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      <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://rss.com/podcasts/honestly-am-i-the-jerk/voicemail" target="_blank">Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note.</a></p><p>Beautiful day lovely humans.</p><p>In today's episode, I'd like to discuss the importance of choosing a partner who aligns with the vision that you have of your future life. In my personal opinion, dating with the intention of marriage, is more than dating a man until one proposes and marries you. I mean, it seems like the easiest thing a woman can do, is get a date with a man, be wined and dine by that man, and have a man tell her how he has fallen in love and wants to marry her.</p><p></p><p>Dating with the intention of marriage, in my opinion, is dating men who you're consciously evaluating to see if he aligns with your core values, the mission that you have for your life, and if he is able to meet your standards. In addition to how well he treats you, and how well you enjoy his company.</p><p></p><p>In this podcast we'll be discussing:</p><ul><li>How to date for alignment</li><li>Why every date is essentially an interview</li><li>Boundaries <strong>MUST </strong>be set early and respected, because. <strong>ACTIONS</strong> matter more than declarations.</li><li>Why you must know your own life's mission and how to use it to identify your ideal partner</li><li>Your standards are a reflection of your self-worth and are essential for your protection</li><li>Why it's important to have a personal telephone number, and a public telephone number</li><li>Every choice that you make in dating impacts your future children</li></ul><p></p><p>I know that I'm just some random woman on the internet sharing unsolicited information lol. But I'm really hoping to share my experiences with other women so that they can learn from my mistakes.</p><p>-Divine Dime 👑💚</p><p></p><p><strong>WEBSITE LINKS</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/">Homepage</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/we-do-recover/">30 Day Lung Cleanse</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/dating-with-the-intention-of-marriage/">blog post associated with this episode</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/is-manifesting-a-sin/">manifestation IS faith</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/self-concept/">Aligned &amp; Anointed</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://thinklikeyouknow.betterhabitstogether.com/">Think Like You Know</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://betterhabitstogether.com/summary-of-how-to-vet-a-man-in-three-months-properly/">My dating vetting process</a></p>]]></description>
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