part one of our conversation with Virgie about dating cis men, fatphobia, and unrequited crushes. 

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Virgie Tovar (author, activist, and weight-based discrimination expert) gives advice in the first of this two part episode! We talk about the pain of unrequited crushes and setting boundaries as a plus-size dater.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife 

KCRW DJ Rocio ‘Wyldeflower’ Contreras dishes advice. We talk about when to walk away from being friends with benefits, the importance of setting aside one-on-one time with your spouse, and one listener’s pegging guilt. Plus, Ro shares why she appreciated her single era. 

P.S. We’re taping a special friendship episode of the podcast. What advice do you need about the friendships in your life? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org with friendship in the subject line. We'll keep you anonymous. 

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife 

Cindy Gallop, founder of Make Love Not Porn, gives advice. We talk about the panic people feel when it comes to masturbation, how intimacy is about more than having sex, and how sex changes as you get older. Plus, Cindy shares her go-to sexual fantasy.  

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife 

In this episode, host Jenée Desmond-Harris is joined by Dan Savage, host of the Savage Lovecast. The two get into how to tell your sibling you think they’re in an emotionally abusive marriage, how to share with your parents you’re omnisexual, and how to approach a serious relationship with someone who lets her pre-teens sleep in her bed. 

Anna Lee, co-founder and CEO of Lioness, takes a break from engineering smart vibrators to dish advice. We talk about why you should see sex toys as collaborators, not competitors and how to move past sexual mishaps. Plus, Anna shares how her career has helped her learn to enjoy her body. 

Read the full transcript on our website.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode. 

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Anna Lee: @annaisaverage

Lioness Health: @lionesshealth