<![CDATA[Dear Tober]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober Kasandra and Sara podcast about grief, parenting, hope, and navigating the in between. Sharing personal stories and struggles, as well as some viewer and reddit submissions.

Come spill some tea or diet pepsi with Kas and Sara every second Thursday.

]]> RSS.com 2026.401.141116 Thu, 02 Apr 2026 17:10:12 GMT en 082bc261-8af8-5a8a-81df-292f35111ef4 https://media.rss.com/deartober/20251024_061016_d24210a78271e1ce7d3399d00c6405a1.png Dear Tober https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober yes Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima false episodic podcast Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada false <![CDATA[Episode # : A Fox's Tale]]> Kas and Sara welcome a very special guest: Kas’s mom, Fern. Together, they revisit the emotional landscape of Kas’s pregnancy and the heartbreaking loss of Tober, exploring how Fern experienced those moments as a mother and grandmother. She shares her perspective on supporting Kas through uncertainty, grief, and healing, and reflects on how the loss still echoes a year later.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2681802 fd0dae90-d9f2-4273-ae09-9249c5ce96aa 4121 full 1 1 11 11 false Thu, 02 Apr 2026 17:09:00 GMT false Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada <![CDATA[Episode #10: Fu*k Chuck!]]> In this episode, Sara and Kasandra open up part two of Chuck’s story, diving into the chaos, confusion, and emotional fallout surrounding Kasandra's pregnancy with Tober. They walk listeners through the screenshots from that period, unpacking what was said, what was implied, and what was left unsaid. Kasandra revisits the exact messages Sara sent Chuck that day—messages loaded with frustration, and honesty—while Sara helps contextualize the drama that unfolded around Tober’s birth. Together, they piece through the timeline, the reactions, and the impact those conversations had on everyone involved, offering a raw and unfiltered look at this chapter.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2640501 dec37bd9-5fb5-4dc9-ad86-2634d61f6b4f 3820 full 1 1 10 10 false Thu, 19 Mar 2026 17:09:00 GMT Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada <![CDATA[Episode #9: What the Chuck]]> Kasandra and Sara discuss Chuck in part 1 of their story.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2594025 69e644a7-673a-4d27-96f9-c459b520d051 4188 full 1 1 9 9 false Thu, 05 Mar 2026 18:09:00 GMT <![CDATA[Episode #8 : Reddit Stories Part 2]]> Kasandra and Sara read reddit stories and discuss different topics from previous episodes, and how they relate to the real world.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2559452 14ab2a32-506e-493d-a8cf-eaf3475fd895 4355 full 1 1 8 8 false Thu, 19 Feb 2026 18:09:00 GMT Avenue de Buckingham, Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, J8L 2X2, Canada Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada <![CDATA[Episode #7 : Rainbow After the Storm]]> Kas and Sara speak with their guest Tiffany about her multi-miscarriage journey to motherhood. Her story of grief, and hope as well as the joy of having her babies and the prospect of how different her life may have looked if those losses hadn't happened.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2460599 6f81cf2c-d292-4cc3-8c5f-aaa37cdee06e 4836 full 1 1 7 7 false Thu, 05 Feb 2026 18:09:00 GMT Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada <![CDATA[Episode 6 : Reddit Stories of Loss]]> Kas and Sara read #reddit #stories about #greif and #loss while discussing their personal journeys and #feelings about certain situations.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2460617 c6fe0d6a-50d4-4ff9-8973-58af4c10d627 3729 full 1 1 6 6 false Thu, 22 Jan 2026 18:09:00 GMT Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada Buckingham, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada <![CDATA[It wasn’t my baby but it still hurts anyways]]> On this episode we're joined by our friend Hailey who recounts her perception of the day and the events surrounding Tober's loss. Her guilt of being the only one whose baby survived our joint pregnancy journeys.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2431486 568ea454-66fc-4943-8cee-a94e0b825b76 4577 full 1 1 5 5 false Thu, 08 Jan 2026 18:09:00 GMT Gatineau, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada Gatineau, Gatineau, Outaouais, Quebec, Canada <![CDATA[Merry Friendsmas Episode]]> Kasandra and Sara are joined by Tiff and Hailey, join them as they talk about Friendsmas and their own personal holiday miracles.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2407066 2d95263c-7733-4484-acf4-08a0a3437147 3574 full 1 1 4 4 false Thu, 25 Dec 2025 13:00:00 GMT Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada <![CDATA[Oops I did it again, I broke my own heart.]]> Kasandra and Sara discuss Sara's miscarriage and Kasandra's current predicament as well as some baby daddy drama.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2336230 c16b65b4-c475-4d61-9712-4222cbca05e3 4220 full 1 1 3 3 false Thu, 20 Nov 2025 18:10:07 GMT Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada <![CDATA[Life moves on, but my world stopped!]]> Kas and Sara discuss what it was like going home after the hospital and everything that happened in year 1 of losing Tober.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2324378 d5bd154f-14f4-46af-8eac-0bfdc7958212 3550 full 1 1 2 2 false Thu, 13 Nov 2025 19:00:21 GMT <![CDATA[Welcome to your new normal.]]> Episode 1: Kasandra and Sara discuss Tober's birth and that day in October.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2317858 1d79df81-24ab-462e-8efa-b1def38fd411 2901 full 1 1 1 1 false Thu, 13 Nov 2025 18:10:18 GMT <![CDATA[Welcome to the podcast!]]> Kasandra and Sara introduce themselves, and drop their first official episodes release date.

]]> https://rss.com/podcasts/deartober/2288483 597a2638-56ed-42ea-bc24-ad9b155ce5df 40 trailer 1 1 false Fri, 24 Oct 2025 06:13:47 GMT Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada Ottawa, Eastern Ontario, Ontario, Canada