Behind The Highlight Reels

Permission to Breathe

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 19:00:00 GMT

Cristal and Therisa open in prayer and discuss giving yourself “permission to breathe” by slowing down, resting, and being gentle with yourself instead of constantly moving from goal to goal without celebrating progress. Using workout examples, they explain how pacing, breathing, and rest make the process effective, and connect breath to life and God’s daily mercies. They talk about allowing yourself to feel emotions, resetting and regrouping during heavy situations, and breaking negative habits through intentional, consistent choices rather than perfection, including taking personal responsibility alongside prayer. They share fasting mistakes to illustrate learning, consequences, and grace, encourage scheduling joy and celebration, and ask God for perspective and wisdom. They shout out Whitney’s “ChurchClothez.Faith” brand and close with prayer and anchor verses: 2 Corinthians 12:9, Romans 6:14, and James 4:6.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

01:50 Let’s Breathe

02:57 Goal to Goal Living

04:28 Celebrate the Journey

09:28 Rest and Recovery Matters

09:54 Breathe Through Life Stress

10:40 Feel Emotions and Reset

12:55 Consistency Not Perfection

15:46 Faith Requires Action Steps

17:32 Discipline Over Motivation

19:24 Gods Reminders and Sleep Idol

20:50 God Models Rest

22:25 Fasting Fail Stories

28:20 Grace And Growth

29:55 Schedule Your Joy

31:10 Takeaways And Shoutouts

34:45 Prayer And Anchor Verses

Anchor Verses:

2 Corinthians 12:9
Romans 6:14
James 4:6

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

Goat Sweatshirt: Churchclothez.faith

Cristal:

YAHWEH Shirt: ChurchClothez.faith

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Caught Up In The Aesthetics

Thu, 02 Apr 2026 19:00:00 GMT

Therisa and Cristal open with prayer and discuss what it means to be caught up in aesthetics—prioritizing outward appearances, vibes, and presentation over substance, character, and the heart. They share examples like TikTok-hyped restaurants with poor food and service, Therisa’s shift from her “Naturally Transparent” platform to “Behind the Highlight Reels” to show real struggles, and the pressure of appearing strong while internally drowning, and Cristal’s past suicidal thoughts and the need to check on “strong friends.” They connect the topic to scripture, including 1 Samuel 8 about Israel demanding a king despite warnings, and emphasize building a solid foundation in God rather than chasing appearances in relationships, finances, homes, and life. They encourage viewers to seek help and prayer, share BTHRshow.com resources, and close with prayer and social/streaming platform info.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Topic Intro

00:09 Opening Prayer

00:56 What Aesthetics Really Mean

01:35 TikTok Vibes vs Quality

02:20 From Facade to Real Talk

04:29 When Looking Fine Hides Pain

06:25 Check on Strong Friends

08:42 God Sees the Heart

11:38 Aesthetics in Relationships

13:32 Saul and Samson Lessons

15:39 Dating Fine but Toxic

17:18 Three Little Pigs Lesson

21:20 Applying It Today

24:47 Growth and Healing

27:39 Prayer and Resources

29:56 Shout Outs and Thanks

31:12 Closing Prayer

32:18 Follow and Subscribe

Anchor Verses:

Entire Book of 1st Samuel

Shoutouts:

Therisa & Cristal:

The Lord!
SHEIN still the plug
Our followers and viewers (You all are the best!)

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

We Real Inconsiderate Aint We?!?

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 19:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Behind The Highlight Reels hosts Cristal and Therisa discuss whether we are treating God like a genie in a bottle or are we truly being considerate of God. Do we truly include Him in decisions rather than “checking a box” and moving ahead? They emphasize waiting for God’s answer, being persistent in prayer (ask, seek, knock), and recognizing that God cares about both big and small matters. They talk about treating God like a genie versus cultivating a relationship, referencing the Lord’s Prayer structure, trust and surrender to God’s will and timing, and discernment through the Holy Spirit’s nudges, peace, conviction, or discomfort. They share personal examples about buying a car, house-hunting in a fast market, relationships where God said no, and accepting God’s Will in a family member’s death. They close with four tips:

Go to God about every decision,
Seek the Holy Spirit,
Wait for an answer, and
Surrender the outcome.

Check out this episode and let us know what you think.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Prayer

00:37 Considerate of God

01:48 Waiting for Answers

03:19 God in Small Things

05:42 Renewed Strength Waiting

07:31 Ask Seek Knock

08:53 Hearing No and Not Yet

11:30 Podcast and Box Checking

13:27 God Is Not a Genie

16:49 Quality Time in Silence

19:55 Worship Beyond Silence

22:06 Letting God Lead

23:35 Relationship Not Genie

26:45 Four Decision Tips

28:42 Seek the Spirit

29:36 Wait and Discern

34:15 Surrender the Outcome

36:34 Shoutouts and Verses

39:07 Closing Prayer

Anchor Verses:

Proverbs 3:5-7
Matthew 6:33
Matthew 8:7
Isaiah 40:31

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

Yahweh Shirt: Churchclothez.faith
African earrings: Shein

Cristal:

Anointed Shirt: Pastor Ace

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

When My Mouth Moves Faster Than My Spirit

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 20:00:00 GMT

Welcome to Behind the Highlight Reels with Therisa and Cristal! In this episode, we discuss the challenges of controlling our tongues and the importance of slowing down to listen and think before speaking. Our conversation dives into real-life situations like handling anger in traffic and the struggles of controlling our emotions. We also reflect on biblical principles, including James 1:19, and share personal stories and practical tips on how to align our actions with our faith. Join us for an insightful discussion on how to practice patience, empathy, and understanding in our daily lives. Don't miss out!

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

01:20 When Your Mouth Moves Faster Than Your Spirit

02:53 Controlling Anger and Traffic Frustrations

04:37 Understanding Others' Perspectives

17:21 Leadership and Letting Go of Control

18:57 Impulses and Sharing Personal Information

19:32 The Power of Silence and Timing

20:39 Lessons from David and Joseph

22:22 Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth

26:42 Handling Anger and Triggers

33:56 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements

Anchor Verses:

Proverbs 15:1
James 1:19-20
Proverbs 29:11
Colossians 3:8
Proverbs 12:18
Ephesians 4:26-27
Proverbs 10:19
Psalms 34:13
Proverbs 21:23

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

Outfit: Shein
Pants: Torrid

Cristal:

Attitude in Court: Annalise Keating (The Amazing Viola Davis) **Watch the episode to know what we are talking about

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Love 'Em, Like 'Em, or Just Pray for 'Em (Part 2)

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 20:00:00 GMT

This topic was so good we had to do two parts!! In Part 2 of this episode Therisa & Cristal talk about friendships that hurt but also help you grow, including how friends can “elevate” you by opening your eyes and shaping how you share your life. They discuss taking responsibility when harm happens, learning from therapy that friendships require defined expectations, and recognizing that people have different capacities in different seasons. They emphasize empathy, not setting friends up for failure by expecting strengths they don’t have, and accepting that not everyone communicates the same way or provides closure. The conversation includes personal examples (emergency contacts while single, friends sharing locations, church and travel mishaps, and being accountable in different areas like business, food, or fitness). They wrap up with encouragement to forgive yourself and your friends, choose friends wisely, and seek God’s guidance and discernment, ending with shout-outs and a prayer for divine friendships and community.

Chapters:

00:00 Judas & the ‘Hater Is Your Elevator’ Friendship Lesson

00:49 Friendship Hurt, Accountability, and Becoming More Cautious With Trust

02:26 Therapy Takeaways: Seasons, Percentages, and Setting Expectations

03:48 Not Everyone Communicates the Same: Capacity Talks vs. No-Closure Friends

05:15 Emergency Contacts & Single Life: Who Really Shows Up?

08:03 Don’t Set Friends Up to Fail: Knowing Strengths (Easter Bunny Story)

10:01 Different Friends for Different Goals: Gym, Food, and Accountability

12:23 Friend Roles & Love Languages: Business Friend, Prayer Friend, and Real Talk

14:33 When to Pray vs. When to Be ‘Foolish’: Reading the Room With Friends

15:03 The ‘Call-When-Needed’ Friend: Men’s Perspective, Boundaries, and Standards

15:43 Friendship Standards Change With Seasons (Dating, Marriage, Capacity)

16:57 Forgiveness, No Closure Needed & Don’t Set Friends Up to Fail

17:40 “Friend Had One Job” — The Nashville Breakfast Mix‑Up Storytime

22:31 What Conflict Teaches: Learning Friends’ Triggers, Discernment & Being the Voice of Reason

25:56 Wrap-Up Takeaways: Choose Friends Wisely, Pray, Manage Expectations

26:01 Shoutouts: Brands, Friends, and Inviting Viewers Into the Community

28:22 Anchor Verses Tease + Closing Prayer for Divine Friendships

29:41 Pork Chop Biscuit

Anchor Verses:

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Proverbs 18:24
Proverbs 13:20
1 Corinthians 15:33
Proverbs 27:17
Galatians 6:2

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord: for answering my prayers for divine friendships
My divine friends
Made to Worship shirt: Shein
Our new friends: our viewers!!

Cristal:

T-shirt: God is Dope clothing line
God
All Cristal friends (She named them all in the episode lol)

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Love 'Em, Like 'Em, or Just Pray for 'Em (Part 1)

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 20:00:00 GMT

This topic was so good we had to do two parts!! In Part 1 of this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' Therisa and Cristal dive deep into the evolution of friendships. They start with an opening prayer before sharing their personal journeys, reflecting on childhood friends, the impact of life changes, and how friendships transform over time. They discuss the difference between friends and acquaintances, the significance of meaningful connections, and even touch on the pain of friendships that ended without closure. Through it all, they highlight the importance of divine friendships and the role of acquaintances, best friends, and everything in between in their lives.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

01:22 Childhood Friendships and Changes

04:32 High School and College Friendships

07:07 Adult Friendships and Prayers Answered

12:38 Friendship Challenges and Reflections

14:24 Friendship Dynamics and Wedding Planning

15:49 Unappreciated Efforts and Misunderstandings

19:18 Categorizing Friendships

22:42 Arguments and Reconciliation

25:33 Acceptance and Moving On

27:47 Biblical Perspective on Friendships

Anchor Verses:

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Proverbs 18:24
Proverbs 13:20
1 Corinthians 15:33
Proverbs 27:17
Galatians 6:2

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord: for answering my prayers for divine friendships
My divine friends
Made to Worship shirt: Shein
Our new friends: our viewers!!

Cristal:

T-shirt: God is Dope clothing line
God
All Cristal friends (She named them all in the episode lol)

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Overcoming Insecurities

Thu, 08 Jan 2026 20:00:00 GMT

Join Therisa and Cristal in episode 305 of 'Behind the Highlight Reels' as they dive deep into the topic of overcoming insecurities. They open the episode with a heartfelt prayer, asking for vulnerability and strength from God. Throughout the discussion, Issa and Crystal share their personal insecurities, such as physical appearance and personal value, discussing weight issues and imposter syndrome. They explore how their faith and prayer life help them manage these insecurities. The episode is filled with candid moments, personal anecdotes, and a genuine exploration of how to find security in God. Tune in to see the real-life struggles and faith-driven solutions behind the highlight reels.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:20 Opening Prayer

01:16 Discussing Personal Insecurities

04:49 Imposter Syndrome

09:24 Technical Difficulties and Transparency

12:05 Turning to God for Guidance

14:41 The Importance of Prayer

19:42 Struggles with the Stair Master

20:16 Shifting Perspectives and Prayer

21:01 Gym Insecurities and Overcoming Them

22:54 Weight Loss Journey and Setbacks

24:37 God's Role in Overcoming Insecurities

26:33 Trusting God's Plan

31:29 Enjoying the Journey

34:37 Shoutouts and Closing Prayer

Anchor Verses:

Ephesians 1:3-4
1 Peter 2:9-10
Proverbs 3:5-6

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

Blazer & Earrings: Shein
Workout Trainer: Courtney Duncan, Stay Fit™ for Life (StayFitForLife.net)

Cristal:

Mark 10:45 “Called to Serve” shirt: Shein
Workout Trainer: James, Alpha Lion Fitness (@alphalionfitness23)

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Savior Complex

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 20:00:00 GMT

In this eye-opening episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Cristal and Therisa dive deep into the topic of the 'Savior Complex.' They start with a prayer and then elaborate on what the savior complex is, sharing personal stories and insights. The hosts discuss how the need to 'save' everyone can detract from one's well-being and spiritual growth. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, seeking guidance from God, and understanding one's limitations. They also emphasize the crucial role of rest and intentionality in service and ministry. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that encourages letting go of self-imposed burdens and trusting God as the ultimate savior.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

01:18 Understanding the Savior Complex

02:26 Personal Experiences with the Savior Complex

04:40 The Dangers of Overcommitting

09:59 Root Causes of the Savior Complex

12:23 Transactional Relationships and Childhood Influences

15:15 Realizing Limitations and Seeking God's Guidance

20:52 Balancing Ambition and Divine Alignment

25:19 Trusting God's Plan

25:59 The Savior Complex

27:19 Letting Go and Trusting God

30:17 Balancing Ministry and Personal Life

32:38 Taking Care of Yourself

40:56 Final Thoughts and Shoutouts

Anchor Verses:

Psalms 20:7
Philippians 4:6-7

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord
Gold Collar Clips & Plaid Vest: SHEIN
Viewers, Followers, & Listeners
Workout Trainer: Courtney Duncan, Stay Fit™ for Life (StayFitForLife.net)

Cristal:

Earrings: SBJ Boutique (SBJBoutique.com)
Camo Grace Hat:
Orange Sweat Shirt: Community Love Hub (https://www.communitylove.site)

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Bible in One Hand, Red Flag in the Other

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 20:00:16 GMT

In episode 303, hosts Therisa and Cristal delve deep into the complexities of dating within Christian life. They discuss the difficulties, lessons, and personal growth they've experienced since season two, emphasizing their evolving perspectives on relationships, dating expectations, and personal standards. Both hosts share insights on maintaining abstinence, the importance of non-negotiables, and preparing oneself for a future spouse. With transparency, they reveal their own red flags and areas they've worked on for self-improvement. Join them in this heartfelt, faith-centered conversation about love, relationships, and trusting God's timing.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

00:53 Discussing Dating in Christian Lives

01:45 Changes in Dating Perspectives

03:08 Personal Growth and Expectations

08:00 Challenges and Strategies in Abstinent Dating

17:57 Navigating Temptations and Maintaining Boundaries

26:56 Dealing with Non-Negotiables in Relationships

27:28 Importance of Shared Faith in a Relationship

29:57 Setting and Maintaining Personal Boundaries

30:20 Navigating Romantic Expectations

30:56 Learning from Past Relationships

35:09 Self-Improvement and Personal Growth

38:42 The Role of Control and Flexibility

42:47 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

43:52 Shoutouts and Final Remarks

Anchor Verses:

Proverbs 31:10-12
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Psalms 37:4-5

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord
Cassette Tape “Best of 80s” Earrings: Shein

Cristal:

Earrings: SBJ Boutique (www.sbjboutique.com)
Bible Nerd T-shirt: Bible Museum
Antonio: fine black man that purchased the shirt for her

Both:

Hat Bar Experience & Hats: Sercy Co Nashville, TN

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Is the Gospel Being Watered Down?!

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 20:00:27 GMT

In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' Therisa and Cristal dive deep into the topic of whether the gospel is being watered down in modern church teachings. They discuss the importance of preaching the full message of the Bible, including the consequences of actions and not just focusing on prosperity. The hosts share their thoughts on various preachers and the necessity of conveying both the positive and challenging aspects of Christianity. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on delivering the truth and navigating through spiritual guidance.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

01:02 Discussion on Joel Osteen and Prosperity Teaching

02:53 The Importance of Preaching the Whole Truth

07:19 Personal Reflections on Sharing the Gospel

08:33 Balancing Truth and Timing in Ministry

10:23 The Role of Conviction and Obedience

15:09 Preaching Hell and the Full Gospel

19:59 Living with Christ vs. Living in the World

21:19 Understanding Grace and Forgiveness

22:16 The Journey of Following Christ

23:26 Daily Commitment to Christ

24:15 The Challenge of Change

25:11 Personal Testimonies and Deliverance

27:40 Resources and Guidance for Believers

29:22 Scriptural References and Final Thoughts

34:28 Shoutouts and Conclusion

Anchor Verses:

Revelation 22:18-19
Proverbs 30:5-6
2 Corinthians 4:2
Ezekiel 3:18-19

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord
Earrings & “God’s Favorite” shirt: Shein
Retwist & Style: NuLynie Salon

Cristal:

“Flabbergasted” shirt: Shein
Cristal’s Grandad: Thomas Rouse
World Overcomers: Church and Church Family support
Haven Bible app

Pastor References:

Dr. Kevin A. Williams (New Jerusalem Cathedral, Greensboro, NC)
Pastor Nate Davis (Now Church, Chapel Hill, NC)
Andy Thompson (World Overcomers, Durham, NC)
Jerry Flowers Jr.
Philip Anthony Mitchell
Tony Evans
Priscilla Shirer
Sarah Jakes Roberts
Toure Roberts
Jackie Hill Perry

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

First Fruits

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 19:00:10 GMT

In the premiere of Season 3, co-hosts Therisa & Cristal reunite in Nashville to reflect on their personal journeys and the evolution of their podcast, ‘Behind the Highlight Reels’. Despite facing geographical and personal challenges, they share their gratitude in a heartfelt prayer before diving into discussions about the importance of tithing, their first encounter, and how their friendship turned into a collaborative podcast journey. They also explore the lessons and growth experienced through the seasons, emphasizing the significance of vulnerability, accountability, and recognizing God’s plan in their lives. The episode highlights their commitment to keeping God at the center and celebrating small victories while staying grounded in their spiritual mission. Join them as they embark on a new chapter filled with faith, gratitude, and intentional reflection.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome to Season Three!

00:46 A Prayer for Guidance

01:33 Reflecting on Our Journey

03:19 The Birth of a Podcast Partnership

04:57 Challenges and Growth

08:12 The Power of Vulnerability

12:06 Balancing Responsibilities

17:12 Celebrating Our Progress

20:25 Reflecting on Purpose and Ministry

20:57 Ambition and God’s Timing

22:42 Authenticity in Conversations

27:16 Support and Gratitude

32:53 Faith and Tithing

34:42 Closing Prayers and Farewell

Anchor Verses:

1 Timothy 6:6
I Thessalonians 5:18
Psalms 100: 4-5

Shoutouts:

Therisa:

The Lord
Supporters, fans, followers, subscribers, people who do or don’t like or comment
Graffiti blazer: Shein

Cristal:

Jesus Athletic Outfit: Shein

For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Season 2 Finale - Growing in Spirit: The Final Fruits of Kindness, Goodness, and Patience

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 11:00:32 GMT

In the season two finale of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa dive deep into the final fruits of the spirit: kindness, goodness, and patience. Filled with personal anecdotes, lots of laughs, scriptural insights, and heartfelt prayers, this episode explores the importance of cultivating these virtues in our daily lives. The hosts also reflect on their journey throughout the second season, sharing how they've seen God's work firsthand. Whether you're catching up or tuning in for the first time, this episode promises engaging discussions and spiritual enlightenment. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for updates on season three!

00:00 Welcome to the Season Finale

01:25 Opening Prayer

02:33 Recap of Previous Episodes

02:51 Discussing Kindness, Goodness, and Patience

03:45 Defining Kindness and Goodness

05:02 Biblical References on Kindness

06:37 Personal Stories and Reflections

20:21 The Role of a Shepherd

30:05 Building Trust and Relationships

30:25 God's Goodness Amidst Chaos

31:24 The Defeat of Satan

32:06 Living Out Goodness

36:08 Patience and Faith in Trying Times

36:43 The Importance of Discipleship

46:23 Accepting Jesus Christ

50:39 Season Finale and Future Plans

For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Discovering the Fruits of the Spirit: A Focus on Love, Joy, and Peace

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 11:00:40 GMT

In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, Cristal and Therisa continue their exploration of the Fruits of the Spirit, focusing on love, joy, and peace. They delve into Bible scriptures, sharing personal insights and experiences, and discuss how these virtues can transform one's life. Join them as they pray for guidance, share relatable stories, and provide practical advice on incorporating these fruits into daily living. Discover the deeper meaning behind these biblical principles and how to apply them in your journey of faith.

00:00 Introduction and Prayer

01:17 Discussing the Fruit of Love

04:08 Personal Stories and Reflections on Love

15:49 Exploring the Fruit of Joy

25:17 Understanding the Fruit of Peace

29:26 Recap and Final Thoughts

Business Shout Out:

Therisa’s Shoutouts:

Therisa’s Lipstick: Dusk to Dawn Cosmetics

FB: https://www.facebook.com/DuskToDawnCosmeticsLLC

Website: https://dusktodawncosmetics.com/

Therisa’s Retwist/Hair: Mercedes Howie in Greensboro, NC

IG: @kamiyas_beauty

Address: The Studio Suites on Randleman Rd, Greensboro, NC

Phone number: (336) 328-7087

For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Living the Fruits: Balancing Faith, Gentleness & Self Control in Everyday Life

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 12:00:34 GMT

Join Cristal and Therisa as they delve into the first of a three-part series on the Fruits of the Spirit from Galatians. In this episode, they discuss the challenges and personal struggles with faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Watch as they share their journey and offer tips on how to incorporate these virtues into daily life, backed by personal stories, biblical insights, and lots of prayers. Tune in for an engaging and transparent conversation aimed at spiritual growth and character development.

00:00 Introduction and Overview of the Episode

00:41 Opening Prayer and Setting the Tone

01:17 Discussing the Fruits of the Spirit

04:43 Faithfulness: Personal Reflections and Insights

13:19 Gentleness: Challenges and Growth

19:08 Embracing Humility and Self-Compassion

19:37 Struggles with Self-Control

21:05 The Importance of Self-Control

23:14 Real-Life Examples of Self-Control

26:38 Connecting Self-Control with Faith

33:35 Practical Tips for Self-Control

37:57 Closing Thoughts and Shoutouts

Business Shout Out:

Cristal's Shoutouts:

Cristal’s shirt: SHEIN

Therisa’s Shoutouts:

Therisa’s Lipstick: Dusk to Dawn Cosmetics

FB: https://www.facebook.com/DuskToDawnCosmeticsLLC

Website: https://dusktodawncosmetics.com/

Therisa’s Retwist/Hair: Mercedes Howie in Greensboro, NC

IG: @kamiyas_beauty

Address: The Studio Suites on Randleman Rd, Greensboro, NC

Phone number: (336) 328-7087

For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

True Love vs Social Media Myths

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 12:01:26 GMT

In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels', co-hosts Therisa and Cristal delve into the complex topic of love and media, examining how contemporary portrayals of love have shifted perspectives. They discuss God's view on love, the challenges of dating, and the notion of 'Single Awareness Month'. The conversation touches on the effects of church hurt, the importance of community in faith, the over-sexualization of dating, and the need for realistic expectations set by faith rather than media. The hosts also share personal stories and insights on dating as Christians, the impact of societal expectations on relationships, and the importance of using God's guidance in selecting friends, partners, and mentors. Tune in for deep reflections on keeping Christ at the forefront in all aspects of relationships.

00:00 Introduction and Prayer

01:18 Love and Media: February Focus

02:17 Dating Expectations vs. Reality

03:18 Challenges of Christian Dating

04:49 Church Hurt and Community

10:59 Dating Apps and Over-Sexualization

20:24 Marriage and Social Media Perceptions

34:52 The Role of Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

36:25 Intentional Wedding Planning

37:55 Financial Planning for Weddings

38:18 Honeymoon Priorities

39:07 Setting Boundaries for Wedding Guests

40:53 Godly Relationships and Mentorship

43:41 Divine Connections and Friendships

51:01 Trusting God's Timing for Children

53:58 Shout Outs and Gratitude

56:13 Closing Remarks and Prayer

Business Shout Out:

Cristal's shirt: Only YHWH

IG: @onlyyhwh.llc

Website: onlyyhwh.com

Therisa's church: NOW Church

IG: NowChurchNC

Website: https://www.nowchurchnc.com/

For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

They Not Like Us: Praying for Difficult People

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 00:02:54 GMT

In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa delve into the timely topic of praying for leaders and those we may not agree with, especially in light of the recent presidential inauguration. They share personal experiences, biblical teachings, and practical steps on how to genuinely pray for people in positions of power and those we consider our enemies. The discussion covers heart posture, forgiveness, and trusting God's plan in political and personal realms. Join the conversation and be inspired to see your enemies through the lenses of Jesus.

Bible Verses to Study:

- 2 Corinthians 5:17

- Ecclesiastes 3: 1

- Matthew 5:44-48

- Luke 23:34

- 1 Timothy 2:1-4

- Romans 13:1

- Proverbs 3:5

- Philippians 4:6

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:19 Praying for Leaders and Enemies

02:56 Personal Experiences with Prayer

05:00 The Importance of Forgiveness

08:14 Balancing Grace and Wisdom

11:29 Biblical Teachings on Love and Prayer

18:00 Guarding Your Heart

27:16 The Power of Words and Heart Posture

29:17 Praying for Leaders and Trusting God's Plan

31:32 Testimonies of Faith and God's Provision

33:40 Understanding God's Multiplication and Authority

41:12 Checking Your Heart and Intentions

44:56 Sharing Testimonies and Community Engagement

46:46 Shout outs and Closing Prayer

Business Shout Out: Cristal's shirt: World Overcomers Christian Church

For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

Tech Advances vs. Divine Authority: Finding the Line

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 12:00:21 GMT

In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Therisa and Cristal delve into the thought-provoking topic of how technology can sometimes seem to minimize God's authority. They discuss the ways modern technology has placed humans in a position of control, significantly impacting our reliance on God. They explore various aspects including artificial insemination, the role of medical advancements, and the potential perversion of God's wisdom in these innovations. Despite acknowledging the benefits technology can provide, they emphasize the importance of seeking God as the ultimate source and maintaining humility in our usage of technological advancements. The episode also offers practical tips for balancing faith and technology, urging viewers to read their Bibles and seek divine guidance in all aspects of life.

00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer

00:53 How Technology Minimizes God's Authority

02:16 The Role of Technology in Childbirth

04:33 Ethical Boundaries in Medical Technology

07:05 The Importance of Humility and Faith

10:53 Technology's Impact on Christian Life

18:27 Using Technology as a Resource, Not the Source

25:25 Finding the Right Resources

26:25 Reflecting on Past Sermons

27:06 The Importance of Taking Notes

28:36 God's Plan and Guidance

29:44 Technology and Faith

31:25 Recap and Tips

36:20 The Role of the Holy Spirit

42:13 Shoutouts and Conclusion

Repentance Unveiled: From Theory to Practice

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 12:00:28 GMT

In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Therisa and Cristal discuss the importance of true repentance in the Christian faith. They delve into the biblical and everyday definitions of repentance, sharing personal stories and experiences about turning away from sin and the struggles involved. The conversation highlights the significance of heart posture, intentional prayer, and actionable steps toward genuine change. The episode also includes a prayer session and practical tips for viewers on how to start their own journey towards repentance. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of repentance and find encouragement in your spiritual walk.

00:00 Introduction and Setup

01:09 Starting the Discussion on Repentance

03:43 Defining Repentance

08:35 Personal Reflections on Repentance

14:38 Struggles and Continuous Journey

20:42 Struggles with Sexual Immorality

22:07 Overcoming Addiction: A Personal Story

23:42 The Power of Prayer and Deliverance

25:38 The Journey of Repentance

30:45 Practical Tips for Repentance

36:05 Closing Thoughts and Shoutouts

Holiday Blues: Love, Loss, and New Traditions

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 12:00:39 GMT

In this heartfelt episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa discuss dealing with the holiday blues. They dive into personal experiences of loneliness, grief, and the challenges of coping without loved ones during festive times. They emphasize the importance of community, shared moments, and keeping the memory of those who have passed alive. Tune in for an honest conversation and thoughtful insights on how to navigate the complex emotions of the holiday season.

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00:00 Welcome to the Holiday Blues Special

00:49 Opening Prayer and Setting the Tone

01:39 Personal Struggles During the Holidays

04:11 Coping with Loss and Loneliness

08:48 Navigating Family Dynamics

17:17 Gift Giving and Financial Realities

21:29 Navigating Family Expectations During Holidays

22:05 Cherishing Family Traditions and Quality Time

22:53 Coping with Loss During the Holidays

23:54 Finding Strength in Community

26:36 Balancing Relationships and Holiday Expectations

27:29 Reviving the Joy of Christmas

31:06 Keeping Memories of Loved Ones Alive

35:06 Creating New Holiday Traditions

37:51 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Exploring Boundaries: Healthy Limits and God's Purpose

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 12:01:05 GMT

Welcome to Episode 2 of Season 2 of Behind the Highlight Reels with Therisa and Cristal. In this episode, they delve into the concept of boundaries, addressing its often negative connotation and exploring its true meaning from both a secular and biblical perspective. They discuss the importance of boundaries in various aspects of life, including relationships, work, and spirituality. The episode also touches on personal experiences, the role of therapy & Jesus, and practical tips for setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. Tune in to gain insights on how to create and respect boundaries to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

For information about the weekly Bible Study and the weekly Prayer Call, go to www.bthrshow.com today!

00:00 Welcome to Ep 202

01:15 Understanding Boundaries

05:00 Personal Experiences with Boundaries

09:10 Parenting and Boundaries

14:08 God's Boundaries

27:51 Struggles with Boundaries in Relationships

29:00 Health and Dietary Boundaries

31:03 Biblical Interpretation of Boundaries

35:29 Tips for Setting and Maintaining Boundaries

36:05 The Role of Therapy in Boundary Setting

41:18 Prayer and Spiritual Support for Boundaries

42:45 Realistic and Achievable Boundaries

44:04 Final Thoughts and Shout-outs

Discipline Diaries: Faith, Fitness and Fresh Starts

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:27:48 GMT

In the first episode of Season 2, hosts Therisa and Cristal kick off 'Behind the Highlight Reels' with an insightful conversation about the realistic behind-the-scenes struggles and successes often absent from social media's polished exterior. They share their excitement for the new season, set to launch on November 30th, and dive into transparent discussions about navigating life's challenges and victories.

The episode focuses on the importance of discipline and obedience in various aspects of life, including reading the Bible, being obedient, and committing to personal fitness goals. They highlight the significance of staying true to their faith journey, even when it isn't easy or glamorous, and encourage listeners to embrace the messiness of their own paths. The duo also introduces additional events such as Cristal’s weekly Bible Study “The Word with Friends” and Therisa’s weekly Prayer Call, emphasizing community and support in spiritual growth.

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For information about the weekly Bible Study and the weekly Prayer Call, go to www.bthrshow.com today!