On the other side of devastation she committed to a new path, and persistence landed her in a better position than if they had said yes the first time.

Dr. Rachael Capua, Vice President for External Operations and Dean of Tarleton State Fort Worth, and one of the most impressive women in North Texas education, has built her entire career on a philosophy she wrote for herself during her doctoral program: live life inspired, not intimidated.

In this episode, Rebecca and Dr. Cap sit down like the old friends they are and go deep. Dr. Cap talks about growing up with a single mother who ran her own business and showed her grit in the most organic way — not by what she said, but by what she did. She talks about her uncle, Roy P. Benavidez, a Medal of Honor recipient whose story of surviving the unsurvivable and choosing to fight for education — especially for young people who look like him — still moves her to tears. She talks about impostor syndrome, ageism, the power of just one true friend, and what it really means to be grateful for the no.

And her horse's name… well, you'll just have to listen to find out.

If you're sitting in a no or a rejection right now — this episode was made for you.

If Dr. Cap's story of Uncle Roy moves you — go visit the National Medal of Honor Museum in Arlington, Texas. Just named America's #1 new museum AND one of the world's most beautiful. Roy P. Benavidez's story is there. It's worth the drive.

"Be grateful for the nos — they get you closer to the right yes." — Dr. Rachael Capua

If you're Becky Renfro Borbolla, you cry for a week. Then you get up, go back to night school, and walk through the door that was actually meant for you.

Becky is the Senior Vice President of Renfro Foods and a third-generation leader of one of Fort Worth's most beloved family businesses: Mrs. Renfro's Salsa. Her grandparents started the company in their garage in 1940 during the Great Depression. Today, Mrs. Renfro's is in all 50 states and 30 countries including Dubai, South Africa, and the UK. And the woman on the label? That's Arthurine Renfro - a woman so strong she wouldn't even put her own first name on the jar.

In this episode, Becky and Rebecca sit down like the old friends they are and go there. Becky talks about getting fired in her 20s for saying no to a marriage proposal from the boss's son (yes, really), the winding road that led her to the family business, what it's like to walk into a room in the Middle East as a woman and realize the fear was bigger than the reality, and why she founded Women Steering Business to invest in the next generation of young female leaders.

She also shares something she's kept in her desk for over a decade — a list of rules for life she heard from Cynt Marshall, CEO of the Dallas Mavericks, that she pulls out every week. It's the kind of list you tape to your bathroom mirror. Rebecca loved it so much she's sharing it with the whole herd.

📥 Download "Show Up and Dance: Rules for a Remarkable Life" — the free one-page guide inspired by this episode. -> https://bit.ly/ShowUpAndDance

And yes — Becky's horse is named Genevieve. She always bets on the gray horse. Listen to find out why.

Moment-Makers, this one is going to stay with you.

"Behind a successful woman, there's a great group of girlfriends." — Becky Renfro Borbolla

About the Episode

In this inspiring episode, Rebecca Montgomery welcomes Bob Jameson, the retiring President and CEO of Visit Fort Worth. Under his 13-year leadership, Fort Worth became the fastest-growing tourism destination in the country, driving a $700 million convention center expansion and a $1 billion film industry. But beyond the extraordinary numbers, Bob’s true legacy is written in the words of the women he led, who praise his kindness, patience, and unwavering integrity over any title or result. Whether you are a rising professional or an established executive, this conversation offers a masterclass in leading with a servant's heart and staying true to yourself.

Key Highlights

• The Power of Kindness: Bob reflects on why choosing patience and integrity was never a career risk, but rather his greatest strength in earning loyalty and building collaboration.
• Slowing Down to Hurry Up: Unpacking the false sense of urgency in an instantaneous world, Bob shares why pulling on the reins gives leaders the vital space to think and evaluate human impact.
• Joining the "Moment Makers" Movement: Discover how Bob’s core philosophy that "every single person matters" perfectly mirrors the Moment Makers mission to lift each other up, respect diverse voices, and ensure everyone is fully seen in the room.
• Lessons from Local Icons: Bob shares powerful insights from working alongside legendary female leaders like Kay Granger and Irma Johnson Hadley, highlighting the importance of taking leaps of faith and speaking hard truths.
• Navigating the Storm: A candid look at managing a demanding career alongside family, supporting team boundaries in an always-on digital world, and overcoming the universal hurdles of imposter syndrome.

Take Action: Find Your Freedom

• Name Your Horse: Born in the Year of the Wood Horse, Bob joins the herd's ongoing exercise and names his horse Freedom—capturing the liberating transition into retirement and the joy of choosing his own pace.
• Trust Your Gut: Stop waiting until you hit a certain age or title to believe your voice is worth hearing; raise your hand and bring your ideas to the table today.
• Build Your Circle: Establish a safe, trusted circle of allies where you can be vulnerable, speak your thoughts out loud, and get honest feedback.

Rapid-Fire Fun

Hear Bob’s favorite spot to take first-time visitors in Fort Worth, the single word he uses to describe the city's current era, and the most ridiculous, microplastic-conscious guest request he ever encountered during his 50 years in hospitality.

Enjoyed this golden nugget? If this conversation gave you the nudge, reframe, or reminder you needed today, please leave a review and share it! Pass it along to a woman in your life who needs a little encouragement or needs to name her horse.

Listen now, find your voice, and go for it!

In this personal introduction, Rebecca Montgomery—a builder, leader, and advocate—opens up about the moment she stopped waiting for an invitation to speak into the spaces where she belonged. Whether you are balancing ambition with responsibility or feeling a "quiet knowing" that you are meant for more, this episode is a call to action for every woman to show up for herself.

Key Highlights

• The Cost of Silence: Rebecca discusses how staying silent keeps important conversations from happening and leaves ideas that could move communities forward unspoken.
• Joining the "Moment Makers": Discover what it means to be part of a collective "herd" of women who are choosing to seize the moment, inspire each other, and run free.
• Shedding vs. Strengthening: A look back at the "Year of the Snake" as a season of shedding what no longer belongs, making way for the strength of the "Year of the Horse".
• Meet "River Athena": Rebecca introduces her own "horse"—a dual-named metaphor representing the ability to go with the flow (River) while sensing your own power and spark (Athena).
• The Herd: An invitation to join a community of "Moment Makers" who inspire each other to seize the moment and run free.

Take Action: Name Your Horse

Rebecca leads a guided exercise to help you envision your own strength.

• Identify Her: What does your horse look like? Give her a name that feels like truth when you say it out loud.
• Move Like Her: Stop waiting for approval and start making decisions with the strength and intention of your horse.
• Download the Handout: Use the link in the show notes to download, color, and name your horse. Post it in your office, bedroom, or purse as a reminder that you are enough.

Connect with the Herd

We want to see your horse! Send a picture of your creation to Rebecca@montgomerygr.com to be included in a special project featuring our entire herd of Moment Makers. Download your horse -> https://bit.ly/mmhorse.

Enjoyed this golden nugget? If this episode gave you the nudge you needed, please leave a review and share it with a woman in your life who needs to name her horse today.

Listen now and let your voice run free!