Get Married, Stay Married

Nurturing Love with Biblical Principles: Exploring Love Languages and Intimacy

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 21:00:07 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Ran Crawford dive into the concept of love languages infused with biblical principles. The discussion opens with a reflection on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and its relevance to love and marriage. They then explore the five love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—offering practical insights and personal anecdotes. Emphasizing the importance of communication, honesty, and mutual respect, the hosts provide actionable advice for nurturing a healthy, loving relationship grounded in Christian faith.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:21 Biblical Principles of Love

02:12 The Power of Words in Love

06:27 Acts of Service in Relationships

09:42 Receiving Gifts and Constructive Criticism

14:07 Embracing Growth Through New Experiences

14:41 The Importance of Quality Time

16:25 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

19:06 Creative Ways to Spend Quality Time

19:35 The Power of Physical Touch

20:12 Addressing Medical and Lifestyle Barriers

24:12 The Significance of Emotional Intimacy

25:33 Exploring and Accepting Love Languages

The Heart of Leadership in Marriage: Co-Leading with Love and Faith

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 22:13:22 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the essence of leadership within a marriage. They emphasize the importance of both spouses contributing to a thriving, God-fearing relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5:21, the discussion covers mutual submission, the roles of spiritual leadership, and the dynamic of co-leadership in various aspects including parenting, finances, and spiritual growth. Through anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they highlight how mutual respect, wisdom, and collaboration are crucial for a successful and balanced partnership. This episode also addresses common challenges and offers practical advice on nurturing each other’s strengths and maintaining unity in the pursuit of a shared vision.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:16 The Heart of Leadership in Marriage

00:39 Spiritual Leadership and Mutual Submission

01:31 The Role of Co-Leadership in Marriage

02:28 Challenges and Solutions in Marital Leadership

06:06 Encouraging Growth and Support in Marriage

13:30 Leadership in Different Aspects of Marriage

15:33 The Importance of a Supportive Village

15:51 Co-Parenting in the Same Household

16:21 Unified Parenting Strategies

18:15 Balancing Humor and Responsibilities

19:51 Embracing Each Other's Gifts

22:12 The Role of Leadership in Relationships

24:28 Navigating Sleep and Work Balance

28:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

The Company You Keep

Mon, 02 Jun 2025 21:39:52 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the critical influence of one's social circle on personal growth, relationships, and faith. They emphasize the importance of surrounding oneself with wise and supportive individuals as per Proverbs 13:20, and examine the negative impacts of toxic company. From dating advice to maintaining a healthy marriage, the discussion covers curating your social media, setting boundaries, and recognizing unhealthy behaviors such as gossip, competition, and lack of support. The hosts also outline the qualities of trustworthy and honest relationships, and the significance of having stretch friends who challenge you to grow. Concluding with a reflection exercise, this episode provides actionable insights for creating a positive and faith-aligned social circle.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

00:13 The Importance of Your Circle

02:01 Influence of Habits and Company

06:11 Toxic Company and Social Media

07:52 Identifying Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships

10:03 The Dangers of Gossip

12:19 Competition and Jealousy

15:04 Lack of Support in Relationships

18:10 The Dangers of Comparison

18:35 Jealousy and Hard Work

20:41 The Importance of Trust in Relationships

22:13 Shared Values and Accountability

25:21 Stretch Friends and Growth Mindset

29:50 Setting Healthy Boundaries

33:15 Reflecting on Your Circle

In-Laws

Mon, 19 May 2025 22:46:26 GMT

Navigating In-Laws in Marriage: Love, Respect, and Healthy Boundaries

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford tackle the sticky subject of in-laws and offer guidance on navigating these relationships. They emphasize the importance of setting clear boundaries, having open communication, and approaching in-laws with love and respect. The discussion covers first impressions during dating, maintaining a positive outlook, and the biblical mandate to honor parents. They also address handling difficult in-laws, the significance of healthy boundaries, and the role of forgiveness. Concluding with advice for maintaining healthy family dynamics and promoting their ebook on effective communication, this episode is a valuable resource for couples aiming to build strong, respectful relationships with their in-laws.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:12 Navigating In-Laws: First Impressions

03:07 Setting Boundaries and Expectations

08:45 Honoring Parents in Marriage

13:09 Healthy Boundaries and Wisdom

17:34 Unchanging Principles in Relationships

18:32 Navigating Rocky Relationships

20:51 Handling In-Law Conflicts

24:08 The Power of Forgiveness

27:02 Advice for Women on In-Law Dynamics

29:50 Men and Cooking: A Modern Perspective

30:32 Conclusion and Resources

Biblical Parenting

Mon, 05 May 2025 21:59:40 GMT

Biblical Parenting: Discipline, Love, and Modern Challenges

In this episode of 'Getting Married. Stay Married,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the principles of biblical parenting. They discuss the importance of Proverbs 22:6 in guiding children, the significance of being an exemplary parent, and how to incorporate God's teachings into daily life. The episode addresses modern parenting challenges, the dangers of leaving out Christ when raising children, and effective disciplinary techniques rooted in scripture. It also touches on the influence of technology and social media, offering practical advice for maintaining a balance between love and discipline. Concluding with a prayer for families and a shout-out to their new ebook on effective communication, this episode is a comprehensive guide for parents striving to raise Christian children in today's world.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:37 Biblical Parenting Principles

05:52 The Importance of Discipline

06:16 Communicating with Your Children

08:50 Discipline in Love

11:50 The Importance of Discipline in Parenting

12:26 Balancing Tough Love and Affection

12:38 The Constant Fight of Parenting

13:07 The Dangers of Too Much Freedom

13:49 Standing Firm on Boundaries

14:32 Teaching Discipline Through God's Word

15:43 The Role of Safety and Technology

16:19 Monitoring Children's Online Activities

17:55 The Influence of Vanity and Pride

18:27 Biblical Guidance for Parenting

21:36 The Power of Apologizing to Your Children

22:33 A Prayer for Families

23:42 Closing Remarks and Resources

Conflict Resolution

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 22:40:29 GMT

Navigating Conflict Resolution in Marriage: Respect, Self-Control, and Effective Communication In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the intricacies of Conflict Resolution in marriage. They discuss the importance of respect, self-control, and effective communication in resolving conflicts. With a focus on maturity, humility, and understanding, they offer valuable biblical insights and practical advice for couples facing disagreements. They also address the dangers of avoidance, misdirected anger, and the impact of unresolved conflicts on relationships. Join them as they break down key strategies for fostering growth and maintaining a healthy, loving marriage.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:30 Understanding Conflict Resolution

01:24 The Importance of Respect in Conflict Resolution

02:10 Effective Communication Strategies

05:11 The Role of Self-Control and Gentleness

09:52 Addressing Avoidance and Silence

25:15 The Power of Apologies and Accountability

32:31 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

God, Love and Football

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 21:30:11 GMT

Passion, Love, and the Pittsburgh Steelers: A Deep Dive into Marriage and Sports Fandom

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford share their enduring love for the Pittsburgh Steelers and how it intertwines with their marriage and family life. The couple discusses their long-term fandom, the emotional highs and lows associated with being sports fans, and how they engaged their children in the Steelers' fandom from birth. They also explore the importance of balancing sports passion with relationship priorities and maintaining strong Christian values. Despite the ups and downs, their love for each other and the Steelers remains strong, making for an engaging and heartwarming discussion.

00:00 Welcome to Get Married, Stay Married

00:35 Steelers Fandom: A Family Tradition

01:52 Falling in Love with Football

05:45 Favorite Steelers Players Through the Decades

11:08 The Importance of Football in Family Life

13:24 Coordinating with Boomerang

13:53 Balancing Sports and Marriage

16:04 Emotional Impact of Sports

18:28 Family and Football Stories

22:32 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

Marriage and Politics

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 21:00:25 GMT

Navigating Love and Politics in Marriage: Finding Harmony

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the complex topic of 'Love and Politics.' They discuss how differing political views can create tension within a marriage, citing a Wakefield research study that reveals 29% of Americans view the political climate as a source of relationship stress. The hosts offer valuable insights on maintaining harmony, respecting each other's opinions, and placing faith and love above political disagreements. With a strong emphasis on Christian values and wisdom, they provide practical advice for couples to navigate these challenging times without letting politics disrupt their union.

Marrying Your Finances

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 20:47:31 GMT

Marrying Your Finances: Trust, Wisdom, and Realistic Expectations In this episode of 'Get Married Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford explore the intricate challenges of managing finances within marriage. They debunk the myth of a 50-50 split, instead advocating for mutual support, transparency, and the importance of aligned financial goals. Covering topics from pre-existing financial conditions to handling addiction and unforeseen expenses, the hosts stress the significance of trust, communication, and financial wisdom. With insights drawn from biblical scriptures and personal anecdotes, this episode is a practical guide for couples aiming to build a strong, financially secure, and united relationship.

Forgiveness and Establishing A Pattern Of Trust

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 21:04:10 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the fundamental elements of forgiveness, trust, and grace in sustaining a healthy marriage. They address misconceptions about forgiveness, stress the importance of reconciliation, and highlight the need for transparency and mutual confession. The conversation delves into overcoming infidelity, distinguishing between minor and major issues, and the spiritual aspects of forgiveness using biblical scripture. Offering practical insights and spiritual guidance, the episode culminates in a prayer for healing and encourages couples to embrace grace for stronger, more loving relationships.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:37 Understanding Forgiveness in Marriage

02:22 The Role of Confession in Forgiveness

05:38 Forgiving Yourself

09:50 Moving Past Infidelity

10:01 Establishing a Pattern of Trust 12:14 Spiritual Perspective on Forgiveness 12:29 The Power of Forgiveness 13:06 Conflict Resolution in Relationships 15:00 Addressing Serious Issues in Marriage 16:04 The Importance of Transparency 17:12 Biblical Teachings on Forgiveness 19:59 Grace and Health 22:17 Healing and Prayer 22:53 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

Integrity

Thu, 10 Oct 2024 21:00:39 GMT

Building a Relationship with Integrity and Honesty

In this episode of 'Get Married Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the importance of integrity in relationships. The discussion covers how integrity and honesty are foundational elements in a successful marriage or partnership. The pair explore the concept through biblical scriptures, offering guidance for those dating or married. Topics include the role of discernment over judgment, identifying low-integrity situations, and how integrity influences intimacy and trust within a relationship. This episode emphasizes the transformative power of integrity in personal and spiritual growth by providing insights into maintaining strong moral principles and nurturing a positive, God-fearing bond.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:37 Defining Integrity in Relationships

03:50 Scriptural Insights on Integrity

09:16 Avoiding Low Integrity Situations

11:27 Maintaining Integrity in Relationships

18:37 The Importance of Positive Growth

23:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Marriage By God's Design

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 19:01:04 GMT

In Season 2, Episode 1 of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the concept of marriage as designed by God. They explore themes of love, sacrifice, faithfulness, forgiveness, strength, unity, and friendship, all grounded in a biblical perspective. The episode emphasizes the spiritual foundation necessary for a successful marriage, referencing scriptures like Ephesians 5:25. The hosts stress the importance of sacrificial love, unity, and the strength needed to sustain a marriage, while also addressing the vital role of faithfulness and forgiveness. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, this episode aims to guide both singles and married couples in understanding and applying God's principles for a thriving marital relationship.

00:00 Welcome to Season 2!

00:44 Marriage by God's Design

01:22 The Importance of Love

03:39 Sacrifice in Marriage

07:15 Faithfulness: A Key to Marriage

10:28 The Power of Forgiveness

14:51 Strength in Unity

19:59 The Role of Friendship

24:16 Closing Remarks and Announcements

Marriage By God's Design

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 14:53:18 GMT

00:00 Welcome to Season 2!

00:44 Marriage by God's Design

01:22 The Importance of Love

03:39 Sacrifice in Marriage

07:15 Faithfulness: A Key to Marriage

10:28 The Power of Forgiveness

14:51 Strength in Unity

19:59 The Role of Friendship

24:16 Closing Remarks and Announcements

Is Love Enough?

Fri, 19 Jul 2024 15:39:30 GMT

In Episode 10 of Get Married, Stay Married," hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford Sr. explore the question of whether love is enough for a successful marriage. They emphasize that the love of God through Jesus Christ is the catalyst to everything else needed in a marriage. They also discuss the biblical perspective on finding a spouse and the importance of operating in love and grace. The hosts share scriptures such as Proverbs 18:22 and 1 Corinthians 16:14, emphasizing the significance of love and charity in building a strong marital foundation. They stress the importance of operating in love and highlight the purity and strength of fermented love, drawing a parallel to the purity of wine used in religious symbolism.

Answering Your Questions

Fri, 14 Jun 2024 04:41:10 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford tackle some of the most pressing questions from their audience. From dealing with a spouse's lack of intimacy and managing tensions caused by video gaming, to addressing infidelity suspicions and setting appropriate disciplinary actions for teenagers, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding, and patience. The episode also provides insights into balancing work, life, and play, and advice on how to navigate challenging situations in both marriages and parenting.

The Sacredness of Marriage: Responsibility, Commitment, and the Dangers of Homewrecking

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 17:44:50 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford dive deep into last week's discussion on the covenant of marriage. They explore the collective responsibility of protecting a marriage, the role of witnesses, and the importance of mindset in maintaining a healthy relationship. The hosts caution against the dangers of homewrecking and emphasize the sanctity of marriage, urging respect and proper conduct whether single, married, or dating. They also share insights on preparing for marriage, the necessity of spiritual guidance, and the impact of good character on enduring love. The episode concludes with a preview of their upcoming show, 'Let's Get Lit,' aimed at tackling challenging topics.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:49 The Covenant of Marriage

02:01 Respecting Other People's Marriages

02:50 The Dangers of Homewrecking

03:58 Red Flags in Relationships

05:29 Emotional Vulnerability and Boundaries

07:26 The Consequences of Homewrecking

18:38 Spiritual Perspective on Adultery

30:18 Preparing for Marriage

35:06 Conclusion and Upcoming Shows

Biblical Reasons For Divorce and Relationship Red Flags

Fri, 31 May 2024 17:38:32 GMT

In this episode of "Get Married, Stay Married," Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the sensitive topic of adultery and relationship red flags and their implications on marriage and dating. They delve into the biblical perspective on reasons for divorce, focusing on the impact of adultery on the covenant of marriage. The hosts provide insights on forgiveness, understanding, and the importance of working through marital challenges. Join the conversation as they navigate the complexities of this emotional and touchy subject, offering guidance and encouraging couples to prioritize the sanctity of marriage. Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion on a crucial aspect of marital relationships.

Non-Verbal Communication and Love Languages

Thu, 23 May 2024 22:00:24 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married', hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the profound impact of non-verbal communication and love languages in relationships. From the significance of eye contact to the intimacy of holding hands, they explore how these subtle gestures can transform and deepen connections. Join them as they share personal experiences and practical tips for nurturing non-verbal communication in your relationship. Whether you're dating or married, this insightful episode offers valuable insights to enhance your bond with your partner. Tune in now and discover the hidden power of non-verbal communication!

Effective Communication

Fri, 17 May 2024 21:00:36 GMT

This video, featuring Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford, emphasizes the significance of effective and respectful communication in Christian relationships. It covers the importance of clear, kind, and assertive communication based on biblical teachings, specifically highlighting Ephesians 4:29-32's guidance on building each other up without bitterness. The discussion extends to identifying and avoiding negative communication styles like passive-aggressiveness and promoting openness and understanding. Furthermore, the video explores the broader context of Christian living, stressing the necessity of genuine faith, proper conduct in dating, and the concept of being 'unequally yoked.' It introduces the 'Forever Yours' challenge to encourage deeper connections through handwritten letters, ultimately aiming to guide viewers toward fostering meaningful, Christ-centered connections through respectful and effective communication.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Effective Communication

00:29 Diving Deep into Effective Communication and Biblical Insights

03:11 Exploring Bitterness and Its Impact on Relationships

05:34 Unpacking Communication Styles: Assertive to Passive Aggressive

11:21 Navigating Communication in Relationships and Marriage

31:58 Understanding God's Communication and Preparing for Change

33:15 Courting as a Christian and Addressing Unequally Yoked Relationships

38:51 Embracing Change and the Power of Handwritten Communication

00:00 Unlocking Effective Communication in Relationships

01:06 The Biblical Foundation of Communication

03:11 Overcoming Bitterness through Proper Communication

05:34 Exploring Communication Styles for Healthier Relationships

09:45 Navigating Passive Aggressive Behaviors

11:21 Creating a Safe Space for Open Dialogue

13:06 The Power of Assertive Communication

19:05 Addressing Manipulative Communication

33:13 Courting and Dating as a Christian

38:36 Embracing Change and Growth in Relationships

40:30 The Forever Yours Challenge: Reviving Traditional Communication

Understanding Your Value

Sat, 11 May 2024 00:35:11 GMT

In this episode, Pastor Crawford and First Lady T discuss the importance of assessing one's value in a relationship, whether single or married. They also reiterate the importance of God in one's life at every stage.

Marriage Is a Covenant, Not a Contract

Fri, 03 May 2024 21:00:36 GMT

In this episode the couple will unpack the reason why people get married. Is it for business i.e status, money, or security or is it for love with no hidden agenda? What does it mean for a wife to submit to her husband? A man must learn how to be the head of his family and this can only happen if they are equally yoked in service to God. Single Men must learn what it means to become a husband and single women must learn what is required of her to become a wife.

The Ten Commandments of Marriage (and Dating) Part Two

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 23:30:18 GMT

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the importance of regular dates to keep the connection alive in a relationship. They offer practical advice on budget-friendly dates, mutual respect, physical touch, and avoiding adultery. The podcast also emphasizes Christ's teachings on fidelity and the impact of lies within a marriage. Finally, they urge couples to work together as a united front.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction to the 10 Commandments of Marriage and Dating

00:11 The Importance of Continuously Dating Your Spouse

00:56 Creative Dating Ideas and Overcoming Busy Schedules

02:37 The Significance of Showing Care and Affection

03:02 Adventures in Long-Distance Dating and Marriage Gestures

04:05 The 777 Rule: Weekly, Monthly, and Yearly Romantic Rituals

06:33 Addressing Adultery: A Deep Dive into Loyalty and Faithfulness

12:25 The Necessity of Attention, Affection, and Acts of Kindness

14:41 Understanding and Expressing Love Languages

16:19 The Critical Role of Honesty in Relationships

18:05 The Complexities of Honesty in Relationships

19:14 Navigating Lies and Trust in Marriage

19:38 Addressing Domestic Violence and Seeking Help

20:19 The Perils of Co-Signing Dishonesty

20:58 The Importance of Repentance and Truth

21:21 Preparing for Marriage with Honesty

22:15 Avoiding Competition and Resentment in Marriage

25:15 Financial Unity and Overcoming Resentment

29:10 Dating Advice for Christians

36:23 Enhancing Communication and Romance

The Ten Commandments of Marriage (and Dating) Part One

Thu, 18 Apr 2024 21:10:34 GMT

In this episode, Pastor Crawford and First Lady Talisha Crawford discuss the 10 Commandments of Marriage and Dating. They talk about the importance of maintaining a healthy and Christ-centered relationship with your spouse. They also emphasize the significance of praying for and uplifting your partner in all aspects of life. For those who are single, the two encourage seeking the kingdom of God first before seeking a spouse. The couple also addresses some sensitive topics in marriage and explains how God views those issues. This is an informative episode, so grab a pen and paper to take notes!

"Get Married, Stay Married"

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 22:38:03 GMT

In this episode, the couple talks about how they met over 29 years ago, and they give a preview of what to expect in upcoming episodes. They encourage viewers to send in questions that they would like to be answered in future episodes.

Join them as they delve into inspiring real-life stories, biblical principles, and practical advice for couples looking to deepen their relationship through a shared commitment to faith. Whether you are single, newlywed, or celebrating decades together, discover how spirituality can anchor your marriage.